Dating a Gem man for about a year now. Been friends for 3 years. I'm a Gem woman who is at a total lost when it comes us.His hot and extremely cold tendencies leave me feeling lost and does a number to my self-esteem to a point where I can't help but wonder if I had said or done something wrong.About two months ago he stopped interacting with me on Facebook/Instagram. He no longer likes or comments on anything I post. Last week for the first time I felt like we really connected sharing with me personal stories of his past, and how he is currently struggling financially and not really getting along with his parents. We had an amazing night, making me feel that we were progressing. Then he disappears. One worded texts. Not answering for nearly 10 hours at a time. I left him be and just the other night we ran into each other at a party. He stayed with me the whole night letting me know how his week went, etc. When I left he said he would leave with me. I was going to take the train back, but instead, he offered to get me a cab. He told me to tell him how my schedule is looking to see if we can make plans to hang out. We kissed goodbye, and as the cab pulled away he blew me a kiss. I wrote to him the next day and it has been a full day with no response. An hour ago he writes hey and that he can no longer meet this weekend due to a friend being in town and MAYBE can meet Sunday but he can't promise me that he can. I care deeply for him, but even for me, this is getting pretty exhausting.
