Need Insight! Cancer confused by Ex Gem Antics!

First off, I'm Cancer w/Sag Moon, Gem Mars and my ex is Gem w/Aqua Moon, Scorp Mars. We were together off and on for 4 years. I broke things off 5 months ago and until recently was not really responding to all his texts, because I felt we needed to move on. Anyways, he got to me(as I feared he would) and I text a bunch saying how I was soo disappointed because I saw him as my future hubby, etc and he responds "this sounds like something should be discussed over dinner." So I say ok, let's do in a few days and then the excuses come. So I get pissed say "it doesn't matter" He says "well it matters to me." and then says "I'm not going to just jump into a relationship with you again." I say "I know" He sporadically texts "Hope you have a good day, etc I do the same. 3 weeks later he still is not willing to meet up! What gives with this man?! Oh, and then he just accepted a FB friend request I must have sent years ago after deleting him. sheesh.

@moongem, thanks for the response 🙂 What do you mean dangerous? If I can't talk to him how am I supposed to get closure?

@moongem what is he afraid of?