i want your opinions!!!

what's up with all the gems and distancing lately?? i'm starting to see a lot more of it lately in the threads.... i'm extremely curious..... com'on give up the goods so i/we may understand. :}

I generally prefer my own company, and don't have best/close friends. I am 52 years old female, and prefer spending time with younger people. I can tolerate the mundane subjects women around my age talk about for short periods of time as they bore me. I crave fun conversation when I'm in the mood,but can cut myself off completely with ease from family and those I know for long periods of time.

mercury retrogate... I find that it helps me come to conclusions that escaped me before and that it's always a good time to rethink and we all need time for this.

I cant help it, theres nothing wrong with me im just enjoying my own space and taking time out and as much as im thinking i should really make more effort and socialise and actually quite happy being a home bird at the minute 🙂.. I did have a very heavy year last year and some ups and downs this year so the space has been good.

Posted by TBC
you know I think it's more to it than just being a gemini. For me I have trust issues. I just don't trust humans. AT ALL. I keep my distance and to be honest, I mean REALLLLLY honest... I don't want no one near me. I have my days as to when I want to engage in a small conversation, one on one or maybe a small amount of people. But I don't like to be around a massive amount of people as it makes me extremely nervous. and i have no friends. I lied, I have friends. Just two. A pisces and a libra. At this stage I absolutely don't mind spending the rest of my life alone. Women for me come a dime or dozen. They come to me. But damned if I'm gonna chase after them. I don't chase behind no one. If they don't come to me, I just won't have a woman. And if they do, well then they just do. And tbh i'd much rather be alone and distant than to be with anyone. But that's me. It'll be interesting to hear these other gems intake on this subject.

i thank you for your honesty, TBC! something i respect most of all is honesty! 🙂 i think we all have trust issues of some kind or another, but i wouldn't want to live my life not wanting to be able to trust anyone. it does get lonely. i am the same when it comes to crowds, but i've been working on it, cuz i've noticed that it can be such a life stiffler. i want to live, have adventure, and be able to do what i want without fear. (and i have many fears....) and be able to trust at least a few. 🙂 i do understand what you are saying tho... we do live in a world that is "dog-eat-dog" and humans can be so cruel and so self-focused without any regards for another.

Posted by mrsastrology
I generally prefer my own company, and don't have best/close friends. I am 52 years old female, and prefer spending time with younger people. I can tolerate the mundane subjects women around my age talk about for short periods of time as they bore me. I crave fun conversation when I'm in the mood,but can cut myself off completely with ease from family and those I know for long periods of time.

i can do this as well... especially, from a negative person. whether it be family or friend. i like talking with all ages, cuz i have this huge curiosity that wants to learn as much as i can. 🙂

Posted by roamingfree
mercury retrogate... I find that it helps me come to conclusions that escaped me before and that it's always a good time to rethink and we all need time for this.

+1 i agree!

Posted by guccigemini55
I cant help it, theres nothing wrong with me im just enjoying my own space and taking time out and as much as im thinking i should really make more effort and socialise and actually quite happy being a home bird at the minute 🙂.. I did have a very heavy year last year and some ups and downs this year so the space has been good.

lol@ "home bird"! now that it's colder, i'm already having issues with cabin fever! lol! i hope this new year will be better for you! 🙂

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
It must be world wide. I haven't seen my homie in like a month and that's unusual...

sorry to hear that.... i hope your "homie" surfaces soon! 🙂

Posted by bubblyaquarius
every gemini i know has trust issues. And they've always been distant, you just didn't realize it. Then when you do get talking about something deep, they go silent, or just straight up tell you they won't tell you. Most actually tell me they don't trust easily.... TBC said it.

i am a gem.... but, i'm noticing it more. there have been a few ppl coming to the gem board more than normal. at this time i don't feel the same as others so curiosity got the better of me. lol!

Posted by GeminiLovesVirgo
I have trust issues too. but I think after all that's happened this year, I feel like I'm kinda close to shutting myself out from the real world and have some peace--ALONE. Hide in my cave and wait til i feel like joining the real world again.

i understand.... i hope you feel better soon, GLV! i do get very distant when i lack clarity and there's so much confusion....

i guess what i'm trying to say.... (damned merc rx) is... i've been noticing a lot more ppl have been coming here asking about our distanct behavior... i believe there was an aqua who asked as well... which, to me, is incredibly weird, bcuz it should be (and normally is) the other way around.... i'm noticing 'sign reversals'(?). i don't know... maybe i'm the only one, but either way, it's very curious.

Posted by DeeGee
I have a hot and cold relationship with DXP....plus I'v been pleasantly pre-occupied with a Taurus lately...hehehehe

🙂

i do too.... i read here everyday, but there are just some days where i don't feel like posting to anything for eye rolling reasons... lol! i wish you the best and lots of happiness with the taurus, DG!! 😆

thank you, DG! happy thanksgiving to you, too! 🙂

Posted by GeminiLovesVirgo
I have trust issues too. but I think after all that's happened this year, I feel like I'm kinda close to shutting myself out from the real world and have some peace--ALONE. Hide in my cave and wait til i feel like joining the real world again.

Posted by GeminiLovesVirgo
I have trust issues too. but I think after all that's happened this year, I feel like I'm kinda close to shutting myself out from the real world and have some peace--ALONE. Hide in my cave and wait til i feel like joining the real world again.

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you and I both. I managed to burn a giant bridge to my Sag ex this past weekend with premeditation. Hate when things go kaput, but relieved there is no chance of me hearing from him again. And so. to my cave I am heading. Will come out after I run out of topics I can think of... and we all know that can take a while for a Gem... my scorp asc and cancer venus are having their own kick and I decided to lock these brats up too.
Just saying.

yea, yesterday was horrible with DXP! and fair enough, at least you have 2 ppl you can trust! 🙂 and i know what you're saying... i've not had the best track record with trusting others... been screwed over pleanty of times. i just don't want the ones who screwed me over to ruin it for the rest. you know what i mean? and no, i am a june gem. june 12th. 🙂

leo rising :}