Gemini Mother

I do not talk to her much, I shut her out

She never shared her emotions growing up (I was loved just didn't get the emotional support from her)

If I tried talking to her about anything emotional, she'd shut me out (she's like this with all of her children, we even talk about how she's this way)

No friends, literally! ZERO

She pretends to be happy in the eyes of others & loves to pretend that her life is error free

Always tagging me on Facebook with these love quotes but never actually say these things to me

She's weird as hell

Now that I'm reaching my career goals and not sharing details, she's acting all supportive and calling

Sometimes when she calls, my stomach turns

I really don't know her to be honest, she's kind of cold to me

She's superficial

Point of this thread, she's the only Gem I personally know and to be honest, I don't like her

And whenever someone tells me they're a Gem, I instantly judge them and do away with them

I know what traits Gem have and it seems like she doesn't even have the positive traits of a Gem, she is really wired wrong

My moms the same way but just actually started telling me a few secrets mine is really quiet doesn't really act like some gtm's I know

Posted by urbansophisticate
I do not talk to her much, I shut her out

She never shared her emotions growing up (I was loved just didn't get the emotional support from her)

If I tried talking to her about anything emotional, she'd shut me out (she's like this with all of her children, we even talk about how she's this way)

No friends, literally! ZERO

She pretends to be happy in the eyes of others & loves to pretend that her life is error free

Always tagging me on Facebook with these love quotes but never actually say these things to me

She's weird as hell

Now that I'm reaching my career goals and not sharing details, she's acting all supportive and calling

Sometimes when she calls, my stomach turns

I really don't know her to be honest, she's kind of cold to me

She's superficial

Point of this thread, she's the only Gem I personally know and to be honest, I don't like her

And whenever someone tells me they're a Gem, I instantly judge them and do away with them

I know what traits Gem have and it seems like she doesn't even have the positive traits of a Gem, she is really wired wrong

Have you tried talking to her instead of judging her based off of your astrology hobby.

Do you know her history or mental perspectives of her childhood.

Maybe you should try to reach out and understand her...you say she's superficial but so are you judging her by astrology.

@littlenanobyte

From these responses, a lot of people agree with me, Gems are like that

I should've used a better choice of words bc I knew someone would take thread personal

Instead of saying judging, I do away with Gems as a defense mechanism

I mean can ya blame me

You responded in a tone that otherwise suggests you give a fuck (you're angry at me)

You said you started to give a "decent" response then you said this donkey doesn't deserve one, okay lol

Lots of emotions swirling around for someone that doesn't give a fuck

What I don't want is pity just wanted to see what other "Gems" thought

@happyface1

Yes, I'm a big communicator. I tried seeking counseling (even as a kid). She refused.

She called the police on me once because I tried talking to her & when I wouldn't stop talking, she called the police. No domestic violence , yelling or anything, she just couldn't "talk" so she needed the police to tell me to stop talking to her. (I'm so serious) Just an example of how hard it is for her to talk

I don't know too much about her childhood. I do know she grew up without a father so perhaps it weighs on her personality. I'm most certain of it.

She is a hard working woman just acts all fake and stuff, thats weird to me

I'm sure my days of reaching out to her are over. I've done it all my life. Im 27 now, my oldest sister is 32, youngest 23...We all do not talk to her. But she gets on fb and tag us like we have this super close knit relationship & it's disgusting. It's like you don't act like this in real life. lol. She's toxic to me. I'm not bitter I'm more so realistic to how I think. We can't choose our family but I definitely can choose who I want to remain in my life.

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Maybe she finds it hard to verbally express her love for you. Maybe that's why she tags you on Facebook. I'm sorry to hear you didn't get a lot of emotional support from your mum. Gemini is associated with ideas rather than emotions. She probably struggles with the emotional aspect of patenting.

Ideas? Could you explain further?

So she's thinking of ideas in her head and they remain there untouched by anyone but herself?