@Geminthesun
13 Years
Scorpio Sun Male toying w/my Scorpio Moon emotions
Understanding Scorpio Sun and Moon Emotional Dynamics
Scorpio Sun males are often intense and private, showing interest through subtle touches and deep eye contact. Lack of response may indicate emotional guardedness or uncertainty. They can be conflicted between desire and fear of vulnerability. Patience and clear communication are key to understanding their true feelings and intentions.
So far it seems you're the one toying..with us 😛
From here on out, pretend that you do not care...Act as if you have never sent the message, and when he gives you that scorpionic stare, out stare him, but in a non flirtatious way. If you act as if you are affected by his actions, or should I say inaction, it would cause him to stir up more emotions from you. When you see him again, pretend all is well, plaster the biggest and prettiest smile on your face, and remain unaffected. Scorpios like to stir things up,just to see how they affect you. Don't play into it.Once he sees that you are your normal self, and not acting differently towards him, if he does like you, He will respond more favorably.
Posted by Damnata
So far it seems you're the one toying..with us 😛
Chick, You have MAJOR issues....Typical Virgo.
Posted by Damnata
So far it seems you're the one toying..with us 😛Chick, You have MAJOR issues....Typical Virgo.
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Uh.. I think she meant "toying with us" because the OP hid her post..
Posted by Damnata
So far it seems you're the one toying..with us 😛Chick, You have MAJOR issues....Typical Virgo.
Uh.. I think she meant "toying with us" because the OP hid her post..
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Yeah. 😐
But LOL anyway. The jokes write themselves.
I did not mean to hide the message. I accidentally posted it twice and was only trying to hide one. I guess I hid both.
Anyway...
Posted by Geminthesun
I did not mean to hide the message. I accidentally posted it twice and was only trying to hide one. I guess I hid both.
Anyway...
Don't worry. It happens. I was only joking since you're a Gemini 🙂
Posted by Geminthesun
So I sent him this message and he DID NOT RESPOND!
What message did you send him?
Posted by Geminthesun
Well, I did and I feel angry. I sent him another message (probably another mistake to add to the first one) and told him that since he did not respond, I definitely got the message but only enjoyed talking to him.click to expand
Dignity doesn't have anything to do with the other person. But sending a second message after he didn't reply to the first sounds insecurish and pushy to me.
When did you send him the message? How much time has it passed since then?
I don't know about the rest..up until the thing with the messages it seems he was into you but I cannot tell if into you for the sexual chemistry or really into you, so I won't say anything about that.
Disclaimer: I am not a Scorpio, just calling it how I see it. I'm a "Virgo with MAJOR issues"
To Taimichi...or better yet, Komodo Dragon, or whatever your name is:
Definition of Forum: A public meeting place for open discussion.
If you are not offering advice (which I am clearly here for), don't waste my time.
I understand you want to make yourself feel better, but not on my time please.
And if you respond, I won't give you the pleasure of reading it.
I am a Gemini with Scorpio Moon. While I do have traits of a Gemini, I am not the most social or lighthearted as some. I am very emotional and intense and perhaps a little morbid and I guess that COULD be a little of the Scorpio moon in me. It is pretty tough. But again, I am not saying that I am totally like Scorpio. My point is that people often say Scorpios and Geminis do not go well. The things that bother me about Gemini's may be exactly what Scorpio people and other signs dislike and that is what makes me different than the typical Gemini. But who knows.
Damnata: the first message was very gentle as in I did not spill my guts. I simply let him know that I thought he was very attractive and enjoyed his company and hoped there would be more conversations in the future. And I left it at that. I figured that was perfect. It has been about 5 days since I messaged him the 2nd time.
And Damnata, you are right. Sending the 2nd message made me seem like I was insecure....I guess b/c I was. Oh well.
Easha: Thank you for your advice. I am definitely going to take it. All in all, I realize how much energy I am using on this whole thing and just think I need to let it all go and be like whatever. UGH..just hard when you are smitten!
Cancer
Posted by Rabbit
Do you know HIS moon sign?
What do you mean by
Oh.
My.
God.
??
moon trine moon.
you might have better odds with this then the rest of the geminis.
there's a lot of people here who were in a couple with gemini women.
you should post on the gemini board also 🙂
Posted by tiziani
You need to find the one they call DeeGee.
Yes.
Posted by Rabbit
Do you know HIS moon sign?
His moon sign is Cancer
Yes Gem/Scorp is the thing it seems. Although I feel like Gemini is put inferior like the puppy dog begging....lol.
Posted by tiziani
You need to find the one they call DeeGee.Yes.
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Who is DeeGee? Hmmm?
I figure posting on Scorp site, I would get real answers..lol
Posted by tiziani
You need to find the one they call DeeGee.
Who is DeeGee?
And where do I find him?
Posted by tiziani
You need to find the one they call DeeGee.Who is DeeGee?
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She's a Gemini chick with good insight on Scorpio Men.
That's why I suggested to post also on the Gemini Forum. She might roam more there.
Just have patience..haven't seen her in a while.
Something like
"TO DEEGEE, THE SCORPIO BOARD SENT ME HERE"
Posted by Rabbit
Be careful around the one they call "Geminicandie".She hates Scorpios and will likely convince you we are the devil.
Haha!! She may try to convince my brain but she can't forget about convincing my heart! ; )
Thank you Tiziani and Damnata!!!!! I'm gonna do just as you told me!!!!! : )
Posted by tiziani
DeeGee is a Gemini Sun with Scorp Moon. She's a survivor of many Scorp relationships and last time she was here, she was in a successful one with a Scorp I believe. If you send out the bat signal on the Gemini board, it's possible she'll be in touch.
Lol...at "bat signal" .......wish me luck!
Posted by tiziani
You need to find the one they call DeeGee.Who is DeeGee?
And where do I find him?She's a Gemini chick with horrible insight on Scorpio Men.
fixed*
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Oh puhlease, she gave great insight with her last relationship..I think.
Stop fixing me!
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I am a Gemini female with Scorpio Moon and I have really liked a particular Scorpio Sun male for quite awhile...5 years in to be exact. It has taken so long to come to any sort of "action" b/c when we met, we were both attached/married to another. But the chemistry and attraction has always been there and you could cut it with a knife. Anyway, to get to the point, over the past year (each of us "unattached") he has been more touchy-feely and bold. He has touched my thighs, knees, arms, and leaves his hands in place for a long time every time. Sometimes it stays quiet for a long time when we talk and we lock eyes the whole time. He asks me questions about my life and he tells me random things about his life. But, he has never asked me out. So I on the other hand have not pursued him. I feel if a man likes me, he will ask me out right? Anyway, the green light for me to gently break the ice and inform him that I was attracted to him came after he came up to me at the gym by surprise while I was still in my truck. He came up to my car door quite forceful, gave me a hug and squeezed me pretty tight. He then walked me in, and we talked for a good 20 minutes about random stuff. So I sent him this message and he DID NOT RESPOND! I was pretty ticked b/c I thought maybe, just maybe we were both holding back and one of us needed to give in. Well, I did and I feel angry. I sent him another message (probably another mistake to add to the first one) and told him that since he did not respond, I definitely got the message but only enjoyed talking to him. I know this was the wrong thing to say but I felt inclined to salvage my dignity. Again, he didn't respond! I am not so much mortified as I am inclined to let him know he cannot and will not shake me. Of course I will not ever message him again or take his flirtations seriously from here on out. But I just cannot understand why anyone would not respond. At least tell me he didn't mean to lead me on or that he isn't interested. I can live w/that. But not responding is totally rude and confusing since he has always been so kind. So is he interested or not? I am again-UNSURE.