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Posted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xy
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Elaborate please.
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Hmmm...and why are you doing this?
What was the question?click to expand

Posted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xy
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Elaborate please.
☀
Hmmm...and why are you doing this?
What was the question?
I wanted to know if my demands are due to me being a Gemini or it’s my personal issue?
The first and third decan will disagree with me.
You're happy in the purest form. It won't hurt to shape it up a bit. Meet in the middle? I think what he told you was more than enough.
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Posted by nanobot
No that's not a Gemini thing. That's your leo moon needing constant validation and reassurance 🦁
It sounded to me like he said what you wanted him to say and beyond.... Soooo what's the problem?

Posted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xy
🌄
Elaborate please.
☀
Hmmm...and why are you doing this?
What was the question?
I wanted to know if my demands are due to me being a Gemini or it’s my personal issue?
The first and third decan will disagree with me.
You're happy in the purest form. It won't hurt to shape it up a bit. Meet in the middle? I think what he told you was more than enough.
You think? I am May 26. So I am first decan. Why would 1st and 3rd disagree? Would they think as I do?
That he should answer as I wanted?
I can only speak for the second decans.
Can you describe the aries?click to expand

Posted by LethalFantasia
Just accept the fact that you deserve the good things and all the lahv and beauty that has come and continues to come your way! Don't question it, be thankful and just accept it! lolz.

Posted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xy
🌄
Elaborate please.
☀
Hmmm...and why are you doing this?
What was the question?
I wanted to know if my demands are due to me being a Gemini or it’s my personal issue?
The first and third decan will disagree with me.
You're happy in the purest form. It won't hurt to shape it up a bit. Meet in the middle? I think what he told you was more than enough.
You think? I am May 26. So I am first decan. Why would 1st and 3rd disagree? Would they think as I do?
That he should answer as I wanted?
I can only speak for the second decans.
Can you describe the aries?
Describe the Aries?
8 months he sends me texts with flowers every morning. Not one day missed!
Single Dad to a teen with full temp custody.
Animal lover. Kind. Gorgeous. Cave man. Musician. Writer. Crazy ass. Funny as hell! Open. Talking too much. We’ve clicked from the first sight. Communicating all day every day. Meeting bi-weekly for 3days.
Neighboring states. Active...and having Aqua moon totally not affectionate since he moved to his own place with his son. Boy loves me. We are good friends. So he was different when we were ‘dating in hotels’. Now he is all uneasy.
It drives me nuts! He writes to me. He tells me I am IT!
That’s what makes me the way I am.
Neurotic.
However he makes me laugh all the time and watching chic flics with me.
😂😂😂
Aww
He's an aqua moon like me 😘
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Posted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xy
🌄
Elaborate please.
☀
Hmmm...and why are you doing this?
What was the question?
I wanted to know if my demands are due to me being a Gemini or it’s my personal issue?
The first and third decan will disagree with me.
You're happy in the purest form. It won't hurt to shape it up a bit. Meet in the middle? I think what he told you was more than enough.
You think? I am May 26. So I am first decan. Why would 1st and 3rd disagree? Would they think as I do?
That he should answer as I wanted?
I can only speak for the second decans.
Can you describe the aries?
Describe the Aries?
8 months he sends me texts with flowers every morning. Not one day missed!
Single Dad to a teen with full temp custody.
Animal lover. Kind. Gorgeous. Cave man. Musician. Writer. Crazy ass. Funny as hell! Open. Talking too much. We’ve clicked from the first sight. Communicating all day every day. Meeting bi-weekly for 3days.
Neighboring states. Active...and having Aqua moon totally not affectionate since he moved to his own place with his son. Boy loves me. We are good friends. So he was different when we were ‘dating in hotels’. Now he is all uneasy.
It drives me nuts! He writes to me. He tells me I am IT!
That’s what makes me the way I am.
Neurotic.
However he makes me laugh all the time and watching chic flics with me.
😂😂😂
Aww
He's an aqua moon like me 😘
Yeah...and Pisces/Pisces Merx/Venus
I need someone to read his chart for me. Or our synastry. Or both.
You Aquas are not so touchy are you?
Aqua moons? We are.click to expand

Posted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xy
🌄
Elaborate please.
☀
Hmmm...and why are you doing this?
What was the question?
I wanted to know if my demands are due to me being a Gemini or it’s my personal issue?
The first and third decan will disagree with me.
You're happy in the purest form. It won't hurt to shape it up a bit. Meet in the middle? I think what he told you was more than enough.
You think? I am May 26. So I am first decan. Why would 1st and 3rd disagree? Would they think as I do?
That he should answer as I wanted?
I can only speak for the second decans.
Can you describe the aries?
Describe the Aries?
8 months he sends me texts with flowers every morning. Not one day missed!
Single Dad to a teen with full temp custody.
Animal lover. Kind. Gorgeous. Cave man. Musician. Writer. Crazy ass. Funny as hell! Open. Talking too much. We’ve clicked from the first sight. Communicating all day every day. Meeting bi-weekly for 3days.
Neighboring states. Active...and having Aqua moon totally not affectionate since he moved to his own place with his son. Boy loves me. We are good friends. So he was different when we were ‘dating in hotels’. Now he is all uneasy.
It drives me nuts! He writes to me. He tells me I am IT!
That’s what makes me the way I am.
Neurotic.
However he makes me laugh all the time and watching chic flics with me.
😂😂😂
Aww
He's an aqua moon like me 😘
Yeah...and Pisces/Pisces Merx/Venus
I need someone to read his chart for me. Or our synastry. Or both.
You Aquas are not so touchy are you?
Aqua moons? We are.
You are what?
Affectionate or not?
I’ve heard from other Aqua mooners that they are on a colder side. No?
Probably depends on a sun and other placements. 🤷♀️
I'm very affectionate but very few people see this side. If i'm not comfortable for some reason, i'm going to contain myself.click to expand


Posted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xy
🌄
Elaborate please.
☀
Hmmm...and why are you doing this?
What was the question?
I wanted to know if my demands are due to me being a Gemini or it’s my personal issue?
The first and third decan will disagree with me.
You're happy in the purest form. It won't hurt to shape it up a bit. Meet in the middle? I think what he told you was more than enough.
You think? I am May 26. So I am first decan. Why would 1st and 3rd disagree? Would they think as I do?
That he should answer as I wanted?
I can only speak for the second decans.
Can you describe the aries?
Describe the Aries?
8 months he sends me texts with flowers every morning. Not one day missed!
Single Dad to a teen with full temp custody.
Animal lover. Kind. Gorgeous. Cave man. Musician. Writer. Crazy ass. Funny as hell! Open. Talking too much. We’ve clicked from the first sight. Communicating all day every day. Meeting bi-weekly for 3days.
Neighboring states. Active...and having Aqua moon totally not affectionate since he moved to his own place with his son. Boy loves me. We are good friends. So he was different when we were ‘dating in hotels’. Now he is all uneasy.
It drives me nuts! He writes to me. He tells me I am IT!
That’s what makes me the way I am.
Neurotic.
However he makes me laugh all the time and watching chic flics with me.
😂😂😂
Aww
He's an aqua moon like me 😘
Yeah...and Pisces/Pisces Merx/Venus
I need someone to read his chart for me. Or our synastry. Or both.
You Aquas are not so touchy are you?
Aqua moons? We are.
You are what?
Affectionate or not?
I’ve heard from other Aqua mooners that they are on a colder side. No?
Probably depends on a sun and other placements. 🤷♀️click to expand


Posted by Ram416Posted by Phantom_Limbo
Girl, get a hobby.
You told her, girl! 👍
The Aries IS her hobby lmaoclick to expand

Posted by Ram416Posted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xy
🌄
Elaborate please.
☀
Hmmm...and why are you doing this?
What was the question?
I wanted to know if my demands are due to me being a Gemini or it’s my personal issue?
The first and third decan will disagree with me.
You're happy in the purest form. It won't hurt to shape it up a bit. Meet in the middle? I think what he told you was more than enough.
You think? I am May 26. So I am first decan. Why would 1st and 3rd disagree? Would they think as I do?
That he should answer as I wanted?
I can only speak for the second decans.
Can you describe the aries?
Describe the Aries?
8 months he sends me texts with flowers every morning. Not one day missed!
Single Dad to a teen with full temp custody.
Animal lover. Kind. Gorgeous. Cave man. Musician. Writer. Crazy ass. Funny as hell! Open. Talking too much. We’ve clicked from the first sight. Communicating all day every day. Meeting bi-weekly for 3days.
Neighboring states. Active...and having Aqua moon totally not affectionate since he moved to his own place with his son. Boy loves me. We are good friends. So he was different when we were ‘dating in hotels’. Now he is all uneasy.
It drives me nuts! He writes to me. He tells me I am IT!
That’s what makes me the way I am.
Neurotic.
However he makes me laugh all the time and watching chic flics with me.
😂😂😂
Aww
He's an aqua moon like me 😘
Yeah...and Pisces/Pisces Merx/Venus
I need someone to read his chart for me. Or our synastry. Or both.
You Aquas are not so touchy are you?
Aqua moons? We are.
You are what?
Affectionate or not?
I’ve heard from other Aqua mooners that they are on a colder side. No?
Probably depends on a sun and other placements. 🤷♀️
Yes. My Aries sun/Aqua moon ex never expressed ANY interest because she said she was intimidated by the Scorpio I was dating (it was an open relationship). She kept her interest well hidden for 3 years lol.click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by Ram416Posted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xy
🌄
Elaborate please.
☀
Hmmm...and why are you doing this?
What was the question?
I wanted to know if my demands are due to me being a Gemini or it’s my personal issue?
The first and third decan will disagree with me.
You're happy in the purest form. It won't hurt to shape it up a bit. Meet in the middle? I think what he told you was more than enough.
You think? I am May 26. So I am first decan. Why would 1st and 3rd disagree? Would they think as I do?
That he should answer as I wanted?
I can only speak for the second decans.
Can you describe the aries?
Describe the Aries?
8 months he sends me texts with flowers every morning. Not one day missed!
Single Dad to a teen with full temp custody.
Animal lover. Kind. Gorgeous. Cave man. Musician. Writer. Crazy ass. Funny as hell! Open. Talking too much. We’ve clicked from the first sight. Communicating all day every day. Meeting bi-weekly for 3days.
Neighboring states. Active...and having Aqua moon totally not affectionate since he moved to his own place with his son. Boy loves me. We are good friends. So he was different when we were ‘dating in hotels’. Now he is all uneasy.
It drives me nuts! He writes to me. He tells me I am IT!
That’s what makes me the way I am.
Neurotic.
However he makes me laugh all the time and watching chic flics with me.
😂😂😂
Aww
He's an aqua moon like me 😘
Yeah...and Pisces/Pisces Merx/Venus
I need someone to read his chart for me. Or our synastry. Or both.
You Aquas are not so touchy are you?
Aqua moons? We are.
You are what?
Affectionate or not?
I’ve heard from other Aqua mooners that they are on a colder side. No?
Probably depends on a sun and other placements. 🤷♀️
Yes. My Aries sun/Aqua moon ex never expressed ANY interest because she said she was intimidated by the Scorpio I was dating (it was an open relationship). She kept her interest well hidden for 3 years lol.
But THEN she had expressed it?click to expand

Posted by Ram416Posted by GemitatiPosted by Ram416Posted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xy
🌄
Elaborate please.
☀
Hmmm...and why are you doing this?
What was the question?
I wanted to know if my demands are due to me being a Gemini or it’s my personal issue?
The first and third decan will disagree with me.
You're happy in the purest form. It won't hurt to shape it up a bit. Meet in the middle? I think what he told you was more than enough.
You think? I am May 26. So I am first decan. Why would 1st and 3rd disagree? Would they think as I do?
That he should answer as I wanted?
I can only speak for the second decans.
Can you describe the aries?
Describe the Aries?
8 months he sends me texts with flowers every morning. Not one day missed!
Single Dad to a teen with full temp custody.
Animal lover. Kind. Gorgeous. Cave man. Musician. Writer. Crazy ass. Funny as hell! Open. Talking too much. We’ve clicked from the first sight. Communicating all day every day. Meeting bi-weekly for 3days.
Neighboring states. Active...and having Aqua moon totally not affectionate since he moved to his own place with his son. Boy loves me. We are good friends. So he was different when we were ‘dating in hotels’. Now he is all uneasy.
It drives me nuts! He writes to me. He tells me I am IT!
That’s what makes me the way I am.
Neurotic.
However he makes me laugh all the time and watching chic flics with me.
😂😂😂
Aww
He's an aqua moon like me 😘
Yeah...and Pisces/Pisces Merx/Venus
I need someone to read his chart for me. Or our synastry. Or both.
You Aquas are not so touchy are you?
Aqua moons? We are.
You are what?
Affectionate or not?
I’ve heard from other Aqua mooners that they are on a colder side. No?
Probably depends on a sun and other placements. 🤷♀️
Yes. My Aries sun/Aqua moon ex never expressed ANY interest because she said she was intimidated by the Scorpio I was dating (it was an open relationship). She kept her interest well hidden for 3 years lol.
But THEN she had expressed it?
A year after I broke up with the Scorpio.
Aries was always watching her own words, hesitating a lot. Not verbally expressive and prefers to write everything down.click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by Ram416Posted by GemitatiPosted by Ram416Posted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xyPosted by GemitatiPosted by generation_xy
🌄
Elaborate please.
☀
Hmmm...and why are you doing this?
What was the question?
I wanted to know if my demands are due to me being a Gemini or it’s my personal issue?
The first and third decan will disagree with me.
You're happy in the purest form. It won't hurt to shape it up a bit. Meet in the middle? I think what he told you was more than enough.
You think? I am May 26. So I am first decan. Why would 1st and 3rd disagree? Would they think as I do?
That he should answer as I wanted?
I can only speak for the second decans.
Can you describe the aries?
Describe the Aries?
8 months he sends me texts with flowers every morning. Not one day missed!
Single Dad to a teen with full temp custody.
Animal lover. Kind. Gorgeous. Cave man. Musician. Writer. Crazy ass. Funny as hell! Open. Talking too much. We’ve clicked from the first sight. Communicating all day every day. Meeting bi-weekly for 3days.
Neighboring states. Active...and having Aqua moon totally not affectionate since he moved to his own place with his son. Boy loves me. We are good friends. So he was different when we were ‘dating in hotels’. Now he is all uneasy.
It drives me nuts! He writes to me. He tells me I am IT!
That’s what makes me the way I am.
Neurotic.
However he makes me laugh all the time and watching chic flics with me.
😂😂😂
Aww
He's an aqua moon like me 😘
Yeah...and Pisces/Pisces Merx/Venus
I need someone to read his chart for me. Or our synastry. Or both.
You Aquas are not so touchy are you?
Aqua moons? We are.
You are what?
Affectionate or not?
I’ve heard from other Aqua mooners that they are on a colder side. No?
Probably depends on a sun and other placements. 🤷♀️
Yes. My Aries sun/Aqua moon ex never expressed ANY interest because she said she was intimidated by the Scorpio I was dating (it was an open relationship). She kept her interest well hidden for 3 years lol.
But THEN she had expressed it?
A year after I broke up with the Scorpio.
Aries was always watching her own words, hesitating a lot. Not verbally expressive and prefers to write everything down.
What IS that? Self control or sabotage?click to expand

Posted by LethalFantasia
Just accept the fact that you deserve the good things and all the lahv and beauty that has come and continues to come your way! Don't question it, be thankful and just accept it! lolz.



Posted by FeelingGemini
I agree with Bll. Especially the last sentence. I think what you need, he needs even more, to make him emotionally assured you feel that way.
Fire needs a lot of assurance and constant repetition of emotions of love towards them. Even if they say it's annoying, it makes their fire burning brighter. Then the words will come out of his mouth just the way you need and want them to.
Good luck!
(I like Gemini-Aries pairing)

Posted by Bll
I think Nano might be right that it’s your leo moon. Leos will ask me to praise them, and as an aries, I will just never give them EXACTLY what they’re asking for, because I think they should already know how I feel about them, as I haven’t made many - or any - complaints. Plus I just find the questions ridiculous, so it’s like... I’m not dignifying that with a response. Lol.
But I see your side too! It’s probably just semantics, but... why not just say he’s in love with you, right? So annoying. He doesn’t want to tell you that on command, that’s why.
Try going about it the other way - instead of asking him if he is in love with you, tell him that you are in love with him!


Posted by RooSagicorn
Omg!!! How did he not say he’s in love with you?? He said so much more.. his actions, his words. He’s an Aries & stubborn, he is not going to say it how you want it, just because. 😂😂 aqua moon says it like this?
It’s not even in writing!
It’s better than saying I’m in love with you. Talk about stubborn .. he puts up with all your questions.. ❤️ He’s a sweetie! With all his artsy fartsy ways & all. Just believe!

Posted by Phantom_Limbo
I didn't say you needed a hobby just to be an ass. You need to be more than just a vessel of WANT and NEED. Anyone will get tired of that eventually.

Posted by LadyNeptune
He could say it a million different ways and you still wouldn't accept it. You gotta love yourself before you can believe you are worthy of others love.
Anyways words are easy, they cost a person nothing. Your cap husband must've said those love proclamations at the beginning too. Didn't amount to much in the end.
If you turn down the volume, what is left?
Actions over words.

Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
He could say it a million different ways and you still wouldn't accept it. You gotta love yourself before you can believe you are worthy of others love.
Anyways words are easy, they cost a person nothing. Your cap husband must've said those love proclamations at the beginning too. Didn't amount to much in the end.
If you turn down the volume, what is left?
Actions over words.
I am accepting him just great.
I had never dated anybody my age or younger. This is why I am all in doubts. I look my age!
He is absolutely gorgeous. Even my Cancer mother who hates everybody even her ex SIL who is the father of her granddaughter - became his groupie! And when he joked about his T count level...saying he might become missis Richards...my mom said so what? You can be a lesbians!
😂😂😂
He can have much younger woman. I have insecurities for the first time in my life! It sucks! So I am diffing. Lolclick to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
He could say it a million different ways and you still wouldn't accept it. You gotta love yourself before you can believe you are worthy of others love.
Anyways words are easy, they cost a person nothing. Your cap husband must've said those love proclamations at the beginning too. Didn't amount to much in the end.
If you turn down the volume, what is left?
Actions over words.
I am accepting him just great.
I had never dated anybody my age or younger. This is why I am all in doubts. I look my age!
He is absolutely gorgeous. Even my Cancer mother who hates everybody even her ex SIL who is the father of her granddaughter - became his groupie! And when he joked about his T count level...saying he might become missis Richards...my mom said so what? You can be a lesbians!
😂😂😂
He can have much younger woman. I have insecurities for the first time in my life! It sucks! So I am diffing. Lol
Thats a good thing tho. This says a lot. You know he isn't settling for what he can get vs what he wants. He can have a younger woman BUT he chooses you.
Seeing you say something positive about Tati's relationship genuinely just made my heart grow three sizes.
I might have to adjust my attitude.click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
He could say it a million different ways and you still wouldn't accept it. You gotta love yourself before you can believe you are worthy of others love.
Anyways words are easy, they cost a person nothing. Your cap husband must've said those love proclamations at the beginning too. Didn't amount to much in the end.
If you turn down the volume, what is left?
Actions over words.
I am accepting him just great.
I had never dated anybody my age or younger. This is why I am all in doubts. I look my age!
He is absolutely gorgeous. Even my Cancer mother who hates everybody even her ex SIL who is the father of her granddaughter - became his groupie! And when he joked about his T count level...saying he might become missis Richards...my mom said so what? You can be a lesbians!
😂😂😂
He can have much younger woman. I have insecurities for the first time in my life! It sucks! So I am diffing. Lol
Thats a good thing tho. This says a lot. You know he isn't settling for what he can get vs what he wants. He can have a younger woman BUT he chooses you.
Seeing you say something positive about Tati's relationship genuinely just made my heart grow three sizes.
I might have to adjust my attitude.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
He could say it a million different ways and you still wouldn't accept it. You gotta love yourself before you can believe you are worthy of others love.
Anyways words are easy, they cost a person nothing. Your cap husband must've said those love proclamations at the beginning too. Didn't amount to much in the end.
If you turn down the volume, what is left?
Actions over words.
I am accepting him just great.
I had never dated anybody my age or younger. This is why I am all in doubts. I look my age!
He is absolutely gorgeous. Even my Cancer mother who hates everybody even her ex SIL who is the father of her granddaughter - became his groupie! And when he joked about his T count level...saying he might become missis Richards...my mom said so what? You can be a lesbians!
😂😂😂
He can have much younger woman. I have insecurities for the first time in my life! It sucks! So I am diffing. Lol
Thats a good thing tho. This says a lot. You know he isn't settling for what he can get vs what he wants. He can have a younger woman BUT he chooses you.
Seeing you say something positive about Tati's relationship genuinely just made my heart grow three sizes.
I might have to adjust my attitude.
Lol I feel like I am pretty positive typically, people just take offense at my words.
Have always advised her to be honest with her cap husband, to stop the lies. Divorce him if she's so unhappy.
Told her the scorpio was just wasting her time and if he was gonna leave his family for her he would've by now.
Also told her that half of the appeal of the affair with scorp is based on the unattainable and if she actually got him it would kill the excitement.
Life is too short to lie to yourself and everyone around you. She came clean to cap and now they are getting a divorce.click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
He could say it a million different ways and you still wouldn't accept it. You gotta love yourself before you can believe you are worthy of others love.
Anyways words are easy, they cost a person nothing. Your cap husband must've said those love proclamations at the beginning too. Didn't amount to much in the end.
If you turn down the volume, what is left?
Actions over words.
I am accepting him just great.
I had never dated anybody my age or younger. This is why I am all in doubts. I look my age!
He is absolutely gorgeous. Even my Cancer mother who hates everybody even her ex SIL who is the father of her granddaughter - became his groupie! And when he joked about his T count level...saying he might become missis Richards...my mom said so what? You can be a lesbians!
😂😂😂
He can have much younger woman. I have insecurities for the first time in my life! It sucks! So I am diffing. Lol
Thats a good thing tho. This says a lot. You know he isn't settling for what he can get vs what he wants. He can have a younger woman BUT he chooses you.
Seeing you say something positive about Tati's relationship genuinely just made my heart grow three sizes.
I might have to adjust my attitude.
Lol I feel like I am pretty positive typically, people just take offense at my words.
Have always advised her to be honest with her cap husband, to stop the lies. Divorce him if she's so unhappy.
Told her the scorpio was just wasting her time and if he was gonna leave his family for her he would've by now.
Also told her that half of the appeal of the affair with scorp is based on the unattainable and if she actually got him it would kill the excitement.
Life is too short to lie to yourself and everyone around you. She came clean to cap and now they are getting a divorce.
I see. But have you really thought that anything would change if you hanged over my ass saying same crap all over again for years?
Things changed organically and FYI Scorpio is still not over! Yep! He is inquiring about me from people who haven’t suspected anything but now they do! Lmao
And to be honest...game isn’t over!
I am just not injured player anymore.
So...we will see. Maybe even have a drink on your boat! Lolclick to expand


Posted by gemNiPosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
He could say it a million different ways and you still wouldn't accept it. You gotta love yourself before you can believe you are worthy of others love.
Anyways words are easy, they cost a person nothing. Your cap husband must've said those love proclamations at the beginning too. Didn't amount to much in the end.
If you turn down the volume, what is left?
Actions over words.
I am accepting him just great.
I had never dated anybody my age or younger. This is why I am all in doubts. I look my age!
He is absolutely gorgeous. Even my Cancer mother who hates everybody even her ex SIL who is the father of her granddaughter - became his groupie! And when he joked about his T count level...saying he might become missis Richards...my mom said so what? You can be a lesbians!
😂😂😂
He can have much younger woman. I have insecurities for the first time in my life! It sucks! So I am diffing. Lol
Thats a good thing tho. This says a lot. You know he isn't settling for what he can get vs what he wants. He can have a younger woman BUT he chooses you.
Seeing you say something positive about Tati's relationship genuinely just made my heart grow three sizes.
I might have to adjust my attitude.
Lol I feel like I am pretty positive typically, people just take offense at my words.
Have always advised her to be honest with her cap husband, to stop the lies. Divorce him if she's so unhappy.
Told her the scorpio was just wasting her time and if he was gonna leave his family for her he would've by now.
Also told her that half of the appeal of the affair with scorp is based on the unattainable and if she actually got him it would kill the excitement.
Life is too short to lie to yourself and everyone around you. She came clean to cap and now they are getting a divorce.
I see. But have you really thought that anything would change if you hanged over my ass saying same crap all over again for years?
Things changed organically and FYI Scorpio is still not over! Yep! He is inquiring about me from people who haven’t suspected anything but now they do! Lmao
And to be honest...game isn’t over!
I am just not injured player anymore.
So...we will see. Maybe even have a drink on your boat! Lol
So, is it the Scorpio filling you up with doubts??
Did he say anything along the lines of Aries man is using you for your maternal roles OR is the Scorpio inquiries now about whether your seeing someone better?click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
He could say it a million different ways and you still wouldn't accept it. You gotta love yourself before you can believe you are worthy of others love.
Anyways words are easy, they cost a person nothing. Your cap husband must've said those love proclamations at the beginning too. Didn't amount to much in the end.
If you turn down the volume, what is left?
Actions over words.
I am accepting him just great.
I had never dated anybody my age or younger. This is why I am all in doubts. I look my age!
He is absolutely gorgeous. Even my Cancer mother who hates everybody even her ex SIL who is the father of her granddaughter - became his groupie! And when he joked about his T count level...saying he might become missis Richards...my mom said so what? You can be a lesbians!
😂😂😂
He can have much younger woman. I have insecurities for the first time in my life! It sucks! So I am diffing. Lol
Thats a good thing tho. This says a lot. You know he isn't settling for what he can get vs what he wants. He can have a younger woman BUT he chooses you.click to expand

Posted by gemNiPosted by GemitatiPosted by gemNiPosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
He could say it a million different ways and you still wouldn't accept it. You gotta love yourself before you can believe you are worthy of others love.
Anyways words are easy, they cost a person nothing. Your cap husband must've said those love proclamations at the beginning too. Didn't amount to much in the end.
If you turn down the volume, what is left?
Actions over words.
I am accepting him just great.
I had never dated anybody my age or younger. This is why I am all in doubts. I look my age!
He is absolutely gorgeous. Even my Cancer mother who hates everybody even her ex SIL who is the father of her granddaughter - became his groupie! And when he joked about his T count level...saying he might become missis Richards...my mom said so what? You can be a lesbians!
😂😂😂
He can have much younger woman. I have insecurities for the first time in my life! It sucks! So I am diffing. Lol
Thats a good thing tho. This says a lot. You know he isn't settling for what he can get vs what he wants. He can have a younger woman BUT he chooses you.
Seeing you say something positive about Tati's relationship genuinely just made my heart grow three sizes.
I might have to adjust my attitude.
Lol I feel like I am pretty positive typically, people just take offense at my words.
Have always advised her to be honest with her cap husband, to stop the lies. Divorce him if she's so unhappy.
Told her the scorpio was just wasting her time and if he was gonna leave his family for her he would've by now.
Also told her that half of the appeal of the affair with scorp is based on the unattainable and if she actually got him it would kill the excitement.
Life is too short to lie to yourself and everyone around you. She came clean to cap and now they are getting a divorce.
I see. But have you really thought that anything would change if you hanged over my ass saying same crap all over again for years?
Things changed organically and FYI Scorpio is still not over! Yep! He is inquiring about me from people who haven’t suspected anything but now they do! Lmao
And to be honest...game isn’t over!
I am just not injured player anymore.
So...we will see. Maybe even have a drink on your boat! Lol
So, is it the Scorpio filling you up with doubts??
Did he say anything along the lines of Aries man is using you for your maternal roles OR is the Scorpio inquiries now about whether your seeing someone better?
Scorp knows about Aries but nothing in detailed like his son.
I sent him an email where I said:
I’ve almost fucked up an amazing relashionships I have with the author of the book I’ve sent you to read.
Man is my tower!
I had almost fucked it up because you called.
NOW I am going on with my life. I’ve got divorce happened because of him.
You were on my mind.
WRONG!
I had never listened to my mother who told me you are a coward who will never do shit because you have balls in wrong hands! Etc. etc.
So he was apparently shocked that I had nerve to stray and started to question people we both know.
I wish I knew more but he isn’t stupid to open up to those people...
We will see...
Has anyone on here ever told you how crazy your poor choices are OR dangerous??
like...why in the world... would you give your side peice lets call him lover A a copyrighted book of author who is your lets call him lover B - disclosing B identity?
While B is (I assume) in the dark about lover A?
Your a hot mess 😂 I now, know that much is fact 🙄 ..and it's your unbalanced Leo moon playing out 80% of the time not your 20% Gemini in you!! Let's be real. LoL.
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Posted by Gemitati
I’ve always been like that but now when I am with positive Aries - this is in the way and I hate it!
I’ve always been thinking deeply and analyzing rships and there was always some shit to think about.
FINALLY I’ve met man whom I am in tune and COULD be happy with...HOWEVER my stupid ass can’t rest and enjoy everything being thrown at me...
I HAVE to torture him with stupid questions because it seems like ‘why is it good? Is it real? Hmmm...’
I didnt have shit to be stressed about so I’ve stopped him on a middle of some housework and asked to talk to me.
He came and said ‘what’s now?’...
He is ok with my crazy ass escapades and never showing displeasure or irritation or anything!
Apparently it’s not enough...and I DO realize I am playing with Fire...lol...pun just happened accidentally. Lol
So I’ve asked him if he is IN love with me. I said just tell me and go. He sat down on a floor by my feet and said ‘I don’t know why are you still doing this but all I want to tell you is that if you are asking if I love you as a friend...no! I love you as a woman and I see you as my woman for years to come and if you won’t leave me - I am here for you to the rest of my life’
...should be enough right?
Not for me! I am pushing ‘but are you IN love with me?’...
He says...again...apparently being his own stubborn ass not wanting to give me 100% trying to hold control of the cituation but no sweat no nothing...calm as when we started...
‘YOU. ARE. MY. WOMAN and I LOVE YOU. Not as a friend. As a woman. And I can’t imagine my life without you...’(and lots of other good stuff)
My eyes are watery. I am sobbing wanting to tell me ‘YES I AM IN LOVE WITH YOU!’ But he wouldn’t say it the way I want it!!!
I say ‘sorry, I didn’t mean to be annoying...’
he said ‘woman supposed to be at least half crazy and you don’t have to be sorry...you can always ask me anything...may I go finish my thing?’
I said yes and I was happy...kind of...
When he left I was laying there crying quietly because he didn’t say he is IN love with me.
Is it Gemini shit or it is just me?
I am still can’t let it go.
I want him to say what I want! The way I want it. And I didn’t get it!
He does call me ‘spoiled child’...but I don’t think I am.
So...am I right or crazy?

Posted by nousernamePosted by Gemitati
I’ve always been like that but now when I am with positive Aries - this is in the way and I hate it!
I’ve always been thinking deeply and analyzing rships and there was always some shit to think about.
FINALLY I’ve met man whom I am in tune and COULD be happy with...HOWEVER my stupid ass can’t rest and enjoy everything being thrown at me...
I HAVE to torture him with stupid questions because it seems like ‘why is it good? Is it real? Hmmm...’
I didnt have shit to be stressed about so I’ve stopped him on a middle of some housework and asked to talk to me.
He came and said ‘what’s now?’...
He is ok with my crazy ass escapades and never showing displeasure or irritation or anything!
Apparently it’s not enough...and I DO realize I am playing with Fire...lol...pun just happened accidentally. Lol
So I’ve asked him if he is IN love with me. I said just tell me and go. He sat down on a floor by my feet and said ‘I don’t know why are you still doing this but all I want to tell you is that if you are asking if I love you as a friend...no! I love you as a woman and I see you as my woman for years to come and if you won’t leave me - I am here for you to the rest of my life’
...should be enough right?
Not for me! I am pushing ‘but are you IN love with me?’...
He says...again...apparently being his own stubborn ass not wanting to give me 100% trying to hold control of the cituation but no sweat no nothing...calm as when we started...
‘YOU. ARE. MY. WOMAN and I LOVE YOU. Not as a friend. As a woman. And I can’t imagine my life without you...’(and lots of other good stuff)
My eyes are watery. I am sobbing wanting to tell me ‘YES I AM IN LOVE WITH YOU!’ But he wouldn’t say it the way I want it!!!
I say ‘sorry, I didn’t mean to be annoying...’
he said ‘woman supposed to be at least half crazy and you don’t have to be sorry...you can always ask me anything...may I go finish my thing?’
I said yes and I was happy...kind of...
When he left I was laying there crying quietly because he didn’t say he is IN love with me.
Is it Gemini shit or it is just me?
I am still can’t let it go.
I want him to say what I want! The way I want it. And I didn’t get it!
He does call me ‘spoiled child’...but I don’t think I am.
So...am I right or crazy?
You need to read a book about life or something, or find a hobby. Go watch a documentary or go for a walk. You are too focused on the guy.click to expand

Posted by gemNiPosted by GemitatiPosted by gemNiPosted by GemitatiPosted by gemNiPosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
He could say it a million different ways and you still wouldn't accept it. You gotta love yourself before you can believe you are worthy of others love.
Anyways words are easy, they cost a person nothing. Your cap husband must've said those love proclamations at the beginning too. Didn't amount to much in the end.
If you turn down the volume, what is left?
Actions over words.
I am accepting him just great.
I had never dated anybody my age or younger. This is why I am all in doubts. I look my age!
He is absolutely gorgeous. Even my Cancer mother who hates everybody even her ex SIL who is the father of her granddaughter - became his groupie! And when he joked about his T count level...saying he might become missis Richards...my mom said so what? You can be a lesbians!
😂😂😂
He can have much younger woman. I have insecurities for the first time in my life! It sucks! So I am diffing. Lol
Thats a good thing tho. This says a lot. You know he isn't settling for what he can get vs what he wants. He can have a younger woman BUT he chooses you.
Seeing you say something positive about Tati's relationship genuinely just made my heart grow three sizes.
I might have to adjust my attitude.
Lol I feel like I am pretty positive typically, people just take offense at my words.
Have always advised her to be honest with her cap husband, to stop the lies. Divorce him if she's so unhappy.
Told her the scorpio was just wasting her time and if he was gonna leave his family for her he would've by now.
Also told her that half of the appeal of the affair with scorp is based on the unattainable and if she actually got him it would kill the excitement.
Life is too short to lie to yourself and everyone around you. She came clean to cap and now they are getting a divorce.
I see. But have you really thought that anything would change if you hanged over my ass saying same crap all over again for years?
Things changed organically and FYI Scorpio is still not over! Yep! He is inquiring about me from people who haven’t suspected anything but now they do! Lmao
And to be honest...game isn’t over!
I am just not injured player anymore.
So...we will see. Maybe even have a drink on your boat! Lol
So, is it the Scorpio filling you up with doubts??
Did he say anything along the lines of Aries man is using you for your maternal roles OR is the Scorpio inquiries now about whether your seeing someone better?
Scorp knows about Aries but nothing in detailed like his son.
I sent him an email where I said:
I’ve almost fucked up an amazing relashionships I have with the author of the book I’ve sent you to read.
Man is my tower!
I had almost fucked it up because you called.
NOW I am going on with my life. I’ve got divorce happened because of him.
You were on my mind.
WRONG!
I had never listened to my mother who told me you are a coward who will never do shit because you have balls in wrong hands! Etc. etc.
So he was apparently shocked that I had nerve to stray and started to question people we both know.
I wish I knew more but he isn’t stupid to open up to those people...
We will see...
Has anyone on here ever told you how crazy your poor choices are OR dangerous??
like...why in the world... would you give your side peice lets call him lover A a copyrighted book of author who is your lets call him lover B - disclosing B identity?
While B is (I assume) in the dark about lover A?
Your a hot mess 😂 I now, know that much is fact 🙄 ..and it's your unbalanced Leo moon playing out 80% of the time not your 20% Gemini in you!! Let's be real. LoL.
How about chilling your balls? Or tits?
I sent Scorp pieces of the book BEFORE it was published. And waaay before I had anything going on with Aries.
He loved it.
Dangerous my ass!
Jesus you are paranoid! Do you sleep with lights on? 😂😂😂
Not paranoid. It's just 98% of your post fall on that saying..
"too dumb to live"
------------------------------
"too stupid die"
your inbetween those two sayings in life when people can't dish out any better advice to a person mentally challenged.click to expand

Posted by gemNiPosted by GemitatiPosted by gemNiPosted by GemitatiPosted by gemNiPosted by GemitatiPosted by gemNiPosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
He could say it a million different ways and you still wouldn't accept it. You gotta love yourself before you can believe you are worthy of others love.
Anyways words are easy, they cost a person nothing. Your cap husband must've said those love proclamations at the beginning too. Didn't amount to much in the end.
If you turn down the volume, what is left?
Actions over words.
I am accepting him just great.
I had never dated anybody my age or younger. This is why I am all in doubts. I look my age!
He is absolutely gorgeous. Even my Cancer mother who hates everybody even her ex SIL who is the father of her granddaughter - became his groupie! And when he joked about his T count level...saying he might become missis Richards...my mom said so what? You can be a lesbians!
😂😂😂
He can have much younger woman. I have insecurities for the first time in my life! It sucks! So I am diffing. Lol
Thats a good thing tho. This says a lot. You know he isn't settling for what he can get vs what he wants. He can have a younger woman BUT he chooses you.
Seeing you say something positive about Tati's relationship genuinely just made my heart grow three sizes.
I might have to adjust my attitude.
Lol I feel like I am pretty positive typically, people just take offense at my words.
Have always advised her to be honest with her cap husband, to stop the lies. Divorce him if she's so unhappy.
Told her the scorpio was just wasting her time and if he was gonna leave his family for her he would've by now.
Also told her that half of the appeal of the affair with scorp is based on the unattainable and if she actually got him it would kill the excitement.
Life is too short to lie to yourself and everyone around you. She came clean to cap and now they are getting a divorce.
I see. But have you really thought that anything would change if you hanged over my ass saying same crap all over again for years?
Things changed organically and FYI Scorpio is still not over! Yep! He is inquiring about me from people who haven’t suspected anything but now they do! Lmao
And to be honest...game isn’t over!
I am just not injured player anymore.
So...we will see. Maybe even have a drink on your boat! Lol
So, is it the Scorpio filling you up with doubts??
Did he say anything along the lines of Aries man is using you for your maternal roles OR is the Scorpio inquiries now about whether your seeing someone better?
Scorp knows about Aries but nothing in detailed like his son.
I sent him an email where I said:
I’ve almost fucked up an amazing relashionships I have with the author of the book I’ve sent you to read.
Man is my tower!
I had almost fucked it up because you called.
NOW I am going on with my life. I’ve got divorce happened because of him.
You were on my mind.
WRONG!
I had never listened to my mother who told me you are a coward who will never do shit because you have balls in wrong hands! Etc. etc.
So he was apparently shocked that I had nerve to stray and started to question people we both know.
I wish I knew more but he isn’t stupid to open up to those people...
We will see...
Has anyone on here ever told you how crazy your poor choices are OR dangerous??
like...why in the world... would you give your side peice lets call him lover A a copyrighted book of author who is your lets call him lover B - disclosing B identity?
While B is (I assume) in the dark about lover A?
Your a hot mess 😂 I now, know that much is fact 🙄 ..and it's your unbalanced Leo moon playing out 80% of the time not your 20% Gemini in you!! Let's be real. LoL.
How about chilling your balls? Or tits?
I sent Scorp pieces of the book BEFORE it was published. And waaay before I had anything going on with Aries.
He loved it.
Dangerous my ass!
Jesus you are paranoid! Do you sleep with lights on? 😂😂😂
Not paranoid. It's just 98% of your post fall on that saying..
"too dumb to live"
------------------------------
"too stupid die"
your inbetween those two sayings in life when people can't dish out any better advice to a person mentally challenged.
Sure! You are the one who’ve got all shit assumed and you were wrong!
And in between means I am a golden middle! 👍
Genius. In between = life karma hasn't caught up with you, yet.
Foot in mouth syndrome.
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Posted by Pandora101
@Gemitati
gemNi doesnt know and ment it imho otherwise, but there is a karma already taking place and that is your Aries man
🙂
you stayed in a loveless sexless marriage for years and I am sure you supported your husband all the way from the beginning..... you stayed loyal to your Scorp for years, lifting his spirits whenever he needed.... what you got in return from them? not the same emotional support and little/no sex
so your positive karma is here already, meaning you did many good things for the people in your life = hence the Aries
I think all the changes going on (and they ARE big changes after those years) can be a bit challenging sometimes, after a long time of nothing, and questioning yourself or the Aries is a result of it
I think his Aqua moon is a calming influence, he just loves when you are together, like he is doing his thing, you are doing your thing and everytime you pass each other in the kitchen, you hug and kiss
normal relationship
what is the end game? can you move to his permanently?
the bi-weekends for 3 days may be not enough?

Posted by gemNiPosted by Pandora101
@Gemitati
gemNi doesnt know and ment it imho otherwise, but there is a karma already taking place and that is your Aries man
🙂
you stayed in a loveless sexless marriage for years and I am sure you supported your husband all the way from the beginning..... you stayed loyal to your Scorp for years, lifting his spirits whenever he needed.... what you got in return from them? not the same emotional support and little/no sex
so your positive karma is here already, meaning you did many good things for the people in your life = hence the Aries
I think all the changes going on (and they ARE big changes after those years) can be a bit challenging sometimes, after a long time of nothing, and questioning yourself or the Aries is a result of it
I think his Aqua moon is a calming influence, he just loves when you are together, like he is doing his thing, you are doing your thing and everytime you pass each other in the kitchen, you hug and kiss
normal relationship
what is the end game? can you move to his permanently?
the bi-weekends for 3 days may be not enough?
foot in mouth syndrome ◁ IS ▷ foot in mouth syndrome
.. which is her karma OR undoings.
ONLY. downfall in her life is herself else> code that into the brain cells.click to expand

Posted by gemNiPosted by GemitatiPosted by gemNiPosted by Pandora101
@Gemitati
gemNi doesnt know and ment it imho otherwise, but there is a karma already taking place and that is your Aries man
🙂
you stayed in a loveless sexless marriage for years and I am sure you supported your husband all the way from the beginning..... you stayed loyal to your Scorp for years, lifting his spirits whenever he needed.... what you got in return from them? not the same emotional support and little/no sex
so your positive karma is here already, meaning you did many good things for the people in your life = hence the Aries
I think all the changes going on (and they ARE big changes after those years) can be a bit challenging sometimes, after a long time of nothing, and questioning yourself or the Aries is a result of it
I think his Aqua moon is a calming influence, he just loves when you are together, like he is doing his thing, you are doing your thing and everytime you pass each other in the kitchen, you hug and kiss
normal relationship
what is the end game? can you move to his permanently?
the bi-weekends for 3 days may be not enough?
foot in mouth syndrome ◁ IS ▷ foot in mouth syndrome
.. which is her karma OR undoings.
ONLY. downfall in her life is herself else> code that into the brain cells.
Aren’t you bit too involved into my life? Why? Get your own!
You have it?
So is it THAT boring so you have to have mine to feel alive? Sad.
Have you done some shit and dealing with ‘karma’? Ahhhhh
Don't take what I said soo negatively, it's not, see it from a different angle because you'll be here months from today on the verge of same crisis after another crisis all with the same denominator being your disaster love life.
No. I have never done things in my life to any extent of emotional cheating or infidelity or anything to that extreme.
Never been arrested, ticketed or anything near the wrong end of the law. Can't really see or say my karma is stacking in the negatives it's more positives if anything.
My perspective is only coming from an angle of looking at it from a different direction. Idk if that makes sense.
I wont comment on your life from here on if it's too blunt.click to expand

Posted by gemNiPosted by Pandora101
@Gemitati
gemNi doesnt know and ment it imho otherwise, but there is a karma already taking place and that is your Aries man
🙂
you stayed in a loveless sexless marriage for years and I am sure you supported your husband all the way from the beginning..... you stayed loyal to your Scorp for years, lifting his spirits whenever he needed.... what you got in return from them? not the same emotional support and little/no sex
so your positive karma is here already, meaning you did many good things for the people in your life = hence the Aries
I think all the changes going on (and they ARE big changes after those years) can be a bit challenging sometimes, after a long time of nothing, and questioning yourself or the Aries is a result of it
I think his Aqua moon is a calming influence, he just loves when you are together, like he is doing his thing, you are doing your thing and everytime you pass each other in the kitchen, you hug and kiss
normal relationship
what is the end game? can you move to his permanently?
the bi-weekends for 3 days may be not enough?
foot in mouth syndrome ◁ IS ▷ foot in mouth syndrome
.. which is her karma OR undoings.
ONLY. downfall in her life is herself else> code that into the brain cells.click to expand

Posted by Pandora101Posted by gemNiPosted by Pandora101
@Gemitati
gemNi doesnt know and ment it imho otherwise, but there is a karma already taking place and that is your Aries man
🙂
you stayed in a loveless sexless marriage for years and I am sure you supported your husband all the way from the beginning..... you stayed loyal to your Scorp for years, lifting his spirits whenever he needed.... what you got in return from them? not the same emotional support and little/no sex
so your positive karma is here already, meaning you did many good things for the people in your life = hence the Aries
I think all the changes going on (and they ARE big changes after those years) can be a bit challenging sometimes, after a long time of nothing, and questioning yourself or the Aries is a result of it
I think his Aqua moon is a calming influence, he just loves when you are together, like he is doing his thing, you are doing your thing and everytime you pass each other in the kitchen, you hug and kiss
normal relationship
what is the end game? can you move to his permanently?
the bi-weekends for 3 days may be not enough?
foot in mouth syndrome ◁ IS ▷ foot in mouth syndrome
.. which is her karma OR undoings.
ONLY. downfall in her life is herself else> code that into the brain cells.
wut? 🙂click to expand

Posted by Erzsebet_Bathory
You really are a spoiled child 🌠

Posted by Erzsebet_BathoryPosted by GemitatiPosted by Erzsebet_Bathory
You really are a spoiled child 🌠
I am? Well...
Aries/Gemini
If only they don't try to change each other, they can remain boy and girl forever. And children are the luckiest people in the Universe.
So...you are right! Lol
The way yo offend to defend Yourself is cute and tiring in the same time. But I suppose it's part of Your charm. I don't know to be honest. Personally I don't like Gemini men and never have. In Your case I think that it is a very positive thing and that You should try to invest Yourself in this relationship in a healthy way. Go outside, go on adventures, be children. The part I don't like is You thinking of Your Scorpio. His sting is still inside of You even if You moved on onto another penis 😵. Yes I have the liberty of saying this because You said a lot of things about me on my Scorpio ex situation topic and then opened a new one to say You are sorry so I feel we're kind of friends. Wishing You all the luck 🌠click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Pandora101
@Gemitati
gemNi doesnt know and ment it imho otherwise, but there is a karma already taking place and that is your Aries man
🙂
you stayed in a loveless sexless marriage for years and I am sure you supported your husband all the way from the beginning..... you stayed loyal to your Scorp for years, lifting his spirits whenever he needed.... what you got in return from them? not the same emotional support and little/no sex
so your positive karma is here already, meaning you did many good things for the people in your life = hence the Aries
I think all the changes going on (and they ARE big changes after those years) can be a bit challenging sometimes, after a long time of nothing, and questioning yourself or the Aries is a result of it
I think his Aqua moon is a calming influence, he just loves when you are together, like he is doing his thing, you are doing your thing and everytime you pass each other in the kitchen, you hug and kiss
normal relationship
what is the end game? can you move to his permanently?
the bi-weekends for 3 days may be not enough?
OMG I love you. 😘 Thanks
You are correct about everything.
And that’s what Aries said - we don’t see each other enough.
We are waiting for child custody court end of June and depends on outcome we will then think about us.
Meantime he is half-zombie. I know he is a nervous wreck! Trying to make me laugh but I can feel the pain he is holding inside. So at this moment I am just bitching here and I DO drive him crazy but not intentionally or purposely...well...🙈
Thanks much❤️
Custody of whom?click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Pandora101
@Gemitati
gemNi doesnt know and ment it imho otherwise, but there is a karma already taking place and that is your Aries man
🙂
you stayed in a loveless sexless marriage for years and I am sure you supported your husband all the way from the beginning..... you stayed loyal to your Scorp for years, lifting his spirits whenever he needed.... what you got in return from them? not the same emotional support and little/no sex
so your positive karma is here already, meaning you did many good things for the people in your life = hence the Aries
I think all the changes going on (and they ARE big changes after those years) can be a bit challenging sometimes, after a long time of nothing, and questioning yourself or the Aries is a result of it
I think his Aqua moon is a calming influence, he just loves when you are together, like he is doing his thing, you are doing your thing and everytime you pass each other in the kitchen, you hug and kiss
normal relationship
what is the end game? can you move to his permanently?
the bi-weekends for 3 days may be not enough?
OMG I love you. 😘 Thanks
You are correct about everything.
And that’s what Aries said - we don’t see each other enough.
We are waiting for child custody court end of June and depends on outcome we will then think about us.
Meantime he is half-zombie. I know he is a nervous wreck! Trying to make me laugh but I can feel the pain he is holding inside. So at this moment I am just bitching here and I DO drive him crazy but not intentionally or purposely...well...🙈
Thanks much❤️
Custody of whom?
Of his 13 y/old which he has full temporary aiming for full permanent because his ex is living in mental facility for women and she had been damaging for boy’s mental condition.
Since he is with a father he was released from seeing any mental doctors and child services are very pleased. So the final decision better be made in June.
Wow. I guess no one's life is simple, eh? Poor little boy.click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Pandora101
@Gemitati
gemNi doesnt know and ment it imho otherwise, but there is a karma already taking place and that is your Aries man
🙂
you stayed in a loveless sexless marriage for years and I am sure you supported your husband all the way from the beginning..... you stayed loyal to your Scorp for years, lifting his spirits whenever he needed.... what you got in return from them? not the same emotional support and little/no sex
so your positive karma is here already, meaning you did many good things for the people in your life = hence the Aries
I think all the changes going on (and they ARE big changes after those years) can be a bit challenging sometimes, after a long time of nothing, and questioning yourself or the Aries is a result of it
I think his Aqua moon is a calming influence, he just loves when you are together, like he is doing his thing, you are doing your thing and everytime you pass each other in the kitchen, you hug and kiss
normal relationship
what is the end game? can you move to his permanently?
the bi-weekends for 3 days may be not enough?
OMG I love you. 😘 Thanks
You are correct about everything.
And that’s what Aries said - we don’t see each other enough.
We are waiting for child custody court end of June and depends on outcome we will then think about us.
Meantime he is half-zombie. I know he is a nervous wreck! Trying to make me laugh but I can feel the pain he is holding inside. So at this moment I am just bitching here and I DO drive him crazy but not intentionally or purposely...well...🙈
Thanks much❤️
Custody of whom?
Of his 13 y/old which he has full temporary aiming for full permanent because his ex is living in mental facility for women and she had been damaging for boy’s mental condition.
Since he is with a father he was released from seeing any mental doctors and child services are very pleased. So the final decision better be made in June.
Wow. I guess no one's life is simple, eh? Poor little boy.
He is a lil Taurus. Calm. Polite. No drama young man.
Aries makes him laugh and going crazy with guilt that his son was supposed to endure all this pain in past.
Once Aries told me that boy really attached to me and he likes my cooking and if I was not in their lives anymore his son wouldn’t have it.
Must I said I’ve cried?
He said on days I am there I am breathing life into man cave. It was more than I could ask for.
So now I have responsibility as well...I guess...🙂
What am I worry about? Right?
I must be mental. Lol
But what else is new? 🤦♀️
He sounds like a really good father. "Breathing life into man cave." Lol! He has a way with words.
Taking on a son sounds terrifying, but also important. Parents are a package deal.click to expand
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I’ve always been thinking deeply and analyzing rships and there was always some shit to think about.
FINALLY I’ve met man whom I am in tune and COULD be happy with...HOWEVER my stupid ass can’t rest and enjoy everything being thrown at me...
I HAVE to torture him with stupid questions because it seems like ‘why is it good? Is it real? Hmmm...’
I didnt have shit to be stressed about so I’ve stopped him on a middle of some housework and asked to talk to me.
He came and said ‘what’s now?’...
He is ok with my crazy ass escapades and never showing displeasure or irritation or anything!
Apparently it’s not enough...and I DO realize I am playing with Fire...lol...pun just happened accidentally. Lol
So I’ve asked him if he is IN love with me. I said just tell me and go. He sat down on a floor by my feet and said ‘I don’t know why are you still doing this but all I want to tell you is that if you are asking if I love you as a friend...no! I love you as a woman and I see you as my woman for years to come and if you won’t leave me - I am here for you to the rest of my life’
...should be enough right?
Not for me! I am pushing ‘but are you IN love with me?’...
He says...again...apparently being his own stubborn ass not wanting to give me 100% trying to hold control of the cituation but no sweat no nothing...calm as when we started...
‘YOU. ARE. MY. WOMAN and I LOVE YOU. Not as a friend. As a woman. And I can’t imagine my life without you...’(and lots of other good stuff)
My eyes are watery. I am sobbing wanting to tell me ‘YES I AM IN LOVE WITH YOU!’ But he wouldn’t say it the way I want it!!!
I say ‘sorry, I didn’t mean to be annoying...’
he said ‘woman supposed to be at least half crazy and you don’t have to be sorry...you can always ask me anything...may I go finish my thing?’
I said yes and I was happy...kind of...
When he left I was laying there crying quietly because he didn’t say he is IN love with me.
Is it Gemini shit or it is just me?
I am still can’t let it go.
I want him to say what I want! The way I want it. And I didn’t get it!
He does call me ‘spoiled child’...but I don’t think I am.
So...am I right or crazy?