he's making me crazy!

ahhh! this gem guy from work is hardcore pursuing me...but i keep saying no. 1) we work together (not directly or in same departments...just same company), and 2) he seems like he's a player. i've seen him talking to another girl at work, but he's never hung out with her outside of work. he works with my friend and she says he talks about me ALL day long, ALL the time, even when i'm not there. i told him that i think he is a player and he told her that it really sucks that i came to that conclusion, but he understands why i'd think that.

the problem is, we get along really well. have so much fun...and i like him. i am a sag female. and i hate that i like him.

i am torn cuz i don't know if i should even give him a chance.

also...i keep saying no and he keeps pursuing me, but how do i know if i finally go out with him, he loses interest cuz theres no challenge anymore?

sounds romantic you must be interesting for him 🙂 Well in no time first dinner will be served. After all you met somebody he knows how to conquer. Good luck and have fun.

LOL good one tet. I can't give you any real advise i think. I'm a gem guy I like poeple girls who play along, yes they definatly have to play back, I love attention (I wonder if theirs anyone who dosn't?) and a girl who flirts back. Ohhh I do have something that might be usefull lol. When I was going out with my leo girl I still flirted with other girls...mind you I never cheated in anyway...but it's great she didn't mind me just flirting lightly because flirting is like iono I see a attractive girl I wanta flirt lol. This one girl come on to me strong but I denied her. I'm trying to say I flirt with many girls as well like you just described, however when I am with someone I like and really want a chance with I do draw lines with other girls. Just my veiw