How do you know when a Gem Guy is Mad..?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Sammie5 on Monday, October 14, 2002 and has 10 replies.

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@Sammie5
21 Years

Ok all you Gem folk...tell me how can you tell when a Gem guy is about to blow his stack...Do they ever? Or do they just stay in a bad mood?

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@twinkee77
21 YearsGemini

He will be in a bad mood. He is waiting for you to ask what is wrong just so he can blow up at you and debate the issue. I know that's how I act when I'm. He probably wants you to figure out what is wrong with him. His mood will let you know. He will be quiet. Go ahead ask him what is wrong.

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@Suzy-Q!
21 Years500+ Posts

I dont think they blow up; I think they will disappear for some time to think and be with other people. Usually they will talk it over but not with the person that they are having the problem with. That person is usually the last one they will talk to!!! Trust me I know!

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@Luz
21 Years1,000+ Posts

usually, for me i just stay quiet until someone asks me whats wrong and then i get all into the subject and start getting all dramatic. Or what twinkee said, sometimes i want the person to figure out whats wrong before i tell em. Just depends on what the situation is. But im not a man so..LOL i dont know, well maybe it helps alittle ~_~

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@phoenix_rising
21 Years5,000+ Posts

My dad's a gemini, and he has a rather explosive temper. He's quiet at first, but you say one wrong thing to him and it's like putting a pin in a balloon--he freaks out, and then twenty minutes later you can joke and laugh with him and he acts like he's totally forgotten your previous infringement. My aquarius mom and I refer to this phenomenon as "The Gemini Switch". lol. I even have a funny little gesture I do to mimic him (when he's not in the room), I make a clicking sound with my tongue while jerking my head to one side and then straightening it again really fast. lol. Like, "click I'm normal click I'm insane".

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@Cortica
21 YearsGemini

LOL@the above posts - all true.

I can't speak for a man, however, when I'm annoyed, if it's a stranger I'll usually be really quite rude/sarcastic/insulting (sorry phoenix, I'm sure you know that side of me 🤢gt😉 - if it's someone I'm close to, I'll show no signs of being in a bad mood, wait for them to notice that I'm acting exactly the same as I normally would and therefore there's obviously something wrong and they should read my mind to find out what it is (highly ineffective!!! LOL).

When the person fails to notice I'm really in a bad mood, I get even more annoyed and friend horrendously about them to anyone I can find who will listen (such as friends, family, the guy selling cigarettes etc.) When the object of my annoyance still doesn't realize I'm running death fantasies involving them through my head every 45 seconds or so, I'll generally tend to lose my temper, have a big spat and then promptly forget about it in about four and a half minutes.

See......the gemini mind is such a simple thing to understand!

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@Sammie5
21 Years

That's pretty funny...I guess being a Scorp I have a tendency to ignore....which with a certain Gem who I know (Male Gem) he doesn't like one bit.....he actually hates it, but he won't say anything to me....so I keep on being a little friend by ignoring him and at one point I happen to glance in his direction and look him straight in the eye, I mean, give him that "Scorpio Stare" and this poor Gem can't smile any bigger, he also turns red...but that's all I do, I don't say anything....so far it's been about 3 weeks that this is going on and I know he's on the edge, looks like he's about to blow, I just wanted to know if you guys do blow up..I have seen him blow up at other people, but he's never blown up on me....I'll keep you informed..

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@phoenix_rising
21 Years5,000+ Posts

LOL--yes Cortica, I'm pretty familiar with that side of you, but it's all good, your apology is accepted, I hope you can accept mine for the things I said previously that annoyed you 🙂 (that was an "I'm sorry, Cortica", if that wasn't clear) lol.

"See......the gemini mind is such a simple thing to understand!"

lol...I've noticed this about several geminis in my life: they are at once childlike and innocent, yet somewhat jaded; at once intellectually complicated, but emotionally pretty simple. I just thought I would share my observation 😛