Just a confused Gemini

I'm a male gemini moon aires, libra rising. Right now I have two Aires women in my life and I have no idea which one I want, I keep getting angry and letting it out on them because I can't understand my emotions and i'm losing both of them.

First let me say they both know about each other and no i'm not sleeping with both just one. The first Aires is my ex of three years we had a really bad patch in May and we both done things we can't forgive each other for yet we still hold on too each other. When we hang out we don't kiss or have sex, we just hang out but I can tell she wants to do those things, she still wants me and a part of me still wants her but the past is always haunting me.

The second is a women I work with, a single mother, she fell for me pretty fast, she doesn't say she loves me but I know she does. She is more attractive then my ex but she has alot of growing up to do but we get along great and the sexual chemistry is through the roof. We have lately been fighting alot just because I am constantly upset with myself and take it out on her because I don't know what I want.

Can any gemini relate and can offer some advice on the situation ?

I agree with the above ^

Leave them both alone. You need to work on yourself first. You're using them both. Keeping the ex because she's familiar and having sex with the other because it's new and easy. You've made one woman from both of them! But here's the secret... They aren't the same person and you can never overlap emotions like you're doing now.

Grow up. You're childish and wasting everyone's time. Leave your ex alone, she's your ex for a reason and stop fucking your coworker! Never shit where you eat, dude.

If being alone is so hard, get yourself a pet :/