Gemini women and love

Do you find that all the stuff you read about gemini's getting bored with current partners and that we are the sign most likely to cheat is total bullshit?? I have a sister and a best friend that are like me; we love long term relationships, are totally loyal til the bitter end and very much want to be tied down. They are both early June geminis and I am late May.

I also have a male best friend that is a gemini who is late May and he very much is a hopeless romantic and wants only long term relationships and has never cheated. He gets cheated on. He is the sweetest guy I know.

@basari
The only reason I have ever "gotten bored" or was disinterest when I had previous interest was if I got smothered or if the guy was too intense too soon. But I honestly think that is the norm for any person regardless of what sign. I don't fall in love quickly and when I fall in love, I fall hard. I mourn the loss of a relationship (if I felt love for him) for a good while after. I don't immediately jump into another relationship

Posted by Geminihope
Do you find that all the stuff you read about gemini's getting bored with current partners and that we are the sign most likely to cheat is total bullshit?? I have a sister and a best friend that are like me; we love long term relationships, are totally loyal til the bitter end and very much want to be tied down. They are both early June geminis and I am late May.

I also have a male best friend that is a gemini who is late May and he very much is a hopeless romantic and wants only long term relationships and has never cheated. He gets cheated on. He is the sweetest guy I know.

I am a relationship type of person but it will take someone very special to get me to commit. I am not and have never been a cheating type, I have been cheated on quite a bit. My bff is early June and I am a May Gem, we are the same.

Do you have Venus in Gemini?

I have Venus in Cancer with Scorpio moon, I think my moon keeps me kind of grounded.

It really depends on your Venus, Moon, and Mars more than Sun. I'm Gem moon and while bored easily in general have always been looking for my soulmate and 4 of my 5 relationships were very serious (5th relationship married.) My Venus is Scorpio and I'm heavy Libra.

I dated a Gem Sun who knew I only intended to date seriously as I play for keeps. Said he was on board but then I guess he got bored. Dumped me with zero explaination saying we should still hang out as friends (anyone w Scorpio anything will understand the answer to this is treetrunk No.) Thank goodness though because we were not right for eachother and I would've stayed for maybe ever.

Haha, just realized how contradictory my answer was. (Damn Gem moon) My Gem sun ex was pretty much the definition of flakey in our relationship.

@waterygem
I have Venus in Taurus. I have aries moon.

I think I do get bored in relationship but I'm starting to think it's my other twin talking. I've never cheated though. I'm very loyal and giving. I think the honeymoon phase of a new relationship only last 2 months for me. Usually one or the other gets bored or tired so it usually ends. If it last longer then there is hope.

I wouldn't say I get bored. But I do need lots of attention. So if a guy breaks consistency like doesn't contact me as much or isn't making an effort to see me as much then I back off and end things.

Posted by Gemini74
I think I do get bored in relationship but I'm starting to think it's my other twin talking. I've never cheated though. I'm very loyal and giving. I think the honeymoon phase of a new relationship only last 2 months for me. Usually one or the other gets bored or tired so it usually ends. If it last longer then there is hope.

Ive been happily married to my scorpio for 16 years. I have never gotten
Bored with him per say but like most gems ive gotten bored with routine. Especially
When you have kids your love life is affected 24/7.

Ive never cheated nor would I. When I took my vows I meant them til death do us part.
All the gems I know are very committed to their spouses and love the fact that they
Not have a life partner but a life friend.

I am extremely loyal to those I love and cherish. Even when they dont reciprocate.
Ive been hurt a few times because of this but its my nature. Not going to change.

When Ive fallen in love I fall hard. It can be a curse to experience such intensity
If its not reciprocated. But it can also be a blessing because there is no questioning
Your heart when you're that sure.

Aww I love your response! —

Posted by gemini64
Ive been happily married to my scorpio for 16 years. I have never gotten
Bored with him per say but like most gems ive gotten bored with routine. Especially
When you have kids your love life is affected 24/7.

Ive never cheated nor would I. When I took my vows I meant them til death do us part.
All the gems I know are very committed to their spouses and love the fact that they
Not have a life partner but a life friend.

I am extremely loyal to those I love and cherish. Even when they dont reciprocate.
Ive been hurt a few times because of this but its my nature. Not going to change.

When Ive fallen in love I fall hard. It can be a curse to experience such intensity
If its not reciprocated. But it can also be a blessing because there is no questioning
Your heart when you're that sure.

I don't get bored of partners. It takes WAY too long for me to choose someone for me to settle for someone boring. I do get bored of situations and routine, though, and if my partner is just fine with the status quo then I can get frustrated enough to think about leaving. I feel that if someone truly has my best interests at heart he will understand and support my drive for diversity and exploration. That being said, I've never actually left someone because of routine. It was always for more complicated reasons or for cheating.