How to handle an angry gemini

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Octoberbaby91
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11 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

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you can't change a man they have to change for themselves. He is stuck in his ways and you didnt become insecure you were already insecure he just bought it to light.

You are missing the most important things for a relationship communication and trust. If you don't have those you need to cut your loses before you spend another 5 years putting through pain that you could have avoided.

Let your ego go pick up yourself respect and accept the things you can't change. What's meant to be will never be forced.

In the meantime of waiting for true love focus on yourself because clearly putting all your energy into him is distracting from focusing on you.
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Octoberbaby91
@Octoberbaby91
11 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Comments: 17 · Posts: 1335 · Topics: 35
you can't change a man they have to change for themselves. He is stuck in his ways and you didnt become insecure you were already insecure he just bought it to light.

You are missing the most important things for a relationship communication and trust. If you don't have those you need to cut your loses before you spend another 5 years putting through pain that you could have avoided.

Let your ego go pick up yourself respect and accept the things you can't change. What's meant to be will never be forced.

In the meantime of waiting for true love focus on yourself because clearly putting all your energy into him is distracting from focusing on you.
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beatrix
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10 Years

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Things that makes me insecure with hiM:
1. He is a very big liar. I am asian, so internet cafe is very popular. At the time during his thesis, he went there every day, whole day full. i was bussy at my office, so i cannot meet him. And he said he stay at home, he rarely pick up my phone, only send bbm.Finally he fail his thesis defense that time.

2. He lied when he said he went with his boy friends. actually, he just went with one girl (he said he take this girl as his best friend) but i never knew abt this girl. Well,he went with her a couple of time.

3. He used to make a lot of promises that he never did it. And i always need to figure it out by myself is he working for it or not. I didnt ask for a change or promise at that time, but he made it in order to make me stayed.

4. He become a very manipulative person. He always said i'm crazy and getting angry a lot with all of my negative thought everytime i accuse him for something he lies about. In fact, he is the one whose lying to me and all of his Friends.

Well, at the first time i never did any checking things with his mobile. Just ask where did he go etc. I wait for him to tell me. But then he lied to me.
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geminiguy
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10 Years

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I am agree with geminidude. Gemini and aquarius are totaly a perfect couple since a very begining. But i don't agree that you and you're gem are not meant to be together.

I am a gem man. I was married with my aquarius wife for 6 years. It's not an easy things at the beginning.

I think, the main problem is your gem man have to know that aquarius usually hate a liars. They can accept and forgive you, but they will keep that in mind and regretting a lot about that.

You also need to know that gem man always need a perfect time to discuss something, you cannot rush him. He need space. I am quite surprise why your gem man lie a lot.

I used to try relationship with a lot of different zodiac girl. Finally found out that aquarius is the best one. i only can show my two side personality in front of her.