Gemini Men~confusing buggers they are!

Can gemini guys just drop a girlfriend without another thought or feeling to it? Here is my confusion. Me and my ex just broke up last week after 2 years, he broke up. Truth is we just were not on the same page anymore, I knew it and so did he. Before we got off the phone, he told me that he still loved me, and that he did not want that phone conversation to be the last time he talked to me, and that he still wanted me to be a part of his life. He just broke up with me...what the heck? So, is he just playing with my emotions? I am not sure what that is supposed to mean?? Any advise on the Gemini side?

I have heard time and time again that Gemini men and women are a lot a like, but I beg to differ. My mom, and 2 sisters are gems, and they act nothing like my recent exboyfriend. They couldn't understand his actions either!

If he truly does want to be friends, he might be taking space so that the two of you can work out any unresolved feelings from the relationship first.

hi

i am sorry for what happened but ...

he loves you but he fears from some thing or he knew that continueing in your relationship will harm you more .

i am a gemmini too .

"Gemini Men~confusing buggers they are!"
Thank-you!! FINALLY some appreciation!!!

"Any advise on the Gemini side?"
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"Also,he talked to you about it & told you what he was doing!!!"
Gemini?...Telling someone of their supposed actions or ACTIONS in general?....hmmm


"Cold guys usually don't even offer an explanation!!!!"
Would you? Hell, you'll be focusing on trying to keep warm.

If he really does want to be friends, that is going to take some time on my part. I am sure it will fade off when he or I meet someone new. You welcome A4 gem..but what is with all the confusion? Indecisive Gemini? Or is it a consious trick of "having your cake and eating it too" like emeraldgem described. Not sure what this is all about either (http://www.geminiexecutivecarservice.co.uk/). I don't think I need to talk to him again, at least not for a while, makes it easier to get over someone that way. He was always confused by me because I was not stuck up his butt and on his heels on the time, I never asked a lot of questions either, so he proclamed that I didn't try to know the real him. I didn't think Gemini's liked to be smothered— But, I guess to try now is a lost cause anyway. Thanks for the advise and info though!

I thought so too em-gem. If he wanted me to know he would tell me. Of course I always ask how his day went, and what he was doing. If I did ask very many detailed questions, he did seem to get aggravated, I learned that early on. I think my conclusion of this relationship is this. We did care about each other. I loved how adventurous he was, and the ideas that just flowed out of him. I guess he didn't trust me enough to reveal the real him "classic Gemini trait, after being hurt", and I didn't completely trust him with my heart "classic Pisces trait after being hurt. A mixture of the two was disastrous. I am just glad for the experience though.