Is my gemini time bomb really just insecure?

*spoiler alert * *another clich? pisces woman/ gem guy post*

It's funny cause it's true. I am a pisces girl who broke up with some godforsaken libra last summer, only to have my facebook random internet friend (some mutual friends and tons of common interests), whom I never met before message me to "ask how I was doing." I wasn't annoyed by it, was actually grateful to talk to someone about anything and everything for up to 6-7hrs at a time. He kept it classy and we became internet bffs- I realize how lame this sounds. Anyway I was moving to another state to get a fresh start and clear my mind so right before I asked him to meet up at a bar or something, nothing personal, just wanted to see ALL my friends before I left. He told me he wanted to meet but he needs to get his shit together first- lost his job and became a social recluse that's apparently riddled with insecurities. Ok, no prob. We continue to talk the next month heavily but as friends when he tells me he's quitting the internet or some shit to focus on getting back on his feet. So he does and 4 months later he messages me out of the blue- and it's awesome, we eventually confess our feelings for one another but I try to remain realistic. Oh, I am moving back this june and he knows, but the closer it gets to then, the more stressed and anxious he gets. He's put on weight and I can tell it bothers him. I saw a recent pic on a mutual friend's page and it's nothing bad at all. But I understand body image fears and whatnot..so he's broken it off a few times and always wanted to remain friends, but sure enough, he goes back to the flirting. I once got an "i love you" from him but of course he went icey cold the next day...we had some stupid argument over a misread text and he just unleashed some pure hatred out of nowhere, saying he would've treated me good and I blew it, yadda yadda... I just tried to calm him down and eventually he apologized. Cool. So we were extra cautious after that, but still happy. Now I got the old "lets be friends " talk for the 3rd time. I agreed, there was no begging, pleading, anything hostile- I've resigned myself to the fact that this is it, and made peace with that, but I'm wondering if it's going to go down the same road..and if I start casual dating, will he lose his shit? I never pressured him, was always kind and always made him laugh. Also, my boobs are nice.
I'm secretly leaving the door open for him, not expecting anything to come of it, but can our original

Got cut off- can our original friendship remain? Above all, I'd like that

Posted by Twodrinkminimum
Also my boobs are nice 😆 lol

I don't mean to minimize this because I'm sure there are some true feelings but they're mixed in with a lot of pisces romanticizing.

No, I don't think you can remain friends but I also don't think he wants to take it anywhere either. You're acting as a kind of emotional crutch for him. And as long as he knows you'll put up with that, nothing will change. I say cut him off with an ultimatum that you need to meet him face to face if he wants to remain friends. You deserve at least that. Anything less is insulting and like I said, he's using you because it's obvious that you want(ed?) more and he's stringing you along. Make a bold move and stuck to your guns.

That's what I was worried about, kinda depressing because we were really good friends and friggin hilarious too. This happened yesterday, after we discussed it we went back to our usual conversations, minus anything with a hint of "more than friends". I didn't contact him today but his birthday is this Friday- I will send him a birthday greeting, but I'm not going to make talks with him a 1st, 2nd, or 3rd priority
Thank you for your advice