Push/Pull feeling between a sag and a gem

I was thinking back to some of my ex gem bf's and remembered how when I was with them I used to like them a lot then get tired of them, then we'd part then I'd want them back again.

Is this a normal occurrence with gemxsag relationships?

I wonder I have never dated a gem man and have barely met any in life.

What about the gem female? Wonder if that's any different than a male

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What about the gem female? Wonder if that's any different than a male

lol are you into some lesbian actions—? 😛

well i notice both gem male and female dont reply to texts or emails... that quickly or almost never.

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Nah I was asking cus sag89 has been with a female gem before so I didn't know if she had dealt with this with her female gem.

I never had that kinda problem with either of my gem exes, though they can get quite busy, mine were always very responsive via text, call, facebook.

never been with a gemini, they make awesome friends

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What about the gem female? Wonder if that's any different than a male

lol are you into some lesbian actions—? 😛

well i notice both gem male and female dont reply to texts or emails... that quickly or almost never.

Nah I was asking cus sag89 has been with a female gem before so I didn't know if she had dealt with this with her female gem.

I never had that kinda problem with either of my gem exes, though they can get quite busy, mine were always very responsive via text, call, facebook.

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Oh yea she is great I love her! We are still great friends 🙂

Same with this other girl gem friend I have.

I love gem females alot. They are quick witted and like to have fun.

I just don't know any gem guys at all

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What about the gem female? Wonder if that's any different than a male

lol are you into some lesbian actions—? 😛

well i notice both gem male and female dont reply to texts or emails... that quickly or almost never.

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I've actually been seeing a Gem for the last few months (he's my first Gem interaction besides both my parents who are Gems), he lives about 2 hours away so we've only gotten together a few times. I have to agree on the texting thing, mine doesn't respond that quickly either...sometimes it takes a few hours, sometimes 20 or 30 minutes, sometimes within a few minutes (rarely) but I throw the same thing back when he texts me and play it cool. It seems texting is his preferred method of communication though and he's only called me a few times. I, myself, like a bit more communication than he gives and I am uncertain if I should take his mode of communication personally or just accept it as the way of the Gem. He is apparently interested though as he's the one that set up our next meeting as our last meeting was ending. I guess the best way to describe him is hot and cold, he has his moments where I think he's not interested and then whammo, he's back to being warm again. As for what I am doing to handle it, I am just letting it play out and letting him do his thing. I don't question anything and have let him take the lead as far as communication as it is my aim to not create any pressure what so ever seeing we are so new.

I can definitely feel the draw between us when together though, it's very bizzare yet has been very "natural" feeling since our first meeting. We both felt like we had known each other for long before we actually met....strange.

*I guess what's important is that he actually responds....Lol

i have dated two gems

one is now my best friend

the other is someone i don't speak to anymore

gems and sags are opposites....
so i think that things can balance out or they can be kinda volatile

my second gem (the one i no longer talk to), it was very on/off but not because of me, more because of him

that said, my gem best friend and i didn't speak for a few years there, so i guess maybe that can be considered on/off too

opposite signs attract and repel. sometimes both.

Gems — 🙂

I've had great relationsips with the Gems in my life. I'm a Sag Merc and Mars, so there was never a lack of convo/debate or adventure. Great times all around!

i will say that with my best friend...we are intellectual equals and he hasn't really found that in many people in his life

also, he ended up marrying another sag (oddly enough the girl he started dating after me)!

One of my closest mates is a Gem. She's cool, she's a homebody like me and she's able to deal with my funny up and down moods and dissapearing acts once in a while. She gets me, my need to drift and do my own thing...but no matter how long we don't talk when we do catch up we proper catch up and have a laugh.

Never met or been with an Gemini man though, the closest I've been was through knowing my ex's brother and we got on really well. Apart from that, no Gemini has crossed my path.