Help!!! My gem bf has a huge D!@%

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Spartaculous on Tuesday, October 4, 2011 and has 29 replies.

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@Spartaculous
15 Years

I have been dating this gem guy for the past 3 months. we have been very cool with one another; lots of fun time together....but there is only one problem, his D!@% is too big . The first time i got a feel of it, it was when we were enjoying ourselves in his outdoor hot tub. I almost thought it wasa third leg ....Recently we had sex for the first time together and it didn't feel normal to me (it was just too big) , my pelvic area even ached afterwards....lately, we have been developing genuine feelings for one another, but i don't know how to tell him that my va-jay-jay is afraid of his one-eyed monster. And to make matters worst he want to step it up a bit, and try anul with me... should i break it off with him?can someone please help me find a "solution" to this BIG problem

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@Spartaculous
15 Years

I have been dating this gem guy for the past 3 months. we have been very cool with one another; lots of fun time together....but there is only one problem, his D!@% is too big . The first time i got a feel of it, it was when we were enjoying ourselves in his outdoor hot tub. I almost thought it wasa third leg ....Recently we had sex for the first time together and it didn't feel normal to me (it was just too big) , my pelvic area even ached afterwards....lately, we have been developing genuine feelings for one another, but i don't know how to tell him that my va-jay-jay is afraid of his one-eyed monster. And to make matters worst he want to step it up a bit, and try anul with me... should i break it off with him?can someone please help me find a "solution" to this BIG problem

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@nimbue
15 Years1,000+ Posts

don't let him go near your bum, you might die

you have to try different positions with a bigger one. try going on top so you can control the depth/angle

use lube 😄