I think I'm being herded—?

This is my first post but I'll be honest I've read these boards for a while now. 🙂 I have a gem guy friend that I've been seeing for a little while now....he waited a while after my divorce to show some "more than friends interest" and has been very slow (I thought cautious) about the movement and direction of this dance. But after last nights conversation I'm begining to think he's been systematically reeling me in/herding me in....lol.....I thought gems jumped in with both feet and blast the consequences? Are Gem men like this? Just curious......

my gem bf is like that. in the courtship or during a relationship he does things step by step. Meaning there is a time and place for everything.

Thanks! He's so all over the place about other things (juggling 50 millions things at once) that it came as a surprise to see the method to his madness. 🙂

Lol yes I see it now. . .he's just been so good about not showing his hand that the quick glimpse yesterday threw me a bit. He's been paying attention (his words) to make sure to keep me . . . I honestly wasn't planning on going anywhere and now it looks like its getting more interesting. . .so I'm definitely sticking around 🙂

Yup....that'll teach me to assume so much! LOL