Mr.Scorp and Moi - round 20485685839

So, hopefully most of you know my story with Mr. Scorp. We've known each other for 8+years, in LDR for 6+ yada yada. So after a year of scorp hating and scorp bashing..... I'm totally ashamed as fuck to announce to you guys that we actually have patched things up and I'm back on the scorp bandwagon 😛 (yea, i kinda figured i do love him after all, so sue me!)

Last year and the year before was the time our ground was pretty shaky. We were in touch but were falling out like crazy. We would stay in touch for a couple of weeks, then some fight would break out and we'd stop talkin to each other for good. Again somehow fall back into contact like nothing happened. This happened soooooo mahahahany times that I've given up hope we'd ever be back together. Both his and my parents knew that things were over between us and that we were actively looking for diff sig others. I've had some pretty bad dates, not sure how his were going - just knew that he was looking too.

Then one fine day he declares that he found someone. Kinda my breaking point you see. All this while, we were looking for others, but I was hoping he wouldnt really go ahead with it (I wasnt, so was hoping against hope that he's only reflecting me). I was hoping he would somehow put an end to the charade, to the cat and mouse game, and somehow shake some sense into me sayin he still likes me and that we should somehow be an item. It didnt exactly happen that way and I still dont understand scorp workings. I had to be the one to end the back-n-forth and put my foot down.

I'm not sure if he did find someone or not, but the way he declared did it for me. I had to set things straight for us, set things straight for myself. Had to tell him straight up that I still had feelings for him and would really like it if we were like in the old days. His reaction was mild, was of mixed feelings, said he needs time to trust in the enterprise this time round but he was keen to give it a go. He took his own sweet time to come around. We met up, I had gone to visit my bro whose place is near to scorp's. I was there for a week, and scorp met me religiously everyday of the week - giving me undivided attention all weekend too, we went around town to different cafes, pubs, lounge bars, bowling and fun activities all weekend. We had some amazing bonding time together. After that we each missed the other like crazy - both the place and each other's company. So I guess there is still hope in the enterprise afterall.

So, for now, we're back to talkin each other's ears off on the phone regularly. Altho it still is a long term long distance relationship, we're actively working towards making it closer. Also there is another huge announcement I have for those that are interested... but I'll break it slowly.... in time.

OMG! I cannot believe my eyes.... Welcome back!!!!! 😄 You have so been missed... I was just thinking about you a bit ago, and here you are! *hugssssss*

I'm sooo happy to hear that things are going well between the two of you and that healing for both has begun. And... What's the info...? Com'on, give it up...! 😛

🙂 well, I'll PM you the info and later break it out on here.

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So now that i've got scorp clutches on me, do I qualify for a pseudo scorp post on this board? 😛

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Posted by DeeGee
Oh God! what could it possibly be?

She is prego?🙂

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LOL not yet... but hopefully soon? then it would be virtual festive season here if and when that happens.

😄

ZZZ!!! Yay it's been a while! Nice to see you back.

But Im a little iffy about the whole Scorp bandwagon thing.
I do hope it works out though for you because I know how invested I got with mine. Maybe yours will have a better ending 🙂

Posted by Xin
ZZZ!!! Yay it's been a while! Nice to see you back.

But Im a little iffy about the whole Scorp bandwagon thing.
I do hope it works out though for you because I know how invested I got with mine. Maybe yours will have a better ending 🙂

Thanks sweetheart🙂... how u doing these days? any updates about the scorp or did it all come to an end for good?

ZZZ - No it ended again for the ugh millionth time. I lost count now. I haven't spoken to him in over 3 months. He vanished again (this is what he normally does anyways) and that's that. He also hasn't shown up anywhere like even logged in at all on this game we used to play together too. Hes ALWAYS there and that's REALLY strange. Not sure what's going on. That game was his life. Hasn't logged in since 2/18/13. Started to get worried but Im not going after him.

Posted by Xin
ZZZ - No it ended again for the ugh millionth time. I lost count now. I haven't spoken to him in over 3 months. He vanished again (this is what he normally does anyways) and that's that. He also hasn't shown up anywhere like even logged in at all on this game we used to play together too. Hes ALWAYS there and that's REALLY strange. Not sure what's going on. That game was his life. Hasn't logged in since 2/18/13. Started to get worried but Im not going after him.

answered you in your thread sweets

Posted by IntriguedScorp
O M G 😕

lmao smh

*speechless*

lol wots soo "OMG"d and why so "speechless" intrigued!

you're back like a cherubim!

Posted by spica
you're back like a cherubim!

Hey thereeee stranger.. 🙂 havent been my regular self on the boards so missed this... how u doin spicachuuuu!?@?@?@!?!?!!!

Posted by DeeGee
So what was the secret? Pregnant?

close DG... i'm gettin married to him end of this month yayayayyayayayayayayayayay :p

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Posted by IntriguedScorp
O M G 😕

lmao smh

*speechless*

lol wots soo "OMG"d and why so "speechless" intrigued!

Having lived through your I hate Scorpios phase on our board and now hearing you are getting married to him has made me speechless and smh and lmao'd. 😛

There is apparently much more to this story that you haven't shared and it all seems to be good. Glad things worked out for you. You obviously love him to bits as does he you. Congrats!!!

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lol, my hate for scorps wasnt that bad now, was it?
we both let our judgemental selves take over and do the talking instead of being upfront about what actually bothered us. I let a fight that happened in '10 affect me terribly (he kinda went overboard in that tiff and that bothered me to no end) and I let it take control of the relationship for a very long long time. Over time I had my scorp training wheels pulled out from under and put through a ton of adversities which in turn kinda helped me see the straight shooter he actually was (albeit a lil manipulative)... and since the time I let that anger subside, we're kinda rediscovering love and all the sweet nothings it has to offer. Both being super chirpy and him extra extra chatty (god how hes a scorp and not a gem i'll never understand).

Everyday still throws a lot of challenges our way, we're still learning to adjust to them, he to my family and I to his. My side of the fam's a bit more straightforward and aggressive in a social setting while his is a calmer, quieter, take it as it comes kinda folks.