help meh plz T_T

a gemini is trying to get me to go out with him and i keep telling him im not ready for a serious relationship but we can still hang around and you know just be close friends ...

well awhile of us hanging out leads to unconfortable moments when he trys to kiss me and so i dont make him feel bad i ...i let him.i donno why normaly i would push him away and scold him but i just sort of....said whatever which was wrong of me and i know that.

he keeps buging me for a more serious relationship and cant understand i need more time to heal from my last relationship with my x which was a scorp....everytime i hear sumone say his name i burst in tears.im still not over him you could say i guess lol...but how can i make him understand.i tell him sumthing and its like talking to a wall! T_T he makes me feel so bad and i feel like its all my fault which it is.

he always thinks im lieing to him and always pushs me too fast and im trying to be nice about it because i dont want him to hate me cuz i really like him...how can i convince him that im serious and need more time and hes pushing me too fast...telling him that is not enough...what do i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Tell him straight out, look i just want to be friends. But don't kiss him and mess with his head bc your giving him the wrong idea. Dont feel bad just say "Look now is not a good time, and i'm not changing my mind right now so if you can respect that i'd appreciate it" something of that sort.

perfectly said m&m!

m&m is right....the direct approach, something I need sometimes...