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Interpreting a Gemini's Response to Your Song
When a Gemini says your song is beautiful, it generally means they appreciated your gesture. It does not imply you owe money or any additional action. Focus on genuine communication and respect her response to build trust and understanding in your relationship.
Will the burn never end?
I just don’t know if she’s playing me or nah. We don’t talk frequently. Just here and there on the boards. Maybe I’m letting my feelings get ahead of me 💔
200 shekels incoming
She’s probably already forgot about it
I forgot about Gemitati when I wrote this post. Fuck, I hope she’s not mad at me 😰😰
She’s probably already forgot about it
I forgot about Gemitati when I wrote this post. Fuck, I hope she’s not mad at me 😰😰
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You are so lucky that I am too busy with Aries and don’t have time to get up your ass...just sayin...
You are so lucky that I am too busy with Aries and don’t have time to get up your ass...just sayin...
Hi, I'm new here and honestly very new to astrology in general (literal days). Is "Gemitati" just a term or is it an actual "thing". Someone mentioned it to me in a post and I've never heard of that term before. I am a Gemini. Thank you so much!
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I am an actual ‘thing’ who Can give you real pain in your ‘city’ dumbass!
Are you really that dumb—
You are so lucky that I am too busy with Aries and don’t have time to get up your ass...just sayin...
Hi, I'm new here and honestly very new to astrology in general (literal days). Is "Gemitati" just a term or is it an actual "thing". Someone mentioned it to me in a post and I've never heard of that term before. I am a Gemini. Thank you so much!
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Issa slang term for “hottest hoochie mama of them all” @Gemitati
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You are so lucky that I am too busy with Aries and don’t have time to get up your ass...just sayin...
Hi, I'm new here and honestly very new to astrology in general (literal days). Is "Gemitati" just a term or is it an actual "thing". Someone mentioned it to me in a post and I've never heard of that term before. I am a Gemini. Thank you so much!
It’s just a user name.
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Did you have to ruin this for everybody? Why couldn’t you just let it suffer in pain trying to figure out ‘thing’ for itself—
Enabler!!! 👿
You are so lucky that I am too busy with Aries and don’t have time to get up your ass...just sayin...
Hi, I'm new here and honestly very new to astrology in general (literal days). Is "Gemitati" just a term or is it an actual "thing". Someone mentioned it to me in a post and I've never heard of that term before. I am a Gemini. Thank you so much!
Issa slang term for “hottest hoochie mama of them all” @Gemitati
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Ass kisser...otherGemLover...bitch!!!
what is a @Gemitati now that is the question LOL
It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
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My gemini bf has Leo mars as well and I’ve never felt attacked. He has cancer moon tho so passivity is his fight tactic
It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
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Your Gemini had a Leo Mars? Interesting.
It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
Your Gemini had a Leo Mars? Interesting.
Why?
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I think I just knew about the Gemini sun/Cap moon. I didn't know her "love style " placements.
My gemini bf has Leo mars as well and I’ve never felt attacked. He has cancer moon tho so passivity is his fight tactic
She also has Cancer, so yeah there might be some similiarities.
+ Cancer mother meaning that direct conflict might be something she hadn't properly learned back then.
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Omg my boyfriends mom is also a cancer!! He said she never allowed yelling in her house so fighting is foreign to him. + His gemini dad is hella passive so he learned the best solution is to just let it be. I’m like “yeah that’s not gonna work when people keep taking advantage of us”
My gemini bf has Leo mars as well and I’ve never felt attacked. He has cancer moon tho so passivity is his fight tactic
you have sag moon, right?
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Hell yeah boi
Moon, mars & Jupiter
It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
Your Gemini had a Leo Mars? Interesting.
Why?
I think I just knew about the Gemini sun/Cap moon. I didn't know her "love style " placements.
Cancer Venus/Leo Mars
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Oh ok. Cancer placements would go nicely with your Cap placements. I see.
You almost getting over her too then? Comfy enough to playfully call her bae.
It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
Your Gemini had a Leo Mars? Interesting.
Why?
I think I just knew about the Gemini sun/Cap moon. I didn't know her "love style " placements.
Cancer Venus/Leo Mars
Oh ok. Cancer placements would go nicely with your Cap placements. I see.
You almost getting over her too then? Comfy enough to playfully call her bae.
Wut?
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It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
Your Gemini had a Leo Mars? Interesting.
Why?
I think I just knew about the Gemini sun/Cap moon. I didn't know her "love style " placements.
Cancer Venus/Leo Mars
Oh ok. Cancer placements would go nicely with your Cap placements. I see.
You almost getting over her too then? Comfy enough to playfully call her bae.
Wut?
I think I'm too harsh and brutal for cancer placements to be honest.
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I thought a Cancer Venus would be fairly clingy. I don't know if that's what you prefer. Was that the case in your relationship with her?
And she had a pleasing Leo mars, so her feelings would be double hurt if she thought she wasn't pleasing you. It's big gut punch to the ego, especially since you like saying no to stuff. I don't know if you do that in sexual relationships though.
My gemini bf has Leo mars as well and I’ve never felt attacked. He has cancer moon tho so passivity is his fight tactic
you have sag moon, right?
Hell yeah boi
Moon, mars & Jupiter
and a pisces rising
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Is that a question.
It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
Your Gemini had a Leo Mars? Interesting.
Why?
I think I just knew about the Gemini sun/Cap moon. I didn't know her "love style " placements.
Cancer Venus/Leo Mars
Oh ok. Cancer placements would go nicely with your Cap placements. I see.
You almost getting over her too then? Comfy enough to playfully call her bae.
Wut?
I think I'm too harsh and brutal for cancer placements to be honest.
I thought a Cancer Venus would be fairly clingy. I don't know if that's what you prefer. Was that the case in your relationship with her?
And she had a pleasing Leo mars, so her feelings would be double hurt if she thought she wasn't pleasing you. It's big gut punch to the ego, especially since you like saying no to stuff. I don't know if you do that in sexual relationships though.
In hindsight I think she was conflicted about being somewhat clingy and not wanting to be clingy for some reasons. To be completly honest I'd say that being somewhat clingy has higher chances to work out with me as I can move on too fast. Now more than ever in my life. I might always come back but my core is practically drift wood.
She once said that it is important to her to know that she is sexually pleasing her partner and other things that indicate what you are saying about Leo Mars.
In short I'd say that I simply didn't really understand woman back then.
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Yeah. I need clingy too to be honest. Sag placements are forever in denial until we are forced to be locked down lol.
Also, sometimes body language does a number on people’s heads. Being so closed off looking, while expecting someone to do something else, like show affection and that type of stuff.
But you guys knew each other for years, she should’ve known you by then.
How are you understanding women better these days?
It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
Your Gemini had a Leo Mars? Interesting.
Why?
I think I just knew about the Gemini sun/Cap moon. I didn't know her "love style " placements.
Cancer Venus/Leo Mars
Oh ok. Cancer placements would go nicely with your Cap placements. I see.
You almost getting over her too then? Comfy enough to playfully call her bae.
Wut?
I think I'm too harsh and brutal for cancer placements to be honest.
I thought a Cancer Venus would be fairly clingy. I don't know if that's what you prefer. Was that the case in your relationship with her?
And she had a pleasing Leo mars, so her feelings would be double hurt if she thought she wasn't pleasing you. It's big gut punch to the ego, especially since you like saying no to stuff. I don't know if you do that in sexual relationships though.
In hindsight I think she was conflicted about being somewhat clingy and not wanting to be clingy for some reasons. To be completly honest I'd say that being somewhat clingy has higher chances to work out with me as I can move on too fast. Now more than ever in my life. I might always come back but my core is practically drift wood.
She once said that it is important to her to know that she is sexually pleasing her partner and other things that indicate what you are saying about Leo Mars.
In short I'd say that I simply didn't really understand woman back then.
Yeah. I need clingy too to be honest. Sag placements are forever in denial until we are forced to be locked down lol.
Also, sometimes body language does a number on people’s heads. Being so closed off looking, while expecting someone to do something else, like show affection and that type of stuff.
But you guys knew each other for years, she should’ve known you by then.
How are you understanding women better these days?
Well, that is why I never acted on my suspicions. I simply thought she would tell me if she changed her mind and since she never did I simply assumed it was just wishful thinking on my side.
Getting opinions from women here and reading here helped me getting a broader picture although I think this place is in no way representative of woman in general. I still would probably act the same way due to my principles bit ah well what can you do?
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Yeah I get. Is it in your nature to fight against it?
I will naturally fight against stuff, It sucks. The more I like someone, the more scared I get and they have to just force themselves on me to make me feel comfortable.
I act so normal in person with guys I give two shits about. I wish I could do the same thing with guys I am interested in. But I usually just repel them without meaning to. I can't even really change my behavior either cause I don't realize I'm even doing it until later. I am very contradicting, I annoy myself with it.
It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
Your Gemini had a Leo Mars? Interesting.
Why?
I think I just knew about the Gemini sun/Cap moon. I didn't know her "love style " placements.
Cancer Venus/Leo Mars
Oh ok. Cancer placements would go nicely with your Cap placements. I see.
You almost getting over her too then? Comfy enough to playfully call her bae.
Wut?
I think I'm too harsh and brutal for cancer placements to be honest.
I thought a Cancer Venus would be fairly clingy. I don't know if that's what you prefer. Was that the case in your relationship with her?
And she had a pleasing Leo mars, so her feelings would be double hurt if she thought she wasn't pleasing you. It's big gut punch to the ego, especially since you like saying no to stuff. I don't know if you do that in sexual relationships though.
In hindsight I think she was conflicted about being somewhat clingy and not wanting to be clingy for some reasons. To be completly honest I'd say that being somewhat clingy has higher chances to work out with me as I can move on too fast. Now more than ever in my life. I might always come back but my core is practically drift wood.
She once said that it is important to her to know that she is sexually pleasing her partner and other things that indicate what you are saying about Leo Mars.
In short I'd say that I simply didn't really understand woman back then.
Yeah. I need clingy too to be honest. Sag placements are forever in denial until we are forced to be locked down lol.
Also, sometimes body language does a number on people’s heads. Being so closed off looking, while expecting someone to do something else, like show affection and that type of stuff.
But you guys knew each other for years, she should’ve known you by then.
How are you understanding women better these days?
Well, that is why I never acted on my suspicions. I simply thought she would tell me if she changed her mind and since she never did I simply assumed it was just wishful thinking on my side.
Getting opinions from women here and reading here helped me getting a broader picture although I think this place is in no way representative of woman in general. I still would probably act the same way due to my principles bit ah well what can you do?
Yeah I get. Is it in your nature to fight against it?
I will naturally fight against stuff, It sucks. The more I like someone, the more scared I get and they have to just force themselves on me to make me feel comfortable.
I act so normal in person with guys I give two shits about. I wish I could do the same thing with guys I am interested in. But I usually just repel them without meaning to. I can't even really change my behavior either cause I don't realize I'm even doing it until later. I am very contradicting, I annoy myself with it.
Fight what?
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I meant fighting against feelings of love, but I say things and then I forget how long you guys were on and off the merry go round, per say.
It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
Your Gemini had a Leo Mars? Interesting.
Why?
I think I just knew about the Gemini sun/Cap moon. I didn't know her "love style " placements.
Cancer Venus/Leo Mars
Oh ok. Cancer placements would go nicely with your Cap placements. I see.
You almost getting over her too then? Comfy enough to playfully call her bae.
Wut?
I think I'm too harsh and brutal for cancer placements to be honest.
I thought a Cancer Venus would be fairly clingy. I don't know if that's what you prefer. Was that the case in your relationship with her?
And she had a pleasing Leo mars, so her feelings would be double hurt if she thought she wasn't pleasing you. It's big gut punch to the ego, especially since you like saying no to stuff. I don't know if you do that in sexual relationships though.
In hindsight I think she was conflicted about being somewhat clingy and not wanting to be clingy for some reasons. To be completly honest I'd say that being somewhat clingy has higher chances to work out with me as I can move on too fast. Now more than ever in my life. I might always come back but my core is practically drift wood.
She once said that it is important to her to know that she is sexually pleasing her partner and other things that indicate what you are saying about Leo Mars.
In short I'd say that I simply didn't really understand woman back then.
Yeah. I need clingy too to be honest. Sag placements are forever in denial until we are forced to be locked down lol.
Also, sometimes body language does a number on people’s heads. Being so closed off looking, while expecting someone to do something else, like show affection and that type of stuff.
But you guys knew each other for years, she should’ve known you by then.
How are you understanding women better these days?
Well, that is why I never acted on my suspicions. I simply thought she would tell me if she changed her mind and since she never did I simply assumed it was just wishful thinking on my side.
Getting opinions from women here and reading here helped me getting a broader picture although I think this place is in no way representative of woman in general. I still would probably act the same way due to my principles bit ah well what can you do?
Yeah I get. Is it in your nature to fight against it?
I will naturally fight against stuff, It sucks. The more I like someone, the more scared I get and they have to just force themselves on me to make me feel comfortable.
I act so normal in person with guys I give two shits about. I wish I could do the same thing with guys I am interested in. But I usually just repel them without meaning to. I can't even really change my behavior either cause I don't realize I'm even doing it until later. I am very contradicting, I annoy myself with it.
Fight what?
I meant fighting against feelings of love, but I say things and then I forget how long you guys were on and off the merry go round, per say.
To a degree. I only allow myself to have those feelings if my analysis of the circumstances sees a viable chance for things to work out.
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OMG Analysis!!!—? But your cap placements should cause plenty of confusion, insecurity and cautiousness.
That's a recipe for disaster in any logical analysis.
It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
Your Gemini had a Leo Mars? Interesting.
Why?
I think I just knew about the Gemini sun/Cap moon. I didn't know her "love style " placements.
Cancer Venus/Leo Mars
Oh ok. Cancer placements would go nicely with your Cap placements. I see.
You almost getting over her too then? Comfy enough to playfully call her bae.
Wut?
I think I'm too harsh and brutal for cancer placements to be honest.
I thought a Cancer Venus would be fairly clingy. I don't know if that's what you prefer. Was that the case in your relationship with her?
And she had a pleasing Leo mars, so her feelings would be double hurt if she thought she wasn't pleasing you. It's big gut punch to the ego, especially since you like saying no to stuff. I don't know if you do that in sexual relationships though.
In hindsight I think she was conflicted about being somewhat clingy and not wanting to be clingy for some reasons. To be completly honest I'd say that being somewhat clingy has higher chances to work out with me as I can move on too fast. Now more than ever in my life. I might always come back but my core is practically drift wood.
She once said that it is important to her to know that she is sexually pleasing her partner and other things that indicate what you are saying about Leo Mars.
In short I'd say that I simply didn't really understand woman back then.
Yeah. I need clingy too to be honest. Sag placements are forever in denial until we are forced to be locked down lol.
Also, sometimes body language does a number on people’s heads. Being so closed off looking, while expecting someone to do something else, like show affection and that type of stuff.
But you guys knew each other for years, she should’ve known you by then.
How are you understanding women better these days?
Well, that is why I never acted on my suspicions. I simply thought she would tell me if she changed her mind and since she never did I simply assumed it was just wishful thinking on my side.
Getting opinions from women here and reading here helped me getting a broader picture although I think this place is in no way representative of woman in general. I still would probably act the same way due to my principles bit ah well what can you do?
Yeah I get. Is it in your nature to fight against it?
I will naturally fight against stuff, It sucks. The more I like someone, the more scared I get and they have to just force themselves on me to make me feel comfortable.
I act so normal in person with guys I give two shits about. I wish I could do the same thing with guys I am interested in. But I usually just repel them without meaning to. I can't even really change my behavior either cause I don't realize I'm even doing it until later. I am very contradicting, I annoy myself with it.
Fight what?
I meant fighting against feelings of love, but I say things and then I forget how long you guys were on and off the merry go round, per say.
To a degree. I only allow myself to have those feelings if my analysis of the circumstances sees a viable chance for things to work out.
OMG Analysis!!!—? But your cap placements should cause plenty of confusion, insecurity and cautiousness.
That's a recipe for disaster in any logical analysis.
Nah, quite the opposite.
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And yet, you don't act on your suspicions?? Hmmmmmmmmmm.
It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
Your Gemini had a Leo Mars? Interesting.
Why?
I think I just knew about the Gemini sun/Cap moon. I didn't know her "love style " placements.
Cancer Venus/Leo Mars
Oh ok. Cancer placements would go nicely with your Cap placements. I see.
You almost getting over her too then? Comfy enough to playfully call her bae.
Wut?
I think I'm too harsh and brutal for cancer placements to be honest.
I thought a Cancer Venus would be fairly clingy. I don't know if that's what you prefer. Was that the case in your relationship with her?
And she had a pleasing Leo mars, so her feelings would be double hurt if she thought she wasn't pleasing you. It's big gut punch to the ego, especially since you like saying no to stuff. I don't know if you do that in sexual relationships though.
In hindsight I think she was conflicted about being somewhat clingy and not wanting to be clingy for some reasons. To be completly honest I'd say that being somewhat clingy has higher chances to work out with me as I can move on too fast. Now more than ever in my life. I might always come back but my core is practically drift wood.
She once said that it is important to her to know that she is sexually pleasing her partner and other things that indicate what you are saying about Leo Mars.
In short I'd say that I simply didn't really understand woman back then.
Yeah. I need clingy too to be honest. Sag placements are forever in denial until we are forced to be locked down lol.
Also, sometimes body language does a number on people’s heads. Being so closed off looking, while expecting someone to do something else, like show affection and that type of stuff.
But you guys knew each other for years, she should’ve known you by then.
How are you understanding women better these days?
Well, that is why I never acted on my suspicions. I simply thought she would tell me if she changed her mind and since she never did I simply assumed it was just wishful thinking on my side.
Getting opinions from women here and reading here helped me getting a broader picture although I think this place is in no way representative of woman in general. I still would probably act the same way due to my principles bit ah well what can you do?
Yeah I get. Is it in your nature to fight against it?
I will naturally fight against stuff, It sucks. The more I like someone, the more scared I get and they have to just force themselves on me to make me feel comfortable.
I act so normal in person with guys I give two shits about. I wish I could do the same thing with guys I am interested in. But I usually just repel them without meaning to. I can't even really change my behavior either cause I don't realize I'm even doing it until later. I am very contradicting, I annoy myself with it.
Fight what?
I meant fighting against feelings of love, but I say things and then I forget how long you guys were on and off the merry go round, per say.
To a degree. I only allow myself to have those feelings if my analysis of the circumstances sees a viable chance for things to work out.
OMG Analysis!!!—? But your cap placements should cause plenty of confusion, insecurity and cautiousness.
That's a recipe for disaster in any logical analysis.
Nah, quite the opposite.
And yet, you don't act on your suspicions?? Hmmmmmmmmmm.
That was pride. Neither pragmatism nor reason.
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Ah-ha, unfortunately I understand that well myself 😢
It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
Your gemini excluded, are you referring to some prior specific exchanges with gemini dxpers or something else ?
As far as insulting goes, I have a cap moon and a dry/can-be-cruel sense of humor so my attempts at flirting can come out rather mean, but a little more discreet/playful than outright mean. This is why I don't do well around water sign men lol. Except some scorpio men whom I find masochistic. But if I say something outright or aggressively mean, then I am sure I mean it.
I was referring to your nigh-identical twin. The queen to my king and his kingdom of dirt.
The rest or rather those cases where attempts of insults were thrown were on DXP, yes.
I can deal with that kind of humour and mostly see it as fooling around which is why often didn't even realized that things were supposed to be attacks or insults until later on. On the other hand I often get the impression that this might piss Cap moons off at times.
LOL the cat fights amongst the aqua-men fan club. Good times
I think if someone misinterpreted me or didn't catch on, idk that it would piss me off vs make me feel a disconnection or that I can't communicate well with them. I like to bounce off others effortlessly and have them pick up my idiosyncrasies naturally. Unless in a tense or hostile situation, then I am happy to clarify.
Is that what it was?
Because it makes you feel like you did something wrong or failed somehow?
I mean more often than not it really is just that the other person had something else on their mind, was distrected or you are just still in the early stages of the bonding process and he/she tries to be careful and do everything right as much as they can. Aiming for clarity in a hostile/tense situation is always a good thing. Even if it can lead to more heated short-term debattes it usually is better in the long run.
YES my cap moon is used to being offensive, and in those type scenarios I wonder if I crossed a boundary lol. I can usually bounce well off sag moons, men more so than women. My sister's bf is actually aqua/sag moon and he studies almost what I study, we work together, and joke around all the time. So we get along great, but he can get REALLY moody and in his emotions sometimes - often rage. He always apologizes when he lashes out though, which I can appreciate. I agree on everything else... a blow up can actually result in diffusing the situation often times.
Yeah, I guess that's something Sag and Cap moons have in common and can bond over. I guess those rage moments can be somewhat unsettling or annoying if one isn't familiar with those but in my experiences it's usually to just reenergize yourself in whatever you are currently doing or to just switch perspective and angle.
Edit: take my take on this with a grain of salt though as my Mars-Moon conjunction might make things a bit different for me.
I think this dudes mars is in scorpio, just like my sister, since they were born less than 2 weeks apart. He becomes very sarcastic when mad, and has a strong inclination to take it out on the people around him and then apologizes later. My older coworker is also an aqua/sag and she is very emotional. She gets stressed way too easily, but she doesn't lash out so much as act like a victim and like she has no help, when myself and the other aqua do much more than her on a daily basis. Those two, despite their same placements butt heads, but it's always in a passive way that I dislike. I don't know how to respond to either, btw. The male aqua and I have really blown up at each other in the past over a personal issue (never at work), but when he gets that way at work, I just walk away and let him approach me to apologize later. He seems crazy when he's like that and I just don't want to go there with him. The female aqua, I really have to hold my tongue back because I know how sensitive she is and I know I could ruin the whole dynamic there that we have built for years, in under a minute if I lost it. I wish had moon-mars conjunct vs moon-mars opposite.
Sounds exhausting. Do you just detach or how do you deal with all that?
I completly forgot that you had this opposition. How do you relate to that or think it plays out for you?
I'm curious what the differences might be.
My problem with it, if I think about astrology is that mars-moon opposition, Mars cancer, AND 12h house to boot, is literally the worst placement in all of astrology. I think that I can be really determined and goal oriented and cap moonish, but that mars wants to hold me back. 98% of the time, I am the rational person in arguments, but very rarely (it does happen) that I completely lose my shit and go unstable. It is NEVER for no reason, it's usually a lot of things building up and pushing me further and further until I fall over the edge and there's no going back. I would say this happens maybe 0-2 times per year in a relationship. Zero times, if not. I need space and time in an argument if I realize that a resolution is not currently possible (ex: its going in circles for hours, tension and anger is building, neither side will back down) whereas I am with someone now, who I feel sometimes closes me in, suffocates me, and provokes me during those times. And I can't think of a worst and more incompatible way for someone to respond to me than that lol.
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You describe me so well.
It's not real if she doesn't insult or attacks you.
Ok this might be true tbh
Is it really?
Lol define "attack"
Do you feel as though you've been attacked by a gemini woman?
Tricky question.
"Felt": no
Objectively speaking: probably yes
My impression however was that it was mostly to somewhat regain control of a situation.
My Gemibea excluded of course since she never did anything like directly despite her Leo Mars.
Your gemini excluded, are you referring to some prior specific exchanges with gemini dxpers or something else ?
As far as insulting goes, I have a cap moon and a dry/can-be-cruel sense of humor so my attempts at flirting can come out rather mean, but a little more discreet/playful than outright mean. This is why I don't do well around water sign men lol. Except some scorpio men whom I find masochistic. But if I say something outright or aggressively mean, then I am sure I mean it.
I was referring to your nigh-identical twin. The queen to my king and his kingdom of dirt.
The rest or rather those cases where attempts of insults were thrown were on DXP, yes.
I can deal with that kind of humour and mostly see it as fooling around which is why often didn't even realized that things were supposed to be attacks or insults until later on. On the other hand I often get the impression that this might piss Cap moons off at times.
LOL the cat fights amongst the aqua-men fan club. Good times
I think if someone misinterpreted me or didn't catch on, idk that it would piss me off vs make me feel a disconnection or that I can't communicate well with them. I like to bounce off others effortlessly and have them pick up my idiosyncrasies naturally. Unless in a tense or hostile situation, then I am happy to clarify.
Is that what it was?
Because it makes you feel like you did something wrong or failed somehow?
I mean more often than not it really is just that the other person had something else on their mind, was distrected or you are just still in the early stages of the bonding process and he/she tries to be careful and do everything right as much as they can. Aiming for clarity in a hostile/tense situation is always a good thing. Even if it can lead to more heated short-term debattes it usually is better in the long run.
YES my cap moon is used to being offensive, and in those type scenarios I wonder if I crossed a boundary lol. I can usually bounce well off sag moons, men more so than women. My sister's bf is actually aqua/sag moon and he studies almost what I study, we work together, and joke around all the time. So we get along great, but he can get REALLY moody and in his emotions sometimes - often rage. He always apologizes when he lashes out though, which I can appreciate. I agree on everything else... a blow up can actually result in diffusing the situation often times.
Yeah, I guess that's something Sag and Cap moons have in common and can bond over. I guess those rage moments can be somewhat unsettling or annoying if one isn't familiar with those but in my experiences it's usually to just reenergize yourself in whatever you are currently doing or to just switch perspective and angle.
Edit: take my take on this with a grain of salt though as my Mars-Moon conjunction might make things a bit different for me.
I think this dudes mars is in scorpio, just like my sister, since they were born less than 2 weeks apart. He becomes very sarcastic when mad, and has a strong inclination to take it out on the people around him and then apologizes later. My older coworker is also an aqua/sag and she is very emotional. She gets stressed way too easily, but she doesn't lash out so much as act like a victim and like she has no help, when myself and the other aqua do much more than her on a daily basis. Those two, despite their same placements butt heads, but it's always in a passive way that I dislike. I don't know how to respond to either, btw. The male aqua and I have really blown up at each other in the past over a personal issue (never at work), but when he gets that way at work, I just walk away and let him approach me to apologize later. He seems crazy when he's like that and I just don't want to go there with him. The female aqua, I really have to hold my tongue back because I know how sensitive she is and I know I could ruin the whole dynamic there that we have built for years, in under a minute if I lost it. I wish had moon-mars conjunct vs moon-mars opposite.
Sounds exhausting. Do you just detach or how do you deal with all that?
I completly forgot that you had this opposition. How do you relate to that or think it plays out for you?
I'm curious what the differences might be.
My problem with it, if I think about astrology is that mars-moon opposition, Mars cancer, AND 12h house to boot, is literally the worst placement in all of astrology. I think that I can be really determined and goal oriented and cap moonish, but that mars wants to hold me back. 98% of the time, I am the rational person in arguments, but very rarely (it does happen) that I completely lose my shit and go unstable. It is NEVER for no reason, it's usually a lot of things building up and pushing me further and further until I fall over the edge and there's no going back. I would say this happens maybe 0-2 times per year in a relationship. Zero times, if not. I need space and time in an argument if I realize that a resolution is not currently possible (ex: its going in circles for hours, tension and anger is building, neither side will back down) whereas I am with someone now, who I feel sometimes closes me in, suffocates me, and provokes me during those times. And I can't think of a worst and more incompatible way for someone to respond to me than that lol.
You describe me so well.
Oh yea, I forget you have aqua mars/leo moon. Is it in 12th house?
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Moon 2nd
Mars 8th
Gemithotty we can't see some of your posts in here. I was wondering where you went but your post still aren't showing up !
I’ve made a new account and it still giving me same crap! 👿👿👿
This has got to be le dumbest dxp thread of all time.
My brain has short circuitededed
Maybe your brain need a reset?
Gemithotty we can't see some of your posts in here. I was wondering where you went but your post still aren't showing up !
I’ve made a new account and it still giving me same crap! 👿👿👿
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You have to delete one. We only allowed to have 1 account.
This has got to be le dumbest dxp thread of all time.
My brain has short circuitededed
Maybe your brain need a reset?
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Did you get my reply to you know what?
and a pisces rising
Is that a question.
statement. I maje it a point to remember where pisces is in peoples charts lol
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I sent a song to my favorite female gemini on here and she said it was beautiful.
Does that mean I have to send her money now?
@Hydorah wwyd?