mai95
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Posted by PootyButtNot the formers almost boyfriends.Posted by GemitatiI've wiped the tears from lots of friends' faces that I wasn't romantically involved with. I don't think you can say this for sure.
As less tight ass Gemini I say go get her before she got married!
We also don't wipe tears of the faces we don't want to $ &&@@!
So I had lost a man who was 7 years younger just because I was stupid!
He is still not married.
I didn't want people talk...and eventually we both left the country. So there was no FB yet.
Tell her you understand her concern but you don't care! Hugs! And don't wait with sex or she will slip again.click to expand


Posted by littlenanobyte
As a Gemini, I feel very confident saying that we don't generally keep romantic feelings and urges repressed for years and years. I don't even think that we possess the attention span to like someone and not do anything about it for years, that just seems crazy and like a huge waste of time to me.
Posted by NotSoInstantWell, obviously I can't say for sure, but the age thing has seemed to genuinely bother her--she is somewhat conservative, and has lamented the age difference quite vocally many times.
We tend to act on our feelings. We wouldn't let it rot and we are risk takers so I think age may not be the real factor here unless she felt very bad about it. Do you think she feels insecure about the age difference?
I would suggest speak to her openly.click to expand
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I have a confusing situation:
I am 22. For the last few years I've been good friends with a gemini woman several years my senior (we're both queer women, she's in her 30s). Ever since we met, there's been chemistry and a very happy friendship, but she has been concerned about the age gap (with good reason), and so aside from occasional prolonged hugs, hand holding or drunken makeout sessions, nothing has progressed much, and we haven't had any physical moments in the last 6 months or so.
I have strong feelings for her, but am a little nervous about seeming to be unrelenting, so I don't contact her as much as I would like to.
However, she contacts me about once a month, and when I had a close family member die recently, she was there for me way more than I eexpected, insisted on spending lots of time together, kept checking in, told me to ask her for anything I needed, etc. Thing is, she is ivloved with someone else now (she confides in me too), and I found out their relationship is uncertain, but she does seem intent on staying with the relationship for now.
My issue is that I want her to be happy, and don't want to make her uncomfortable, but want to clarify whether she still likes me or not. It's been years, and despite other relationships, I can't get her out of my head. Any advice?