Online dating - gemini's had a change of heart

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by WhateverOS on Wednesday, November 16, 2011 and has 11 replies.

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@WhateverOS
14 YearsScorpio

I've got quite the situation here.

Hey all, I'm a fellow scorpio. Believe it or not (believe it), but I'm contemplating every single reason for why a recent misfortune took place. It's what I do, I get under my own skin and figure things out. Feel the electricity. This time however, I've met my maker. I've been mildly infatuated by what many might not consider my best match: a twin.

I mailed her on an online dating site. She started out more than polite (the hard to read gemini) and we had much to share. I enticed her with questions (challenging the gemini's mind) which left her spilling her heart out and we were both enjoying ourselves. The handful of replies we sent each other were fliratious and fun. Then, she turns the other way. Wow, really?

I maintained a good speed (giving her space but also keeping it interesting) but she hasn't responed to my last email. She read it, made a visit to my profile and since then hasn't made any contact with me what-so-ever. She's often online on the site and it's now been two-and-a-half days since she read my last email.

My question is quite simple: how do I proceed from here? I've been waiting for her response, knowing she'll not be more enticed by me if I take action and hog her space. Still, doesn't waiting make her forget about me (which I suspect - either that or she's not buying the whole "two days ago" drama) or make her think I've forgotten about her? How the heck am I to get the attention of a gemini who likes to make her own decisions and maintain her space? Is she already miles away?

Regards,
the powerful but deadly scorpio.

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@GemBoy
14 YearsGemini

Sorry dude...........game over. We know when someone is looking for a response.......then its boring....then we move on. Sounds like you didnt get outta the gate as strong as you thought

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@Xin
14 Years1,000+ Posts

*Munches on her popcorn, a couple of pieces cling to her shirt*

What did I tell you yesterday? Hum? Dost thou not listen with thine ears?

Let me break it down for you right now mister. You are a Scorpio, she is a Gemini and speaking as a fem Gem, Ive told you already something shinier has probably has caught her eye. Never EVER lay it out all on the line with us Gem girls. We DON'T want to know everything about you. If we ask, you are subtle. Make us think about it. Because that is what we love to do. Inspect, analyze, think, size up. Give us something to remember, not something to forget. Which means this. Do NOT chase. Do NOT tell us your true feelings and get heavy with it. Why? Gemini's are the butterflies of the zodiac. We don't appreciate having our wings torn off only to be down on the ground with a deadly scorpion who will probably drag us off to some cave underground and bore us to death. *No offense* Hehe! But seriously. Light, fun, subtle, trickery, flirtation, wit, charm. We like all of that. Keep our minds wondering. But for now it's probably a lost cause. As I said yesterday (again) we are no stranger to keeping a myriad of suitors on our string at once.

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@SrgntLeebz
14 Years

Gems are stepping stones. They challenge u and turn u into a stronger person. Just put ur foot on the memory of 1 and boost yourself up higher.

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@SrgntLeebz
14 Years

I mean it's fun to chase a butterfly around, but eventually a gust of wind will take it up beyond reach. Keep the memory of the chase and try and learn from it that all living things roam freely. Nobody is the property of another so when u loose track of 1 butterfly, find another and chase that around for a while.

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@SrgntLeebz
14 Years

Maybe that orginal butterfly will land next to u again 1 day, and you'll get to chase it around like u did once before

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@SrgntLeebz
14 Years

Ur kinda spot on with that (bad experience put in a charming way). She was young though and told me her longest relationship lasted 4 months. I'm glad she lost interest though.. I wouldn't be able to match that energy level with a full time job. Defintaly learned a few things tho.

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@SrgntLeebz
14 Years

I'm talkin to a scorp chick now. She's younger hotter and freakyer and I don't have to try nearly as hard. Lol she turned 18 this month and apparently she's been after me for quite some time. It's cute she says little highschool things like "so do you like anyone?" and "how come you said your not interested in anyone?" LOL. I always thought scorpions were cooler than butterfly's. It'll be hard for her to inject me with that poison tho. My scales are pretty damn thick 😉