libra / gemini relationship. is there a chance ?

i need some help deciphering through this mess i've managed to create. i'm a libra female - cappy moon - scorpio rising that's currently ending a 5 year relationship with a scorpio male - cancer moon that's been very very difficult (to say the least). about 2 years ago i began a friendship with a gemini male - cappy moon - cancer rising who i worked with. long story short, we managed to fall totally in love with each other, even though we really really tried not to. he's married - filing for divorce, for many of the same reasons i'm ending my relationship. the gemini is honestly my best friend, i've never felt so in tune with anyone before in my life. my question is should i actually believe all the future talk he's been doing for the past 6 months ? i've made a huge effort not to put myself out there to get hurt with him & just keep it light, but he's zooming way past that and i'm pretty terrified that i'm going to end up really brokenhearted. sorry to write a book, but it's fairly complicated & i've read so much bad press on cheating gemini males... i just want an outsiders view.

i know exactly what you mean geminilover... that's my biggest problem right now. even though it goes against pretty much everything i've ever believed to be the "right" thing to do - not cheating on someone, not cheating with someone - somehow it got insanely crazy. and i'm trying to keep it as slow moving as possible... especially on the physically side of things... that's what makes the whole thing so strange to me, it's not like any other relationship i've ever been in & i just don't know what to think anymore...

yes, he's filed for divorce. she moved out a few weeks ago. believe me, i know exactly where you're coming from because it's the same stuff i've gone over in my head for about a year now. i started out thinking that he was just trying to fill my head with nonsense & then he really started following through with all the stuff he was saying... i guess that's actually what's freaking me out is that for the longest i just assumed he was playing games, but now it seems like he's serious. i'm not crazy enough to think i want to take anything to a permanent level the second the divorce is final (i'm waaaay too cautious to do anything like that)... but i'm starting to wonder if he does... plus, unfortunatly, there are other people involved and i absolutely hate the idea of hurting anyone.

jlibra, I think the Gem/Libra pair is an excellent match. You two overall seem very compatible. If you feel that he is rushing things and you don't want to get into anything serious right now, let him know. I don't know why he would want to since he just filed for divorce. Don't believe all the bad press about us Gems cheating constantly. Some of them are like that. But definitely not all of 'em. 😉