Help me understand my Gemini man !?

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angelbunnydarlinglibra
@angelbunnydarlinglibra
15 Years

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Hi everyone ,I need help! For the first time in my life I think I've met my match! I lovvvvvveeee geminis ! I have had to learn the hard way through 12 years and a divorce that libras and cancers just don't mesh well. So I'll get to the point..after my split I started dating again .I was out one night in hermosa beach with my bff(a Gemini girl) and I was just about to leave ..when I was approached by the most dreamiest awesome man I've ever laid my eyes on.I'm sooo picky and I rarely give any men a second look,but all it took was a few charming words and I was totally interested.he picked me up ,twirled me in a circle and I couldn't resist giving him my number.immediately we started talking like evday it was great.he lives 2 hours away ,and we got off to a rough start,this was our first fight..we made plans for him to drive out one day ..but he didn't actually confirm it (like a simple yes or no ) he just said ok so mabye Thursday I'll be out ,well I made plans to wrk( I'm a hairdresser )and he drove all the way out and was PISSED that I couldn't hang out !! He texted me a kinda mean message saying I PROMISE this will never happen again. PEACE! I tried to tell him I was sorry and he never called back .4 months later he called me finally.one year later I'm in love . He has been very sweet .sent me flowers on V-day,and just all around wonderful.the thing that I can't understand is one week before he deployed (he is a navy seal) we were talking on the phone and he finally brought up the subject. He made a comment to me that really hurt my feelings!! He said ,well the reason u don't nag me is because your not my girl ,I said ..then what am I?? He said ,,your just Angie (that's my name) I could have died right there .all along I thought I was his girl!! He told me that I wasn't to receive any calls from any other guys ??!! WTF . So basically our phones got disconnected and he never called me back .he was supposed to come over that night ,but didn't even call me .the next day I was supposed to drive down to S.D with him .out of the blue at like 4 :00pm I get a text ,it said ..hey u still coming to s.d ? I'm leaving soon..I was so hurt from his weirdness the day before I told him no.and that he hurt my feelings ,I wanted to be left alone. A few weeks later I tried to contact him saying ..please don't leave without saying goodbye! But no reply.I am so sad.do you think he will ever contact me again?Should I just move on? Should I call ? Please help! Thanks guys.
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angelbunnydarlinglibra
@angelbunnydarlinglibra
15 Years

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awww thanks so much for taking the time to answer,yes definitly we both have walls up,and thats where the games come in,i think your right.i will call him when i think he is back ,and totally just be chill.and act like i dont remember the issue.im pretty sure it is impossible for a gemini to dwell on something so unimportant,they tend to move on fast!like....super fast!!lol.thanks darlin!!