geminians do u like to change urself for some1?

wot do u think? is it fair to change ur self for someone for the sake of a good reltionship. what if u stop trying to be someone else? one day u would be tired of all this trying-stuff and would want to be what u really are.. and then ur relationship will suffer. i think its a misery.


in a good relationship u dont have to change. it doesn't feel real (for me at least) i never try that. i think one should be very much honest in showing her/his true self. i rather like a relationship in which i can be crazy as hell but which never effects the relationship.. i want atleast one person in my life who never judges me no matter how weird silly or insane i act :-P

haha is it a geminian thing?

I don't like to change of anyone. I have experienced myself adjusting to people. But the more I mature I don't even want to do that because many with the exception of very few do not have the same consideration to adjust for me.

If I catch myself making to many concessions for someone, thats an indication something is not vibing. No relationship should feel heavy.

It should flow and move freely.

Posted by geminitwin
I don't like to change of anyone. I have experienced myself adjusting to people. But the more I mature I don't even want to do that because many with the exception of very few do not have the same consideration to adjust for me.

+1

I never change myself for anyone...I love me. Making concessions on things is different; it's not changing yourself for anyone just conceding where necessary and they should do the same on some things.

Will definitely change for the good. And when it comes to relationship one needs to sacrifice not always but then again yes.