Need help Gem Guys

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Virgogirl_84
@Virgogirl_84
17 Years

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Hi, this is my first post on this site. I am young Virgo who is extremeley intrested in this gemini guy. I met him at a freinds b-day party a while bck (two years ago). There was definatley a sexual attraction. So we became freinds with benifits for lack of a better term lol. I stopped calling him due to the fact that I started dating somone, when that relationship ended I had found His number again and called him up. Here's the catch, when him and I used to "hang out" we both new and understood it was what it was and I was fine with that. this time when we hooked up it was a lot different. He talked about relationships, and he was cuddling with me. When we first hooked up he told me that he doesn't cuddle and we NEVER talked about relationships. It really threw me for a loop, and I find myself becoming emotionally attached (somewhat). It is not what it was before, and I don't know how to handle this situation. How do I tell if he is feeling the same way— HELP!!!
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Freebird
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20 Years1,000+ Posts

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Hi V-84,

I am not a Gem guy but I think as with any relationship - time and YOUR INSTINCTS will let you know if he is feeling the same (interested in you more than a FWB). For starters...if you are desiring a healthy relationship with him at this point, I may think twice about being intimate with him for awhile - otherwise, you will be back on the path you had previously been on with him. He may be "testing" the waters to see if you will still be his FWB (this type of relationship for a man is so much easier than having to put effort into a relationship).

*let your feelings be your guide 😉

Best Wishes to U!