Overly critical?

I noticed that I question a lot of situations. Or people's opinion.

I have a hard time understanding certain things people say/do and for me to understand it better, I need to know their logic. And when their logic isn't the same or close to mine I get overwhelmed and upset. It's really annoying my friends.

Here's an example: my friend said she had a weird rash and didn't feel too good. But she went to work and complained the whole time, then after work she went home and watched tv.

When I heard this all I could think was, "why?" Why didn't she run to a minute clinic or take some otc medicine. It doesn't make sense to me.

I can't understand people's thinking and it is really ruining my friendships. I'm not trying to criticise, I'm just curious why they do things.

The mind is extremely mysterious.

Moon 27?? Taurus
Mars 10?? Taurus

My moon and mars are in cancer..... And I can relate to something similar. But, all of us can in a way.... It's a difference in common sense, really. Your's is different than others and having a hard time with the understanding. I do this all the time.... The words "Really—? Wow!!", come out of my mouth quite frequently. Lol!

I found it easier to just come out and tell a friend that their way of thinking is a curious thing and you would like to understand them better. Ppl like to be understood instead of feeling "probed". As for your friend, my common sense would say they are either stubborn and like their misery, OR they don't like docs or medications they have out there... Most are quite harmful. And just bcuz they did not state it, maybe they did the b vitamins, vitamin c and zinc method. 🙂

It takes me some time to agree with people as well. I am stubborn and have a hard time admitting that I am wrong. I try not to criticize but, for instance, if my mom tells me she will never squeeze her boonies for lumps due to fear, I can understand the fear but feel like she needs to over come it or go to get mamogram once a year...

Having a difficult and strenuous relationship with my Gemini sister for 25 years! ... she is verbally (out there) and abusive! .. highly critical and I don't see a way out of this situation. She will verbally and degrade me thru her words in email and texting ..... then 3 days later ... she wants a favor. What gives—
I feel it's a jealousy issue .. I had 2 children, she had none. I got the looks, she was told "what happened to you?" I have never had an unkind word to her in 25 years, and I am NOT responsible for her issues. I love her dearly because she is my sister .. but ... I don't LIKE her as a person of character and integrity.