
RealTalk
@RealTalk
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Posted by SaxNtheCity1
"Maybe that saying is true...you only get 2 great loves in life. Dafuq? I saw that on sex in the city once, hahahaha. I hope that is wrong. *shrugs*"
This is wrong,I had at least 3 great loves and my venus is in Cancer.So have hope my dear🙂

Posted by bubblyaquarius
Hmm, so how is your love life as of right now, RealTalk?

Posted by bubblyaquarius
I know what you mean. I don't know about you, but having a lot of air in me, when I like somebody, know matter how much I act like I hate them, ignore them, am rude to them, avoid them, everyone can sense the energy in the room between us. Like its that strong. When someone likes me, or I like them, people can sense it. There are times when its another person who likes me, and I don't like them, and people can still sense it. Its freaky. But when its me and another air sign guy, GAWD, everyone can tell. For some reason I apparently sound believable when I tell people I don't like certain guys, thank goodness. I hate to have everyone know who my crush is. I love that energy though. Not to mention it keep sother women away, even when I'm on the other side of the room. Lol 😆

Posted by SaxNtheCity1Posted by RealTalkPosted by SaxNtheCity1
"Maybe that saying is true...you only get 2 great loves in life. Dafuq? I saw that on sex in the city once, hahahaha. I hope that is wrong. *shrugs*"
This is wrong,I had at least 3 great loves and my venus is in Cancer.So have hope my dear🙂
Hahahahaha!!!! You remember right? You're a sex in the city fan I believe. When I think it was Charlotte who said Carrie's 2 great loves were Big & Aiden? She ended up with Big. Shit...I hope it is wrong. It better be.
Oh God,I can't stand that prim n proper bitch Charlotte,lol.She and her ideas of love=not for me.Hmmm,makes me think,what could be her sign?What about rest of the girls?Hahahahahaah,we shall play a guessing game!
But yes,Carrie ended up with Big and gave rest of us girls *hope*,ahem,lol,for that bigggggg loveeee.
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Posted by SaxNtheCity1Posted by bubblyaquarius
I do know what you mean as well. When I look back, I feel less attatched. I start to view the relationship in a more balanced light, and they weren't amazing, even when they were, hence we are all still single. Can't wait to meet Mr. AHMAZING forrrealll someday!
I see 3 ahmazinngggg girls here right now,all single,where are all da men??Hehheheheheheclick to expand

Posted by bubblyaquarius
Ahh, well exes is another matter. Yeah, I will always feel for my exes. And honestly, I think its only right. Anyone who doesn't, doesn't have a heart.
I guess I don't have a heart then. Most of them can kiss my ass.

Posted by bubblyaquariusPosted by RealTalkPosted by bubblyaquarius
Ahh, well exes is another matter. Yeah, I will always feel for my exes. And honestly, I think its only right. Anyone who doesn't, doesn't have a heart.
I guess I don't have a heart then. Most of them can kiss my ass.
RealTalk! *scolds* Now make up your mind. You either still love em or you want them to kiss your ass!? Wait, that sounds sexual... o.0click to expand
Did I say I still love my exes? I don't remember saying that, if so I stand corrected. I said they're still trying to come back into my life after so many years. I don't want any of them. The only ex I still love is fucktard. That will turn into hate soon. I can feel it.
I think I'm more angry at the fact that he's not fighting for me anymore. I'm like ok FUCK YOU THEN!!!!! 😛

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22Posted by RealTalkPosted by PotHeadVirgo22
How's that working for ya?^^^Does it effect you women differently then men with this placement?
Eh...it's closed for repairs! 😛 do you have the same placement?
Yep....Venus in mother fucking libra.click to expand



Posted by bubblyaquariusPosted by SaxNtheCity1Posted by bubblyaquariusPosted by PotHeadVirgo22
I'm not sure whether this thread needs some dick or a hug—...
Oh baby I'm ready! 😆
Both,good d**ing followed by a hug🙂)
Are you volunteering,Virgo?Hhahhahah
This is an interesting party. Someone who says they are not older then 32, with someone who was born mid 90s with...RealTalk, I can only imagine what she says during sex. =oclick to expand

Posted by SaxNtheCity1
Oh girls,I'd love to stay,but I have to go and read some stuff for tomorrow,blah.
This was way more interesting.
Catch with you tomorrow,laters aligators🙂

Posted by bubblyaquarius
I sing that song when I think of my Gem! STOP IT! omfg! NUoooo! I can't help myself. *clicks*

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22Posted by RealTalkPosted by PotHeadVirgo22Posted by RealTalkPosted by PotHeadVirgo22
How's that working for ya?^^^Does it effect you women differently then men with this placement?
Eh...it's closed for repairs! 😛 do you have the same placement?
Yep....Venus in mother fucking libra.
Ooooh...how's that working for you? What's your experience?
It led me to get stood up before,lol...among other things.
Actually I was with another venus in libra virgo like yourself. Allow me to say, yall dont make a relationship easy haha.click to expand


Posted by bubblyaquarius
Milf..


Posted by bubblyaquarius
I am not about to chase a man. Relationships should happen naturally. And after a break up, no way I'm contacting my ex.

Posted by bubblyaquariusPosted by RealTalk
@Bubbly, don't get me wrong. I initiate too but it has to be balanced. Him maybe a tad bit more than me. 😛 I think I know why he changed his # too & no it's not because he didn't want me to call! I never called him like that anyway. That was one of his problems with me. He'd say I didn't call enough, which of course I thought was bs.
Oh, BTW, I never disclose my age. 😉
@pothead, yeah, "perfection" was my problem. I had to throw that shit out the window along time ago. We're human. We fuck up. I had to get my head out of the clouds regarding that. I had such an unrealistic perspective about relationships, but I'm still learning. It may be because I was kind of a playgirl when younger. *shrugs*.
Once I am in a relationship with a guy, trust me, I'm all over him, just not before its official or when its over. Ya know?click to expand

Posted by bubblyaquariusPosted by RealTalkPosted by bubblyaquarius
I am not about to chase a man. Relationships should happen naturally. And after a break up, no way I'm contacting my ex.
I'm not doing that shit either. Sorry. There is a difference between showing your interest in an individual by initiating, & chasing someone.
Yeah. My first post about initiating might have come off wrong. lol I do flirt, and I've had my flings, but when its someone I REALLLLY LIKE, I just get paralyzed. Apparently I'm not the only fishy who does that though. I have lots of pisces in me. I can be crazy feminine/senstive/elusive sometimes. =/click to expand

Posted by Pecheresse
When you're ready to let go of any resentment, you can expect to bump into him unexpectedly.

Posted by bubblyaquariusPosted by RealTalkPosted by bubblyaquariusPosted by RealTalkPosted by bubblyaquarius
I am not about to chase a man. Relationships should happen naturally. And after a break up, no way I'm contacting my ex.
I'm not doing that shit either. Sorry. There is a difference between showing your interest in an individual by initiating, & chasing someone.
Yeah. My first post about initiating might have come off wrong. lol I do flirt, and I've had my flings, but when its someone I REALLLLY LIKE, I just get paralyzed. Apparently I'm not the only fishy who does that though. I have lots of pisces in me. I can be crazy feminine/senstive/elusive sometimes. =/
Now I'm confused. I'm not a cheater. I'll flirt too but once I'm with that person, I'm loyal. What I mean by initiating is that I will show him my interest in him. Once he gets my drift, he has to show that same interest in me. I'm not one to constanly call someone, or leave messages for them to call me back, or send him a flood of text on how I want him to call me. WHAT? That's chasing. I'll call once, no answer. Then I'll text once. THAT'S IT. He saw my missed call & he saw the text. I'm done. If he doesn't respond, I'm not contacting him again.
I don't think your a cheater, who said that?! I don't mess around inside a relationship. I'm too emotional for that. But pot head thinks I never initiate anything, and I most definitely have before. But usually with people I am not truly interested in. As I said, I get shy around my true loves. Mhmm, I get that. That's the smart thing to do in those situations. Sensible.click to expand

Posted by bubblyaquarius
Are either of you artists?

Posted by PecheressePosted by RealTalkPosted by Pecheresse
When you're ready to let go of any resentment, you can expect to bump into him unexpectedly.
Lol, guess that won't be anytime soon. I still have alot of resentment. We live in the same town so I purposely avoid the places I think I may see him. I don't want to bump into him now because I won't say anything to him. Not even hello.
Yeah I know exactly what you're saying. Been doing the same. Ex Leeb is living down the road. We'd ignore each other like we were dead after breaking up. We were totally fucking damaged by the relationship. I could choke him to death I had so much hatred and resentment. I was going through all the sites on narcissism and emotional abuse to get over the monster I once loved. Truth is, I wasn't over it at all. After months of battling with it I decided that I'd have enough of resentment. I let go. I forgave. I had grown and learned the lesson. And so it happened that I bumped into him and that we're now the friends we should of been when together. It's kinda sad looking back & admitting we were strangers kinda, but I take it when it's not time, don't push it. And I really am thankful to have him now say shit like, you know, I was a mean dick but the relationship we had was still pretty much my fav. i call it masochism. LOL
DAYM. I waited all that time to get him to say that.click to expand

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22Posted by RealTalkPosted by bubblyaquarius
Are either of you artists?
Who? Me? If you were referring to me yes I am. A Graphic Artist. I also like to paint, draw, etc.
Before I pass out, what's your moon in?...and mars?...and mercury—click to expand

Posted by bubblyaquariusPosted by RealTalkPosted by bubblyaquarius
Are either of you artists?
Who? Me? If you were referring to me yes I am. A Graphic Artist. I also like to paint, draw, etc.
WOW! I love Graphic Art and I do like to paint and draw as well. I like to make jewelry, paint, draw, mess with graphic design and web design, play with makeup, I am a pretty good makeup artist and I love to play with my hair. I have pink streaks in my hair currently. lolclick to expand



Posted by bubblyaquariusPosted by RealTalkPosted by Pecheresse
When you're ready to let go of any resentment, you can expect to bump into him unexpectedly.
Lol, guess that won't be anytime soon. I still have alot of resentment. We live in the same town so I purposely avoid the places I think I may see him. I don't want to bump into him now because I won't say anything to him. Not even hello.
Cold, but understandable. Mhmm. I wouldn't either. Too awkward. And its not like he'd even know what to say. Eh.click to expand

Posted by bubblyaquarius
Its doubtful you would attract a Narc because of the Air and Fire in you, you are insanely strong. the water in him makes him less likely to be a narc, unless he's a cancer like the Situation on Jersey Shore. Now my Gemini could be compared to the Situation, sadly. My gem fit the description of a narc perfectly. Even his eating habits. -_- I researched like crazy.

Posted by bubblyaquarius
See all I have is photoshop. =/ Is illustrator good? I only have photoshop 8. =/ You?

Posted by bubblyaquarius
Yeah my gemini was bi polar. I would yell that at him, to be honest. He could really push your puttons though....loved himself. He was really into his body and face and clothes and shoes and working out and just himself in general. And unstable. Ugh

Posted by bubblyaquarius
Narcs look for women who will fill their need for Narccisistic supply. I prob spelled that wrong. I was always "giving" to him. Being the water bearer and the fish, I couldn't stop giving to that glory hog. I am glad he's gone though. They look for someone who will pump them up, and their ego, and make them feel special, and talk to them about themselves, because they love themselves. And they punish you when they get mad at you, by giving you the silent treatment and ignoring you, and in my gem's case, physically punish as well. He is a narc. I hope he changes, but its doubtful.

Posted by bubblyaquarius
Maybe he doesn't love himself, but you'd never know it. He wrote songs, poems, cute stuff. But other than that there wasn't anything good about him. Oh and sometimes he coddled me, but not often. He would send me dirty txts a lot, and sometimes dirty stories. Idk, he was a ton of fun(you know, GEMINI) but he was also a huge dick.The bad outweighed the good the longer we lasted.


Posted by bubblyaquarius
If I stopped playing his game, he probobly would have left and stopped playing dumbass mind games with me.
Gosh, i couldn't get over him though, so it was my own fault.
We'd Stop talking for a couple weeks, he'd call me, and I couldn't not take him back. o.0 I have a problem...so I'm making a point of not getting with a Narc ever again, especially since I now know the signs really well.
Yeah, I would weigh it constantly.


Posted by anearthygemini
Awww, one of those nights, eh? I'm having a hard time sleeping and mood swings galore...
I really hope the two of you can at least find closure. Seems like you BOTH still care. His Cancer Venus makes him go into hiding to protect his feelings. Your Venus Libra wants justice.
I hope you guys find peace. Hugs! 🙂

Posted by anearthygeminiPosted by RealTalkPosted by anearthygemini
Awww, one of those nights, eh? I'm having a hard time sleeping and mood swings galore...
I really hope the two of you can at least find closure. Seems like you BOTH still care. His Cancer Venus makes him go into hiding to protect his feelings. Your Venus Libra wants justice.
I hope you guys find peace. Hugs! 🙂
Yeah...I have horrible insomnia aaaaarrrrrrgggggghhhhhh!!!! I hope so too. So many unanswered questions, so many unspoken words. I feel as if he died. *sigh*
Insomnia is brutal.
Do you think you two are going to talk about it? So much need for closure here... 😢
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Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
If this thread was paper, it would be soak and wet from tears,lol.

Posted by anearthygemini
He's 7 and he has a strict bedtime. But he couldn't fall asleep last night, so I was kept awake too. He was real fidgety. He has a few med problems, and I think his stomach was bothering him. Plus he's super sensitive. My son is autistic.

Posted by anearthygeminiPosted by RealTalkPosted by anearthygemini
He's 7 and he has a strict bedtime. But he couldn't fall asleep last night, so I was kept awake too. He was real fidgety. He has a few med problems, and I think his stomach was bothering him. Plus he's super sensitive. My son is autistic.
Sorry to hear that. You know when someone says autistic, I always replace the word with artistic because I believe the children that are, are so colorful, intelligent, full of ideas & gifted. 🙂
Awww, thanks. That's super sweet. He's so cuddly and innocent. I love him with all my heart. He's affectionate and ultra sensitive. He also loves art! He's such a good kid that I worry like crazy about him. So this is a very special way to look at his condition. Thanks RT. 🙂click to expand

Posted by bubblyaquarius
Did you hear about the people who weren't allowed to fly first class because their downsyndrome child was a "safety risk" I was soo ticked. Anyways, I just try to view special kids as normal as possible. I don't feel like they need to be made a spectacle of.
Like being adopted, people will randomly tell me when I say I'm adopted, Oh I'm Sorry
But its not something to be sorry about. Eh, two diff things sort of, but I know it bothers me to hear that, so I avoid the Oh I'm Sorry about autism, down syndrome or any persons life or who they are, because they weren't in control of that. They are them, and its not something to be sorry about. Like, don't be sorry. I get so confused when people say that to me.


Posted by PotHeadVirgo22Posted by RealTalkPosted by PotHeadVirgo22
If this thread was paper, it would be soak and wet from tears,lol.
What's wrong with tears? Don't act like you don't cry.
Yea I cry. The last time I cried was liiiiiike in January, but it was really just shit from my depressing past........usually I don't cry, I go smoke, and when I cant smoke, I go cry..lol. 😢😉click to expand



Posted by bubblyaquarius
"I wish I was a psychopath sometimes. "
Ahh you sound like one when you say you don't even cry in front of your mom! 😆
Sometimes I question my own mental health. I guess we all feel a bit crayzyyy at times. My personality type is.....eccentric.

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Virgo/Libra cusp. 😉 I have more air than him. He's a watery gem. Translation, fucktard.