How do gems get into peoples

head?

is there one particular way you do it? My gem ex contacted me two weeks ago insisting i get in contact with him via phone on fb message. I was going to just ignore but he kept pushing so I did it and he started babbling about how we have a spiritual connection and how he always thinks of me. I thought it was bs and still do but he keeps hitting me up. But he also is flaunting pics of this girl as soon as he accpeted me on his instagram....like why after a whole year would you contact me just to fucking bring drama. I havent said a word about it but I think he is clearly trying to get a rise out of me. He called on sat and said he wanted to see me but I was half sleep and I said i would call back, but I didnt because I had a busy day, that same day he uploaded another pic of this same girl and himself. In total its been two years since we last were together but is this dude serious. Like why?!

like if you gotta a girl and you happy why the f are you trying to piss me off? and get a rise out of me.

I'm a woman, but I don't go out of the way to contact an ex. Normally it's the other way around. *shrugs*

To me tho, it sounds like he's wanting to flaunt a bit.

Posted by pssymonstaa
lol

well lets not jump to conclusions... that girl hes posting could be anyone.
a cousin, a friend a distant somebody...
guys take pics with bitches all the time to elevate status. lol

umm. honestly.. being a Gemini myself.. if I were to hit up an ex after a year
it wouldnt be to piss her off or to get in her head.

maybe he just wants to kick it... or maybe hes lonely and needs a nut.

what about you do? are you going to give him a chance or you gonna shut him out? im curious 🙂

i hear ya....and I normally wouldnt assume but the caption said my baby and its been deliberate ever since weve accpeted each other on instagram. he only has a small number of pics, but his posting frequency has all of a sudden increased.

im currently shutting him out....havent responded to his last couple of attempts to contact me because i sense the bullshit. hes doing the same bs he did before two years later...he hasnt grown a bit it seems.

had he shown signs of improvement I would at least chill with him because I have been lonely, but im no where near desperate...ill wait for something good.

Posted by misslissa
I'm a woman, but I don't go out of the way to contact an ex. Normally it's the other way around. *shrugs*

To me tho, it sounds like he's wanting to flaunt a bit.

thats what im thinking but like y.....honestly we werent even together that long..shoot In my head I dont even really consider it a relationship be cause it sank as fast as it started.

I have no clue... I guess it would depend on actually how long you were together and the circumstances of the breakup/separation.

But, all in all, ignoring is your best option. Sounds like he is looking for a response, considering he's being relentless(?).