jackietheleo
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need insight on what to do about this gemini boy.
If you sense red flags... listen to your gut
Posted by littlesnowAgreed... meaning verbally or by actions as well?
conceal your emotions until you know how he really feels
Posted by NotSoInstantI think I'm going at a good pace... I'm affectionate but not mushy or clingy I guess.Posted by MoonbutterAre you gonna conceal your emotions from the Gem you are dating?Posted by littlesnowAgreed... meaning verbally or by actions as well?
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Posted by NotSoInstantYup... balance is key ?Posted by MoonbutterThat's great :-) Hiding things or manipulating would back fire... At the same time, being too emotional too soon can backfire too...Posted by NotSoInstantI think I'm going at a good pace... I'm affectionate but not mushy or clingy I guess.Posted by MoonbutterAre you gonna conceal your emotions from the Gem you are dating?Posted by littlesnowAgreed... meaning verbally or by actions as well?
conceal your emotions until you know how he really feels
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What am I supposed to do? Should I try to talk to him anyway when he does this?
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3. how do i learn to say no to him? i really don't want to be into him but i can't help it but i just want to have the upper hand.
4. how do i know if he actually is into me? i don't think he is, i think its just a game, but i still feel that connection when i look into his eyes and it just makes me weak. and if he is into me how do i keep him?
5. am i just stupid and thinking too much into this?
please someone help me before i go crazy. i really don't know what to do.