Made the same mistake twice. lol

the same virgo mistake twice that is...

Gawh, that topic title is so gemini. And I need some gemini love now for real. I just got badly hurt by two different virgo men in a row. I'll explain a little... but in general I just want to know WHY we feel the need to be together, then it just completely crumbles. From now on, I ask a guy before i get involved with/start having feelings for, if they are a virgo, if so, i RUN away. It's trouble.

Anyway, I'm still young in love, 22. And I look back on my past 'relationships', all of them still too short for satisfaction, and yeah there were a few happy ones, a few leos and libras, but the virgos....take up more than half of the total. It's like, they instantly crush on me, we click, and i can't control myself from slipping into this 'game' of role playing that i know intuitively isn't right but i... i have done it twice in this last month!! And i just end up hating them. I'm sure they hate me too. heh... why'd we click if we're so different? & not the good kind of different.

So if i finally learned anything the last month it's there is a reason you're told really get to know a person before you fall hard, because if you're easily hurt like mee... your world can crumble and leave you feeling kinda stupid.

It's been a crazy month, and I'm ready for my own personal life change. It just occured to me we're about to be in virgo too, which is ironic, because i have no bad feelings/grudges against the sun sign itself. Atleast I dont think so, we'll see. 🙂

So ANNyway, what is it about those virgos? blech. to them from me.

Ditto Ditto Ditto



They seem to be easy to fall for, not so easy to keep, when i met mine, he said "I am a keeper" and let me tell, I thought he was, still do, but he is not mine.

Good Luck w/your future in men, they are a roller coaster ride, good thing i enjoy a good fun park ride, just not the broken dangerous ones! LOL

UGH... you'll see some of my earlier post about Virgos.... my ex-husband of 7 years, then the next man also was a virgo of 5 years. LET ME TELL YOU NEVER EVER AGAIN. lol i mean that too. you're young and probably haven't fine tuned your intuition yet, but girl, listen to it. try to hear it. at 35, it hasn't failed me yet. and i ahve learned, that when i see a flag and my gut says stop i do. trial and error has made me know to trust it.

"So if i finally learned anything the last month it's there is a reason you're told really get to know a person before you fall hard, because if you're easily hurt like mee... your world can crumble and leave you feeling kinda stupid. "

that's a statement that i feel kinda goes against who and what we are as gemini's. I mean, speaking for myself, i wear my heart on my sleeve. I go full force with every situation i encounter. i went through some years of trying to fight that, but just got more messed up. so i have learned to embrace that, and look for the signs int he men i date. i still go full throttle, i just use the wonderful blessing of "DETACHING" and put a quick stop to it. Yes sometimes that hurt like hell, but we bounce back. I have gone throug MANY MANY men. but they didnt' last more than a week or two lol. the few that have gone passed that were great men, and took longer for me to see that, umm they weren't good for me.
Just some thoughts...

Hey guys thanks so much for the love! 🙂 these comments are great and i think it hopefully all concluded today with summer school ending.. AND (story) i went to blockbuster and was chatting with the three workers, one of them happened to be a guy that had just walked in and caught my eye immediately. We start joking about how different I look in my license picture and our ages and it comes up I can ask the guy when his birthday is... and lo and behold he says September 15th. LOL! I tried not to laugh then but I couldn't look at him the same! It was great, I felt really in control. And I found the humor in the whole thing. 🙂
Well thanks again... I'll be around. no more boys for me for a while tho, I'm starting to train for a half marathon in november! Have a great end of leo!!