Leo sun ex is keeping me around?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Galoppig on Wednesday, February 15, 2023 and has 11 replies.

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@Galoppig
4 Years

He has leo sun, cancer moon and virgo venus. Idk his rising. I was his first relationship that lasted longer then a month, we were together for 7 months.

I feel like he is keeping me around and I really don't know why.

He broke up with me a week ago, over text. We called on the phone afterwards and he asked me if he could text with me next weekend. On the phone he said that he still loves me. So I honestly do not believe that because we had just gotten past the stage wherein we would argue a lot, I feel like he just didn't want to commit. He rather play the field..

Within three days of our break up he was already on the dating app. My friend saw his profile saying he is looking for a committed relationship so that's why I don't buy his words. He has unfriended me on fb and blocked me on insta, then he texted me apologizing for doing so and saying he understood that was not the right thing to do. And he apologized about how all of 'this'(?) is not what he wants either. But he never added me back and unblocked me since. All I pointed out to him was if he could delete the picture of us that was still on his fb.

In that same text he told me he will give me my stuff back, even though I already said I don't need it back. And how he suggest we should keep ourselves to the appointment we made meaning he will text me next weekend.

What's a girl got to do with this. Honest opinions please!

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Galoppig
He has leo sun, cancer moon and virgo venus. Idk his rising. I was his first relationship that lasted longer then a month, we were together for 7 months.

I feel like he is keeping me around and I really don't know why.

He broke up with me a week ago, over text. We called on the phone afterwards and he asked me if he could text with me next weekend. On the phone he said that he still loves me. So I honestly do not believe that because we had just gotten past the stage wherein we would argue a lot, I feel like he just didn't want to commit. He rather play the field..

Within three days of our break up he was already on the dating app. My friend saw his profile saying he is looking for a committed relationship so that's why I don't buy his words. He has unfriended me on fb and blocked me on insta, then he texted me apologizing for doing so and saying he understood that was not the right thing to do. And he apologized about how all of 'this'(?) is not what he wants either. But he never added me back and unblocked me since. All I pointed out to him was if he could delete the picture of us that was still on his fb.

In that same text he told me he will give me my stuff back, even though I already said I don't need it back. And how he suggest we should keep ourselves to the appointment we made meaning he will text me next weekend.

What's a girl got to do with this. Honest opinions please!

A girl has to get herself some boundaries 😉

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

"I was his first relationship that lasted longer then a month, we were together for 7 months."

Must have felt like an eternity for a serial dater! He's stringing you along for something you are good at providing for him (validation, casual sex, cash, lifts, emotional support, advice....whatever). Take it as a compliment.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

He breaks up with you, blocks you, tells you he still loves you but can't commit, trolls women for pussy on dating sites saying 'I'm looking for a committed relationship". Like honestly, how have you not lost all respect for him at this point?

I got second hand cringe reading how he is treating you and how YOU are allowing it. Take a page out of his book and block his ass.

He chose to end the relationship. His choice. So he doesn't get to have access to you anymore. Got it?

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@Galoppig
4 Years

Posted by 1917191
You should take a break from dating for a while and enjoy life. Dating one person after another is pointless and create the potential for STDs/wear down on your self esteem even further.

I know what u mean