my gemini best friend is furious with me.. help!

K so I've had 2 best friends for the past 7 yrs. Ones a girl (pisces) and ones a boy (gemini). And they've been dating eachother for the past 6 yrs. And the gemini thinks that since I still have a social life and I go party and stuff and they don't that I tell everyone their business. Everything he hears about them he thinks I am the one talking about it. And so last night there was an incidend that happened and he thinks that I was the reason it happened and that I'm telling everyone about his relationship again so the point is how do I get him to not be angry with me. His allegations towards me are wrong so do I just agree with him even though I'm not in the wrong and let him be right or will that just help him confirm in his crazy gemini mind that he wants nothin to do with me? He told me he already gave me a second chance and I ruined it.

you're wrong.
Gems rarely wrong.
You must have done something that peeved him off and make these accusations...it will be hard to weasel out of from under a Gem's accusing eye...
You will have a lot of running around to make this one right.

We rarely accuse people for the sake of right or wrong. I say again...you must have done something to spin this.

He doesn't like when I go out. He thinks that I gossip because he hates the group I've been running around with. Still what do I do I will quit partying if it means losing my 2 best friends and there was a situation last night that really really pissed him off because some kid decided to call and unload his baggage on my gemini friendand it had to do with this kid having a fling with his girlfriend (my other pisces best friend) and I was at the party the kid was at. Is he hurt because I'm hangin out with people he doesn't like? What do I do

He has a saggitarius moon which makes him even more grudge holding and pissed

Well ya long term you can kinda tell that he's just not happy about all these flakes I've been kickin it with and a few days before this big fight erupted he told me in a long conversation just basically how much happier id be if I quit hangin out with these lames but I really appreciate your input thanks for the gemini advice

K so I have one more question... so if saggitarius doesn't hold a grudge very long then will it be a smidge bit easier for him to forgive me.... I'm sorry for all of my baggage but I've never really fought with my gemini friend until now.... after 7 yrs of friendship I've never actually known his aggression I've seen him display it toward other people but never felt it as myself and its killing me

If a dear friend of mine goes out a lot with another group of friends, it can feel very much like I'm being cheated on. If I don't like the friends, it's worse. (What the hell do you see in these lame-os when you could be hanging out with ME?) It might sound a little odd, but there it is. Maybe he's feeling that way, but doesn't know what name to put on the feeling, so he's picking out a tangible issue so he can channel his emotions into it.

well no one here really can since you avoided roamingfrees indirect question "what did you POSSIBLY do"

let me help you kick start off your process

Have i gossiped about other people to the "lame friends" in front of my gemini best friend? DO I DO IT ALOT? if so he'll assume that is your character. 7 years..he knows you fairly well.

Do i come across 2 faced? if so he'll think is who you are..but he accepts you anyway AS LONG AS IT DOESNT INTERFERE WITH HIS LIFE.

The only solution to helping ease the Gemini is to be able to have multiple possibilities in your head before entering a conversation with them. BEING DIPLOMATIC...sometimes they need a friend who can LOGICALLY STEP BY STEP take them out of their thinking. then in between this process banter on why is and isn't because and wasn't and then WORD MEANINGS clarifying what he means. consistently double checking in the process that you guys are on the SAME TOPIC and SAME page.

did no one even take into consideration the age of the parties involved? lets face it Gems come to adulthood and all of a sudden switch gears into something they want to do right now right this minute and there is nothing stopping them. With that said, maybe he is all of a sudden changing his perception of thigns that he wants or does not want in his life, that can include your behavior with other friends, friendships he has and anything in between. Gems are fab and simply putting a stop to the roll and cutting things off with a precise swing of a surgeon.
In the end... something you are not telling us exists...and you can flip flop all over the place, but something doesn't add up here...


my 2 cents...

*gems are fab AT simply...

Fishy fishy...no pun intended indeed

Posted by roamingfree
did no one even take into consideration the age of the parties involved? lets face it Gems come to adulthood and all of a sudden switch gears into something they want to do right now right this minute and there is nothing stopping them. With that said, maybe he is all of a sudden changing his perception of thigns that he wants or does not want in his life, that can include your behavior with other friends, friendships he has and anything in between. Gems are fab and simply putting a stop to the roll and cutting things off with a precise swing of a surgeon.
In the end... something you are not telling us exists...and you can flip flop all over the place, but something doesn't add up here...


my 2 cents...

nope sorry he's pretty much mad because someone called him and pissed him off and I was at the same place with the person who pissed him off and I'm not in denial and not victimizing myself so oh well he can do what he wants I don't even want tto salvage our friendship anymore this goes beyond him being a gemini and i ts clear that he only surrounds himself with people who will kiss his ass.... I have plenty of air signs as friends including some geminis and I've been on their logical level he's the one being illogical hes always getting upset about things and never has a good reaason but only a petty one because he wants attention but disguises it under a cool calm and collected personality its time to face the facts and realize that maybe things will smooth over and maybe they won't but it ain't my problem if they don't. There's billions of people in the world and I'm not going to dwell on something I can't fix thanks for the advise though its appreciated he's just a big moody baby and I'm done

you dum bithc stop telling about him to people its low

Stuuuupid haha

flip floppy flake fishy

meh, I'm moving on, this is boring