Gemini Woman / Virgo Male

Hello everyone,

I'd like to share a recent experience I had with a Gemini Woman. Maybe you'd be able to en-light my lantern about that :-)

As most of Gemini woman, her life was roll coaster. She did get married for a couple of years and it ended very badly and still in divorce process.

(You would probably think I'm a kamikaze. I like risks in life. Without risks, life would be so boring ^^)


It's done since nearly a year ago. She did have some relationship after her separation and before we met.

We met each other and things worked great. We have a lot in common, there was straight away connections.

However she still harass by her ex-husb who put pressure on her and she did know as well a lot of sleep/tiredness issue. I did help for what I could do and she really did appreciate. It push us to be closer and closer but I was still careful as I'm not a clingy man and for God sake Gemini hates that too as they really need space and time which is absolutely fine for me as I need it too.

But one day when were supposed to see each other for a very lovely night, she was thinking on her side alone and suddenly took the decision to break up with me when few hours she was telling me she'd like to save energy in order to spend more good time together.

She did it with very very cold words (and by text ! OMG so immature and respect-less you would say?) such as she has no feelings for me, she's not loving as she should do and plenty of **** completely irrational in total contradiction with what she does (typically Gemini ^^).

I have a lot of experience with women and especially Gemini but for the 1st time I have to say I'm a bit confused as there are some very bad context besides that (divorce, tiredness, depress which can have a big influence on people even if this person has already and naturally somewhat dodgy behavior).

Our relationship didn't last long but it was very intense. Communicate a lot, laugh of lot, enjoying deep intellectual discussions, etc etc ...

To be honest, in the beginning I was acting very slowly as she knew a very bad adventure and I didn't want to hurt her and rush so I did take it easy to respect her, to protect her and myself at the same occasion.

It's finally her who rushed at me and ... Ah yes ... I wasn't able to resist ^^

As described there, that was exactly what happened when we were together. We were completing each other => http://virgomangeminiwoman.com/

Astrology is not perfect science bu

Astrology is not perfect science but funny true things sometimes. Of course exceptions still exist.

I did tell her before we were getting closer that I never do anything with a woman without feelings, she told me it's the same for her. But when she took the decision to broke up and she did it by text a couple of week after.

You know how Virgo man are. Bit perfectionist, enjoy to do things correctly in total respect for the other and themselves, always willing to understand as they re very understanding by design and they never have bad intentions at all no matter the circumstances. I'm aware as well about Gemini cause I've been with some before her they can't hear the Truth as for them not everything can be said as they systematically get it in good and bad way and most of the time the bad one wins on their mind.

We still see each other but as friends. I still have feelings for her which is not really enjoyable.

I'm wondering if I still have chance to reconquest her or if I clearly wasting my time. In some way I think it's fair to try and to hope. Things that doesn't kill you make you stronger after all heh ? So why not trying.

In addition, she's not seeing other men at all. I have even the feeling she wanted in some way to take a break and give us some time in order to get to know more each other. We planned to do things together before she decided to broke up and she did mention she's still willing to do it even now as friends.

What would you recommend to do if your goal is to reconquest her ? I'm opened to any advices, ideas and suggestions.

Of course, Gemini women are more than welcome to participate :-)

Thanks for reading.


Regards.

I would say your Gem is not ready for you. She is not where you are as far as maturity. Don't waste your time with someone who is not seeing the good you could bring to her after all she's been through. If you must, just be friends with her and see where it goes. Meanwhile see others; don't sit around waiting for her to make up her mind what she wants to do.

Last year I stopped seeing a Virgo man. He was very wishy washy with what he wanted. I finally got the message that he wasn't into me and left him alone. We didn't get along because he liked being vague alot and I'm very direct--straight to the point; no games. The sex was just ok and the communication wasn't that great because he seemed to be on the defense all the time. We went on a few trips together and had a blast though. We are not friends today because I still love him and it hurts too much to be around him. Oh well life goes on...lol!

Gem and Virgo = hard work! Life doesn't have to be that hard...

Thank you for your feedback GemStar05.

You're right, It seems there is a lack of maturity or awareness there. She's clearly not seeing the good I can bring to her unfortunately.

I'm doing what you did recommend, staying friend with her and do not sit even if it's not easy cause of persisting feelings and especially because it has been ended in very meaningless way as everything was fine so far.

Feel sorry for your experience with the Virgo man and it's weird as I'm completely the opposite, I don't like being vague, clearly seeking clear situation, I can enjoy being vague for some other things and it puts a part of mystery over it but for relationship no vague at all, no way ! lol 😄

Life doesn't have to be hard that's true. Keep the things simple cause we live only once after all.

I'm currently enjoying good time as friend with her. I can't get rid of my hopes at this time but I know what you mean by not sitting, waiting and wasting time. We'll see ^^

Many thanks again for your feedback. Really appreciated :-)

Regards,

I would agree with Gemstar, it's to soon yet. She needs more time to heal, plus you wouldn't want to be someone's Psychologist, always crying on your shoulder about the ex.

Thanks for your feedback DeeG,

Yes sure, who wants to play that annoying role ? ^^

It seems to be too early yes. She just got separated officially (I mean by law) but divorce is still in progress and she still has some issues with the ex as he already met somebody else and wants to get rid of that asap. The problem is he's just doing it in bad way/approach by putting endless pressure on her.

Thank you very much for the advises 😉

Regards,