Gemini men

A Friend of mine is dating a Gem. They've been together since Jan this year, however he works away 3 weeks out of 4 so most communication is over the phone. Calls at nights at first and texts during the day. When he is on leave they enjoy everything form sex marathon sessions to going out and all the normal stuff...even bringing the children on both sides into the equation recently. He sometimes pays for her to fly up to where he stays, if he hasn't got his kids for that weekend.

Lately, he's been more distant when he goes back to work. Phone calls have stopped but still texts and now snap chats and sends photos? She feels that's distant or change...what should she do? Is it a normal thing or is he getting too comfortable? I've suggested mirroring his actions but somehow I think she just want to keep it alive and not to start going downhill so early in the relationship. I mean, common, they only see each other once a month!

I tend to do this....I'm a female Gemini but I start out strong then it fizzles out. I have learned not to go in so agressively anymore, now I pace myself, give myself time to process my thoughts and feelings, wants and needs.

Maybe he feels like he's doing all the work to keep the relationship going, it goes both ways. Is "your friend" calling even though he has stopped? I know I get annoyed if there is little to no reciprocation in a relationship. Just a thought.

@ GL, he's the man...I believe he should do most of the work ..

I personally see most of the men regardless of sign doing the hot cold thing...once they get it they don't try do hard anymore. No longer a challenge.

Perhaps I should advise her to not be so available when he's next in town??

I don't believe he's lost interest..maybe lazy like us leebs..or just taking it all for granted!

Posted by JuneBugGem
I even had one guy I'd just met insult me for no reason.

Too funny 😉