How to get a Gemini guy?

So, I was wondering how does an Aqua girl pick up a Gemini guy nowadays? How do you geminis feel about being hit on? Also, what are your thoughts on Gemini moons? And how does anyone keep a gemini around?

I saw your astrology profile on your page and at first glimpse, if I had a pile of astrology charts to pick for a new partner or friend yours would be at the top of the list.
I get what you mean, wanting attention from someone you want to get attention from and being turned off by someone you don't. That happens to be the case with me when I want a romantic partner. If I truly don't like someone I tend not to lead them on and sort of give them the cold shoulder, even though it makes me sound like a snob, but it's a bother when someone who is attracted to me comes off as wanting all of my attention.
I'm not someone who likes to seem like a know it all, but sometimes I can't help it. I blurt out random information and it seems to bug some people, while others don't really care. I only dated one Gemini guy and it was a disaster in the end. We were together for a year, but he was really clingy and I was not expecting that, also I found out he was cheating on me which broke my heart. 😢
I love talking to Gemini guys though, I am the one to initiate the conversation most of the time.

I was laways initiating the conversation with my Gem. 😢

I wish I wasn't so emotional. I feel he and I could have worked out if I had less water in me. >_

I have very few water in my chart in my opinion. Saturn and Venus conjunct in Pisces, which makes me reserved. Also they square my moon and I am like a desert when it comes to emotional stuff, but if this get real rough I cry to myself. I never in my life would put an air sign through my emotional crap.

Posted by MrDomino
I, personally, have had absolutely no luck with Aqua females. I'm yet to keep a female Aqua friend. Sorry if that deters you; I'm just making note. They come off as very "I'm always right" like personalities. That is ridiculously annoying, as it is far from the truth.

A big thing for me is reciprocation of attention. Not in the sense of those attention whores, but in the means to receive the desire that the other wants to interact with me. Don't let the Gem only come to you, give him, now and then, your time and day because you want to. I tend to want to get attention from those I seek it from, others not so much. Being hit on by someone I'm not interested in, or if I'm with someone, is a big "no-no" to me. I've been getting it quite a lot these days and it's ever so annoying. Make note that Geminis are not attention whores by the slightest although we typically are at the centre of attention, the loudest, or the ones that bite back the hardest.

Other means of keeping a Gem is to keep his mind active and to let him unwind when needed. We wear ourselves out half the time. Give us support in our dreams, comfort us when need be, etc., and you'll keep him.

I can't agree more. From my experiences of gems and aquas (sun comparison) can be a reallly good one or bad depending on the rest of the signs in our placements. Gemini men want a partner in crime a equal match to their social life, work, friendships, and mental connection. If you dont text as often...they could just take it the other way , your not as interested im moving on. Gemini men would like a equal in that sense. In other words, one who just shares themselves rather doing things to get a certain result. Some of my gfs who have dated (not exclusive type relationship) always get insecure with their geminis due to a lack of texting. They let their insecurities and need to be loved as the goal which then reflects in the way they text (mind games) the way they interact (desperate) (lack of conviction). Right when my gfs take my advice and to just have fun text whenever they want stop playing hard to get the gemini men seem to respond better to it..Which leads me to another point. To really keep a gemini, you must have convictions and also your own opinions+ social skills. learning when to give advice or when to listen. They love it when people listen to them..not overpower them. So som

So sometimes a aqua sun and gemini sun cancel each other out. These two signs love talking.

To keep a gemini, stop talking about the relationship and just live it. While Aquas area bout physical space. Gemini's are more about having their Mental space. The more one pries and intrudes their mental space, the more they will drift away. Gemini's really strive to be balance individuals. Not too little of everything and not too much of anything. The ideal mate should be that as well, one who loves to do anything, anywhere, anytime, talk about anything and even if you aren't a expert at the topic of conversation, being interested and intriqued by what the gemini talks about excites them.

At the end of the day, A gemini can't be held by another person ..lol that is crazy to want to posses someone? i dont want men who want to control or pocess me

so for starts, take that idea of keeping them out your brain.
2) live and let live
3) dont misjudge them (judgin is okay) just dont misjudge them
4) dont make them sound stupid..gemini's even in disagreement will apply the appropriate words to apply their oppositions. they wont flat out say "your stupid" they usually would start off "i can also see your point, i also feel that could be the case" conversation is a exchange of ideas not debate..not all the time at least ..

5) looks: if you have a gem into you..change of your looks here and there. i once colored my hair blond...my gemini ex at the time was shocked out of his mind. jumped up and down then we got freaky 😉
6) Just be like jim carrey in "YES MAN!" just say yes to everything. be down to do any adventure ..seek the positives in life.

doing all that everything else will fall into place,

I think a mature Gemini is better, gemini's develop slowly, so get one thats a bit older than you. and who has a career in place.

I'm a Gemini guy and I dislike Aqua girls. Can't trust them as far as I can throw them.

Actually this goes for Aqua guys too.

I dont have much Gemini male friends just exs . however, i did notice my ex's would share their opinions and "logic" behind why so and so is horrible or why they dont like them. Once again they just say it in such a balance way and not straight out shit talk. they would phrase it in a "nice" way but others would hear just the shit.

My ex would exaggerate stories and opinions of others..going back and forth back and forth with what they think about an item (even something simple like soap) to a person. I don tthink they Lie to hurt..but LIE to bring importance and validation of themselves.

hahhaha mr domino is right in a way where generally aquas ACT like they know everything. But i as an aqua..gemini moon. libra rising would like to add..well...its probably just due to a poor understanding or perhaps a lack of care how the message is delivered.

Talked to a aqua guy and got into so many arguments due to his lack of..even after i apologized for "causing" his "pain" despite not agreeing..i logically procceeded with a well balanced solution. Apologizing for the misunderstanding, offer where i stood at the time of the event, ask what i could do to better improve. EVEN THEN, he stubbornly disagreed with every sentence and missed the overall point: resolution. SO during this process he self inflicted himself to get no remorse or understanding back. At the end, i diffused the situation and he was back to friendly self. I wondered if that is how aquas come across to other signs. just cruel? lol im sure in hell not like that.