Crazy Gems

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Ragdoll on Monday, November 7, 2011 and has 8 replies.

I'm not sure if this is just me but, usually I can tell within the first minute of meeting/conversing with someone if I'm into them or not.
I'm definitely a personality over looks kind of person too.
This guy I knew from another social networking site added me on Facebook the other day (I don't accept just anyone/decline a lot of people) and he messaged me starting a conversation. I hadn't really payed attention to him before but after actually speaking I realised how much I liked him personality wise.
We kinda flirted a little bit (pg rated stuff, which I dig) but he was drunk at the time.
It's been like two days and we haven't really spoken and it's driving me crazy.
Do we Gems usually move so fast? It's not that I do this a lot, just that I'm so fussy I don't usually like people a great deal so the fact I like him is really exciting.
I feel like a crazy person but a million thoughts are going through my mind and I can't seem to shut them up!
Also does anyone else have 'obsessive' tendencies, where you get infatuated with a person?

@Xin

14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Ragdoll
I'm not sure if this is just me but, usually I can tell within the first minute of meeting/conversing with someone if I'm into them or not.
I'm definitely a personality over looks kind of person too.
This guy I knew from another social networking site added me on Facebook the other day (I don't accept just anyone/decline a lot of people) and he messaged me starting a conversation. I hadn't really payed attention to him before but after actually speaking I realised how much I liked him personality wise.
We kinda flirted a little bit (pg rated stuff, which I dig) but he was drunk at the time.
It's been like two days and we haven't really spoken and it's driving me crazy.
Do we Gems usually move so fast? It's not that I do this a lot, just that I'm so fussy I don't usually like people a great deal so the fact I like him is really exciting.
I feel like a crazy person but a million thoughts are going through my mind and I can't seem to shut them up!
Also does anyone else have 'obsessive' tendencies, where you get infatuated with a person?

Omg!!! Yes! A million times yes. I don't find many people intriguing, fascinating, or captivating enough to hold my attention for long. About three to seven days into it and I am bored. It really takes an amazing man to keep me hooked. There was one recently that did that, and I was chomping at the bit to talk to him. I hardly ever do that too. So when I do it's a really big deal because as I mentioned before I get extremely bored with people. I would do anything to keep that "new" feeling all the time. You know when you just first meet a person and you get super excited and you want to act like an idiot and jump in the air because it's so fantastical? Maybe that is why I flit around from person to person because I always want that "new" feeling, as soon as I get bored I move on to the next "conquest" in search of that feeling. Sigh. The drawbacks of being a Gemini 😢

Do you know his sign yet? Any information on that?

@Ragdoll

15 YearsGemini

Posted by Xin

Posted by Ragdoll

Omg!!! Yes! A million times yes. I don't find many people intriguing, fascinating, or captivating enough to hold my attention for long. About three to seven days into it and I am bored. It really takes an amazing man to keep me hooked. There was one recently that did that, and I was chomping at the bit to talk to him. I hardly ever do that too. So when I do it's a really big deal because as I mentioned before I get extremely bored with people. I would do anything to keep that "new" feeling all the time. You know when you just first meet a person and you get super excited and you want to act like an idiot and jump in the air because it's so fantastical? Maybe that is why I flit around from person to person because I always want that "new" feeling, as soon as I get bored I move on to the next "conquest" in search of that feeling. Sigh. The drawbacks of being a Gemini 😢

Do you know his sign yet? Any information on that?

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Ahhh I don't feel so crazy now thanks haha 🙂
He's a Taurus, I've heard we don't usually work well together but I've always had this huge soft spot for them.

@Xin

14 Years1,000+ Posts

No you're not crazy. It's just how we are. I get the same exact way. Do you know his placements and yours by any chance? You know what's funny? I've only met ONE Taurus guy and he's really cool. Most of the Taurus people I know are females. Like my mom and a girl I was really good friends with in HS.

@Ragdoll

15 YearsGemini

Posted by Xin
No you're not crazy. It's just how we are. I get the same exact way. Do you know his placements and yours by any chance? You know what's funny? I've only met ONE Taurus guy and he's really cool. Most of the Taurus people I know are females. Like my mom and a girl I was really good friends with in HS.

Oh wow, I know more Taurus guys for sure! the girls always seem to be a bit iffy, I've never been close with one so I don't know.
I don't wanna get hated on, but just quietly, do you think Aqua's are weird? Like a close mate of mine is one and I love her, but at times I hate her too. They just seem a tad odd..

Um my chart is

Sun= gem
Moon= Taur
Mercury= gem
Venus= Gem
Mars= aries
Jupiter= virgo
Saturn= aqua
Uranus= cap
Neptune= cap
Pluto= scorp

I have no idea about his 😢

@Xin

14 Years1,000+ Posts

Aqua's? My first relationship was with one when I was 16, we are still really good friends. He's a nice guy just strange sometimes. The girls that I know none of them make commitments. They are worse than we are as far as being flighty.