Gemini's what is your opinion on this?

There is this Gemini guy (with Gemini Moon, Cancer Mercury, Taurus Venus, Cancer Mars) that I've been very attracted to. We met at work about a month ago, but I was an intern in the HR department and it's unethical to pursue someone when you work in the hiring department. Anyway my internship ended this week, but he made a strong impression on me. So I wanted to know would it creep out a Gemini (or in general someone lol) if I facebooked him and just kinda told him that I thought he was cute, awesome to talk to, and give him my number. Or should I say something else. Thanks.

Btw I'm a Cancer Sun,Asc, Mars so it's pretty obvious why I'm attracted to him lol.

Well, coming from a Gemini who recently came out of a serious 4 year relationship with a Cancer (which ended rather explosively) I can only say one thing... be prepared to change a lot about yourself to accomodate the Gemini. Typical Geminis and Cancers live completely different lives and to make it work, both need to adapt and make some changes to accomodate the other... Cancer's enjoy being at home and being secure and at peace in their surroundings... Gemini's cannot stand being stuck in one place for long and NEED to be let off the leash to explore. It lead to many an argument and many a fight with myself and my once beloved Cancer. If you can pull it off, it could be VERY harmonious... I wish you luck.

In regards to would it creep him out if you approached him with your number? Personally, no. As a Gemini, I appreciate people being honest and upfront. We actually enjoy the thrill and surprise of things like that. If you have particular intentions, make them known.

"or should I say something else?"

ABSOLUTELY NOT! Easiest way to shoot your own foot off with a Gemini - play games, conceal your intentions and beat around the bush. We don't like it, we don't appreciate it and it's your one-way express ticket to being forgotten.

SapphireGem thank you for the feedback. I'm actually not a homebody at all lol. I love going out and really don't like to be home at all. In fact I dated a Gemini (with Gemini Moon, and Venus) but with a Cancer Mercury, and Taurus Venus and he LOVED just hanging out at my place or his. In fact I would want to go out and hang out with friends (Venus in the 11th so being with friends is a big deal), and he would get angry and say I didn't want to spend time with him alone. I'm wondering what was in your Cancer's chart that made him more retiring.

I like this particular Gemini because naturally he fits my ideal of a guy (my Sun and Mars are in Cancer...he's a Cancer Mars), and also we both have Taurus Venus. I actually did request this Gemini and said I thought he was cute, and awesome to talk to when I met him. I also said that I'd like it if he ever wanted to randomly text or chat with me as friends of course, because I love having guy friends and because he seemed nice.

So in short I said I thought he was cute and fun to talk to when I first met him. And that if he ever wanted to randomly talk I'd like that, but as friends because he seemed nice. And I gave my number.

I'm a little sad...no response back, and no text so he wasn't interested at all. And was being a nice Gemini/Cancer influenced guy and didn't want to deny my facebook request (esp after I said that he seemed nice). Part of me wanted him to just deny it, he was never going to see me again anyway so why would it matter. But he was being polite.

One thing that surprised me is that he has a child, and also he doesn't have that many friends on facebook at all (like 110). Plus his family and child are VERY much so a part of his profile (which I'm guessing is the Cancer part of him), and his mom posts on everything lol.

Thanks Mr. Domino, I too have my Venus in Taurus...BUT my Cancer Mars/Sun/Asc all Conjunct each other in the 1st so I'm ANYTHING but passive and slow in dating lol. In fact I tend to move way too fast (and I'm literally the MOST impatient person ever), and want a guy to be quick on the uptake.

If what you are saying is at all true, him not writing back or texting the same day I sent the request isn't all that bad because he will move slowly. I sent the request at like 2am (Saturday), and then he accepted it at like 10 (Saturday). So will the Taurus Venus and Cancer Mars and Mercury cause him to move as slow as an inch worm...even in terms of communication.

Not all cancers are homebodies! Depends on your birth Chart but all my cancer friends are outgoing and love to have fun! lol Just be prepared he wont be in tuned with your sensative side, and have a hard time paying attention. once the honey moon stage is over gemini will find another hobby to put his full attention towards and may lose track of time and interest in whats going on in your world. You will have to learn to not take this personal and find fun new ways to get his off tracked mind back into your good graces!

Cancers are also open to their feelings in a relationship once they are comfortable with that person. When they are angry, sad, or stressed, you like to instantly talk about it to your significant other or express it with emotions (due to your a water sign the water represents your emotions) Gemini men? Not so much. This may bother you too. And sometimes irritates you that he wont tell you why he is being extra quiet or in a bad mood. My advice is too give him his space, let him know when he feels like he is ready to talk, you'll be around the corner. Another thing, Gemini arnt so fond of alot of emotions putting towards them either. They like most of their days to be light and cheerful. If you express too much of your emotion directly too him, he may analyze too much, get scarred, and run!

Posted by USCGrl713
There is this Gemini guy (with Gemini Moon, Cancer Mercury, Taurus Venus, Cancer Mars) that I've been very attracted to. We met at work about a month ago, but I was an intern in the HR department and it's unethical to pursue someone when you work in the hiring department. Anyway my internship ended this week, but he made a strong impression on me. So I wanted to know would it creep out a Gemini (or in general someone lol) if I facebooked him and just kinda told him that I thought he was cute, awesome to talk to, and give him my number. Or should I say something else. Thanks.

Btw I'm a Cancer Sun,Asc, Mars so it's pretty obvious why I'm attracted to him lol.

wow my guy friend has the EXACT placements lol. he's moody, independent, flirty, stubborn, emotional, busy, family man, very generous, loves to spend money on himself and his kids, workaholic, and a homebody and he likes to cook and eat. all he ever wants to do is stay home and play video games for HOURS. all im going to say is if you REALLY want to be with this guy take it slow and i mean slow. if he's been hurt before then extra slow and build a close bond with him. keep it honest but not so emotional. be sarcastic, fun and open. but DO NOT play games. be straightforward with everything. pay attention to everything he says and does. once he commits he will give his all. he will be a great provider and best friend. just learn to handle his moods. geminis are great ppl to other great ppl. you treat them good they will treat you better.

one last thing if you are going to act a certain way towards him dont be shocked when he does it to you.

ME:
RISING: SCORPIO
SUN: LEO
MOON: SAGI
MERC: CANCER
VENUS: GEMINI
MARS: LIBRA


HIM:
RISING: LEO
SUN: GEMINI
MOON: GEMINI
MERC: CANCER
VENUS: TAURUS
MARS: CANCER