More Gemini confusion.

So I kinda started seeing this Gemini, moon sign in Taurus. I'm a Virgo with moon in Sagittarius. It was the usual, blah blah blah crazy over you la di dah. Then they feel fenced in when you like them back and expect things blah blah blah I get all that.
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  • So I kinda started seeing this Gemini, moon sign in Taurus. I'm a Virgo with moon in Sagittarius. It was the usual, blah blah blah crazy over you la di dah. Then they feel fenced in when you like them back and expect things blah blah blah I get all that.
    Here's what I didn't understand. So I started giving him space and all that jazz like wouldn't text him first and it was super casual. But I was having a party that he knew of for weeks and didn't show up. I also get that. Fear of meeting all my friends and possible family (commitment).
    So when he didn't show, I messaged a few days later to let him know no big deal, it's okay you didn't come. He seemed really happy with that and pretty relieved and he asked to see me that night. I told him I couldn't cuz I had been hanging out with a friend binge watching a show for 2 days. So I said maybe tomorrow.
    So tomorrow came and I messaged him. No response. So I said don't worry. Take care. Basically eff off. No response.
    What is this?!
  • Mutabull
    female
    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.
  • Posted by Mutabull
    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.


    Ahh I knew it! I think it's the first one. Because the messages he sends me, you'd think I'm the only girl in the world. But me saying no was nothing to me. I was literally busy but I messaged to hangout again. Doesn't that count?
    I guess then me telling him to take care was double the rejection ?.
    If this were you, how to you see thing going?
    Thanks!!

  • Mutabull
    female
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.


    Ahh I knew it! I think it's the first one. Because the messages he sends me, you'd think I'm the only girl in the world. But me saying no was nothing to me. I was literally busy but I messaged to hangout again. Doesn't that count?
    I guess then me telling him to take care was double the rejection ?.
    If this were you, how to you see thing going?
    Thanks!!

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    Depends on how much he likes you. When we really like someone, we can act childish when rejected, even if you offered another day. I would be butt hurt for a minute even though I would know it's not logical to be, lol.

    If someone sent me a "take care" message and I really liked them..I would respond saying sorry, I was busy but really do like you, etc. If I didn't like them that much or my interests had changed.. and I got that message I probably wouldn't reply at all, brush it off. So...maybe just wait to see if he replies. When did you send the last message?
  • Posted by Mutabull
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.


    Ahh I knew it! I think it's the first one. Because the messages he sends me, you'd think I'm the only girl in the world. But me saying no was nothing to me. I was literally busy but I messaged to hangout again. Doesn't that count?
    I guess then me telling him to take care was double the rejection ?.
    If this were you, how to you see thing going?
    Thanks!!



    Depends on how much he likes you. When we really like someone, we can act childish when rejected, even if you offered another day. I would be butt hurt for a minute even though I would know it's not logical to be, lol.

    If someone sent me a "take care" message and I really liked them..I would respond saying sorry, I was busy but really do like you, etc. If I didn't like them that much or my interests had changed.. and I got that message I probably wouldn't reply at all, brush it off. So...maybe just wait to see if he replies. When did you send the last message?
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    Lool! Also knew it! I guess my gut feeling was spot on with this one.
    Umm I sent it a little over a day ago.

    Also I get the feeling he's not taking that message seriously. Like he thinks he can message me and I'd answer no problem. Little does he know, I can be just as hardheaded ?.
  • Moonbutter
    "Rising-Aries-Great for intimidation, mwhahah! Sun-Cancer-Am i laughing or c
    female
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.


    Ahh I knew it! I think it's the first one. Because the messages he sends me, you'd think I'm the only girl in the world. But me saying no was nothing to me. I was literally busy but I messaged to hangout again. Doesn't that count?
    I guess then me telling him to take care was double the rejection ?.
    If this were you, how to you see thing going?
    Thanks!!



    Depends on how much he likes you. When we really like someone, we can act childish when rejected, even if you offered another day. I would be butt hurt for a minute even though I would know it's not logical to be, lol.

    If someone sent me a "take care" message and I really liked them..I would respond saying sorry, I was busy but really do like you, etc. If I didn't like them that much or my interests had changed.. and I got that message I probably wouldn't reply at all, brush it off. So...maybe just wait to see if he replies. When did you send the last message?


    Lool! Also knew it! I guess my gut feeling was spot on with this one.
    Umm I sent it a little over a day ago.

    Also I get the feeling he's not taking that message seriously. Like he thinks he can message me and I'd answer no problem. Little does he know, I can be just as hardheaded ?.
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    You are playing a losing game ??‍♀️
  • Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.


    Ahh I knew it! I think it's the first one. Because the messages he sends me, you'd think I'm the only girl in the world. But me saying no was nothing to me. I was literally busy but I messaged to hangout again. Doesn't that count?
    I guess then me telling him to take care was double the rejection ?.
    If this were you, how to you see thing going?
    Thanks!!



    Depends on how much he likes you. When we really like someone, we can act childish when rejected, even if you offered another day. I would be butt hurt for a minute even though I would know it's not logical to be, lol.

    If someone sent me a "take care" message and I really liked them..I would respond saying sorry, I was busy but really do like you, etc. If I didn't like them that much or my interests had changed.. and I got that message I probably wouldn't reply at all, brush it off. So...maybe just wait to see if he replies. When did you send the last message?


    Lool! Also knew it! I guess my gut feeling was spot on with this one.
    Umm I sent it a little over a day ago.

    Also I get the feeling he's not taking that message seriously. Like he thinks he can message me and I'd answer no problem. Little does he know, I can be just as hardheaded ?.


    You are playing a losing game ??‍♀️
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    Lol elaborate? I'll take all the advice I can get. Also re-reading this, I might have to agree with you. ?
  • Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.


    Ahh I knew it! I think it's the first one. Because the messages he sends me, you'd think I'm the only girl in the world. But me saying no was nothing to me. I was literally busy but I messaged to hangout again. Doesn't that count?
    I guess then me telling him to take care was double the rejection ?.
    If this were you, how to you see thing going?
    Thanks!!



    Depends on how much he likes you. When we really like someone, we can act childish when rejected, even if you offered another day. I would be butt hurt for a minute even though I would know it's not logical to be, lol.

    If someone sent me a "take care" message and I really liked them..I would respond saying sorry, I was busy but really do like you, etc. If I didn't like them that much or my interests had changed.. and I got that message I probably wouldn't reply at all, brush it off. So...maybe just wait to see if he replies. When did you send the last message?


    Lool! Also knew it! I guess my gut feeling was spot on with this one.
    Umm I sent it a little over a day ago.

    Also I get the feeling he's not taking that message seriously. Like he thinks he can message me and I'd answer no problem. Little does he know, I can be just as hardheaded ?.


    You are playing a losing game ??‍♀️
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    Also I forgot to mention, he's pulled a no call no show quite a few times. Which is why I cut it clean. I was sick of the lack of communication on his end.

  • Moonbutter
    "Rising-Aries-Great for intimidation, mwhahah! Sun-Cancer-Am i laughing or c
    female
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.


    Ahh I knew it! I think it's the first one. Because the messages he sends me, you'd think I'm the only girl in the world. But me saying no was nothing to me. I was literally busy but I messaged to hangout again. Doesn't that count?
    I guess then me telling him to take care was double the rejection ?.
    If this were you, how to you see thing going?
    Thanks!!



    Depends on how much he likes you. When we really like someone, we can act childish when rejected, even if you offered another day. I would be butt hurt for a minute even though I would know it's not logical to be, lol.

    If someone sent me a "take care" message and I really liked them..I would respond saying sorry, I was busy but really do like you, etc. If I didn't like them that much or my interests had changed.. and I got that message I probably wouldn't reply at all, brush it off. So...maybe just wait to see if he replies. When did you send the last message?


    Lool! Also knew it! I guess my gut feeling was spot on with this one.
    Umm I sent it a little over a day ago.

    Also I get the feeling he's not taking that message seriously. Like he thinks he can message me and I'd answer no problem. Little does he know, I can be just as hardheaded ?.


    You are playing a losing game ??‍♀️


    Lol elaborate? I'll take all the advice I can get. Also re-reading this, I might have to agree with you. ?
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    Geminis will mirror you so if you play hard to get... I'm just saying I had to get over that insecurity and just go with my gut and what I wanted. If you want him, go get him don't worry about the outcome just take the chance. Let him get all emotional and you stay neutral that is the trick ? But you show him with gentl touches and body language... keep a slight tease and flirt... be playful with him always.
  • Mutabull
    female
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.


    Ahh I knew it! I think it's the first one. Because the messages he sends me, you'd think I'm the only girl in the world. But me saying no was nothing to me. I was literally busy but I messaged to hangout again. Doesn't that count?
    I guess then me telling him to take care was double the rejection ?.
    If this were you, how to you see thing going?
    Thanks!!



    Depends on how much he likes you. When we really like someone, we can act childish when rejected, even if you offered another day. I would be butt hurt for a minute even though I would know it's not logical to be, lol.

    If someone sent me a "take care" message and I really liked them..I would respond saying sorry, I was busy but really do like you, etc. If I didn't like them that much or my interests had changed.. and I got that message I probably wouldn't reply at all, brush it off. So...maybe just wait to see if he replies. When did you send the last message?


    Lool! Also knew it! I guess my gut feeling was spot on with this one.
    Umm I sent it a little over a day ago.

    Also I get the feeling he's not taking that message seriously. Like he thinks he can message me and I'd answer no problem. Little does he know, I can be just as hardheaded ?.


    You are playing a losing game ??‍♀️


    Lol elaborate? I'll take all the advice I can get. Also re-reading this, I might have to agree with you. ?


    Geminis will mirror you so if you play hard to get... I'm just saying I had to get over that insecurity and just go with my gut and what I wanted. If you want him, go get him don't worry about the outcome just take the chance. Let him get all emotional and you stay neutral that is the trick ? But you show him with gentl touches and body language... keep a slight tease and flirt... be playful with him always.
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    I can second this..we do mirror and play a few mind games...but we are capable of love and relationships ? Just get ready for a few minor mood swings..we can be super fun or super emotional. ?
  • Moonbutter
    "Rising-Aries-Great for intimidation, mwhahah! Sun-Cancer-Am i laughing or c
    female
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.


    Ahh I knew it! I think it's the first one. Because the messages he sends me, you'd think I'm the only girl in the world. But me saying no was nothing to me. I was literally busy but I messaged to hangout again. Doesn't that count?
    I guess then me telling him to take care was double the rejection ?.
    If this were you, how to you see thing going?
    Thanks!!



    Depends on how much he likes you. When we really like someone, we can act childish when rejected, even if you offered another day. I would be butt hurt for a minute even though I would know it's not logical to be, lol.

    If someone sent me a "take care" message and I really liked them..I would respond saying sorry, I was busy but really do like you, etc. If I didn't like them that much or my interests had changed.. and I got that message I probably wouldn't reply at all, brush it off. So...maybe just wait to see if he replies. When did you send the last message?


    Lool! Also knew it! I guess my gut feeling was spot on with this one.
    Umm I sent it a little over a day ago.

    Also I get the feeling he's not taking that message seriously. Like he thinks he can message me and I'd answer no problem. Little does he know, I can be just as hardheaded ?.


    You are playing a losing game ??‍♀️


    Also I forgot to mention, he's pulled a no call no show quite a few times. Which is why I cut it clean. I was sick of the lack of communication on his end.

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    Did he do that before or after you cancelling on him?
  • Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.


    Ahh I knew it! I think it's the first one. Because the messages he sends me, you'd think I'm the only girl in the world. But me saying no was nothing to me. I was literally busy but I messaged to hangout again. Doesn't that count?
    I guess then me telling him to take care was double the rejection ?.
    If this were you, how to you see thing going?
    Thanks!!



    Depends on how much he likes you. When we really like someone, we can act childish when rejected, even if you offered another day. I would be butt hurt for a minute even though I would know it's not logical to be, lol.

    If someone sent me a "take care" message and I really liked them..I would respond saying sorry, I was busy but really do like you, etc. If I didn't like them that much or my interests had changed.. and I got that message I probably wouldn't reply at all, brush it off. So...maybe just wait to see if he replies. When did you send the last message?


    Lool! Also knew it! I guess my gut feeling was spot on with this one.
    Umm I sent it a little over a day ago.

    Also I get the feeling he's not taking that message seriously. Like he thinks he can message me and I'd answer no problem. Little does he know, I can be just as hardheaded ?.


    You are playing a losing game ??‍♀️


    Also I forgot to mention, he's pulled a no call no show quite a few times. Which is why I cut it clean. I was sick of the lack of communication on his end.



    Did he do that before or after you cancelling on him?
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    Umm he did that a few times before. Also I didn't cancel on him. He suggested we meet that night and I told him I couldn't and suggested the next day.
  • Moonbutter
    "Rising-Aries-Great for intimidation, mwhahah! Sun-Cancer-Am i laughing or c
    female
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    Posted by Astrofan
    Posted by Mutabull
    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.


    Ahh I knew it! I think it's the first one. Because the messages he sends me, you'd think I'm the only girl in the world. But me saying no was nothing to me. I was literally busy but I messaged to hangout again. Doesn't that count?
    I guess then me telling him to take care was double the rejection ?.
    If this were you, how to you see thing going?
    Thanks!!



    Depends on how much he likes you. When we really like someone, we can act childish when rejected, even if you offered another day. I would be butt hurt for a minute even though I would know it's not logical to be, lol.

    If someone sent me a "take care" message and I really liked them..I would respond saying sorry, I was busy but really do like you, etc. If I didn't like them that much or my interests had changed.. and I got that message I probably wouldn't reply at all, brush it off. So...maybe just wait to see if he replies. When did you send the last message?


    Lool! Also knew it! I guess my gut feeling was spot on with this one.
    Umm I sent it a little over a day ago.

    Also I get the feeling he's not taking that message seriously. Like he thinks he can message me and I'd answer no problem. Little does he know, I can be just as hardheaded ?.


    You are playing a losing game ??‍♀️


    Also I forgot to mention, he's pulled a no call no show quite a few times. Which is why I cut it clean. I was sick of the lack of communication on his end.



    Did he do that before or after you cancelling on him?


    Umm he did that a few times before. Also I didn't cancel on him. He suggested we meet that night and I told him I couldn't and suggested the next day.
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    I see... how did you guys meet and long you knew eachother before hooking up?
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    I don't know about the guys specifically...but that's my sun & moon. I can understand about him not going to your party.. I was pretty shy about not meeting family of my ex for several months..cause meeting family felt like a big step for me.

    As for not responding to you, It could be a couple of things..

    1 we like to have the attention, and our attention can be changed/grabbed quickly so even if we like you, if you seem uninterested or it our interest fades, or we feel rejected (like saying no when he offered to see you), you will see the change in communication and us closing off. He might be making a point because of your rejection and may reach out casually at some point later (next day or two).

    Or

    2) you were always one of many and, to be blunt, put on the back burner for him. If we are interested in someone, letting a full day pass without responding to a message..no..wouldn't happen, not with me anyway, unless I didn't really care or like the person much. Only then would I read a message and put off responding until later cause I don't want to put the effort in to reply at the time.


    Ahh I knew it! I think it's the first one. Because the messages he sends me, you'd think I'm the only girl in the world. But me saying no was nothing to me. I was literally busy but I messaged to hangout again. Doesn't that count?
    I guess then me telling him to take care was double the rejection ?.
    If this were you, how to you see thing going?
    Thanks!!



    Depends on how much he likes you. When we really like someone, we can act childish when rejected, even if you offered another day. I would be butt hurt for a minute even though I would know it's not logical to be, lol.

    If someone sent me a "take care" message and I really liked them..I would respond saying sorry, I was busy but really do like you, etc. If I didn't like them that much or my interests had changed.. and I got that message I probably wouldn't reply at all, brush it off. So...maybe just wait to see if he replies. When did you send the last message?


    Lool! Also knew it! I guess my gut feeling was spot on with this one.
    Umm I sent it a little over a day ago.

    Also I get the feeling he's not taking that message seriously. Like he thinks he can message me and I'd answer no problem. Little does he know, I can be just as hardheaded ?.


    You are playing a losing game ??‍♀️


    Also I forgot to mention, he's pulled a no call no show quite a few times. Which is why I cut it clean. I was sick of the lack of communication on his end.



    Did he do that before or after you cancelling on him?


    Umm he did that a few times before. Also I didn't cancel on him. He suggested we meet that night and I told him I couldn't and suggested the next day.


    I see... how did you guys meet and long you knew eachother before hooking up?
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    A while actually. He tried to talk to me for years.
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