@boxcarmirnta
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Pisces dating super sensitive gem..
Hes just very touchy...and gets offended easily...and I'm a pretty thoughtful caring person and always try not to offend and I think hard about others feelings..but he acts like I've said stuff that's a lot harsher than it actually is ....
I am gem and I can be moody . Us gems are sensitive too. Whats his moon ?
Think his moon is Virgo. I see no cancer, thank god. Never again.
Well now I know where y'all stand with gem sun cancer moon.... but I'm not that moody.
Anyway.....
My daughter is engaged to a gem sun virgo moon guy.... and he's extremely moody and neurotic!! Every little thing bothers him.... especially when you do not agree with his point of view.... which he will continue to shove down your throat till you do agree! Everything offends him... there's nothing that can be done. Most things, which we think are normal, he will take personally. That will be something HE has to work on thru therapy. First, he will have to recognize the issue he has...
Gem sun cancer moon doesn't sound so bad now, huh?
π
Posted by FyzaGememiee
Posted by misslissa
Well now I know where y'all stand with gem sun cancer moon.... but I'm not that moody.Anyway.....
My daughter is engaged to a gem sun virgo moon guy.... and he's extremely moody and neurotic!! Every little thing bothers him.... especially when you do not agree with his point of view.... which he will continue to shove down your throat till you do agree! Everything offends him... there's nothing that can be done. Most things, which we think are normal, he will take personally. That will be something HE has to work on thru therapy. First, he will have to recognize the issue he has...
Gem sun cancer moon doesn't sound so bad now, huh?
π
Tbh misslissa,
I love the cancer mooners. In fact, Gemini can be very sensitive, just that most of us knew how to cover that up and just wants others to see us as a happy go lucky person.
We only shows the vulnerable side of us to our close ones. That's how I am like. π
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I'm like that most of the time... I have my moments tho where it's just too overwhelming and I'll cry. I won't say a word tho! I'll just cry!
But, most of the time, my leo daughter and aqua hubby are the only ones who will see my vulnerabilities... those are my inner most thoughts and I don't share them often!! Lol!
I dated a gem once her bday was june 2 her venus was in capricorn moon cancer etc. Im a sun cancer mercury cancer ans im not sensitive at all...she was too senstive and emotional we didnt work out because she couldn't handle me...i was like damn ur a gemini whats up.....dont blame the 3 cancer placements them gems are sensitive as hell
Posted by dominoes
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Never experienced this before..i thought you guys were more light hearted, jovial and fun...and he is those things but he's also sensitive af, moody and super reactionary. Like more than me and I'm a frickin Pisces!! Not sure how to proceed, we get along great...have tons of fun, great sex...wth am I missing and what can I do to make it easier on him, and me...? Thanks much.
You don't deserve him. You're already insulting him behind his back.click to expand
I'm not insulting him at all,in fact I said nice things about him actually and asked how I could HELP. Gimme a break
Posted by misslissa
Well now I know where y'all stand with gem sun cancer moon.... but I'm not that moody.Anyway.....
My daughter is engaged to a gem sun virgo moon guy.... and he's extremely moody and neurotic!! Every little thing bothers him.... especially when you do not agree with his point of view.... which he will continue to shove down your throat till you do agree! Everything offends him... there's nothing that can be done. Most things, which we think are normal, he will take personally. That will be something HE has to work on thru therapy. First, he will have to recognize the issue he has...
Gem sun cancer moon doesn't sound so bad now, huh?
π
yup this sounds exactly like him..funny......sigh.....
Posted by FyzaGememiee
Posted by lovely77
I dated a gem once her bday was june 2 her venus was in capricorn moon cancer etc. Im a sun cancer mercury cancer ans im not sensitive at all...she was too senstive and emotional we didnt work out because she couldn't handle me...i was like damn ur a gemini whats up.....dont blame the 3 cancer placements them gems are sensitive as hell
Eh? But you know you still love the Gems. π
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Ive always loved them though.. ill try to date another one
Posted by blackphase
Oh no! Looks like you got a bad case of blackphase on your hands. Hold on tight!! π
all right since you know whats up. ...can you give me advice? How would you deal with you?
His only Scorpio is Pluto.which doesn't say much his rising is Leo, and the rest is mostly Gemini with a little Virgo. Yes he misinterprets all the time. And flies off the handle about innocent stuff..we just had a massive fight cuz I told him he got mad me one time...stormed off etc etc ruined our entire night. Haven't spoke since. I dont wanna walk on eggshells. I don't know what to do. I care about him and the good is really good but..i know he has trust issues and I know he's scared to get involved and I know he loves me. ..ugh....
Posted by boxcarmirnta
His only Scorpio is Pluto.which doesn't say much his rising is Leo, and the rest is mostly Gemini with a little Virgo. Yes he misinterprets all the time. And flies off the handle about innocent stuff..we just had a massive fight cuz I told him he got mad me one time...stormed off etc etc ruined our entire night. Haven't spoke since. I dont wanna walk on eggshells. I don't know what to do. I care about him and the good is really good but..i know he has trust issues and I know he's scared to get involved and I know he loves me. ..ugh....
I will give you the same advice I gave my daughter...
You shouldn't have to walk on eggshells! He is responsible for how he feels and how he reacts! Not you. If you really want to help him... talk him into getting therapy. Tell him how it makes you feel when he reacts that way. Tell him that acting like a 5 yo having a full blown tantrum is not productive and won't solve anything.
If he goes into therapy, it shows he really wants to work on his issues... but, if not, you may have to let him go. Cuz if he doesn't get the help he needs... he will be like this 20 years from now.
Questions you need to ask yourself...Is this what you want to see 20 years from now? Is this how you want to live 20 years from now??
Posted by misslissa
Posted by boxcarmirnta
His only Scorpio is Pluto.which doesn't say much his rising is Leo, and the rest is mostly Gemini with a little Virgo. Yes he misinterprets all the time. And flies off the handle about innocent stuff..we just had a massive fight cuz I told him he got mad me one time...stormed off etc etc ruined our entire night. Haven't spoke since. I dont wanna walk on eggshells. I don't know what to do. I care about him and the good is really good but..i know he has trust issues and I know he's scared to get involved and I know he loves me. ..ugh....
I will give you the same advice I gave my daughter...
You shouldn't have to walk on eggshells! He is responsible for how he feels and how he reacts! Not you. If you really want to help him... talk him into getting therapy. Tell him how it makes you feel when he reacts that way. Tell him that acting like a 5 yo having a full blown tantrum is not productive and won't solve anything.
If he goes into therapy, it shows he really wants to work on his issues... but, if not, you may have to let him go. Cuz if he doesn't get the help he needs... he will be like this 20 years from now.
Questions you need to ask yourself...Is this what you want to see 20 years from now? Is this how you want to live 20 years from now??
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I totally agree with you. Completely. Just tried to talk to him and he refuses to take responsibility he just gaslights me. I dont wanna feel bad for having feelings!! I told him anger is not acceptable but he always puts it back on me. Unacceptable. Very sad..very sad.....his feelings matter more than mine.
He has since apologized.. Maybe he will learn from his mistakes.....sure hope so...he seemed quite sincere. Had no idea gems could be so moody. I really love the sensitivity too.
Posted by narayana
I know a few Virgo Moons and they're all very nervous. Anxiety disorders n stuff. Really cool people tho, just panicking over the smallest things frequently.
thanks, that's good to know.
Posted by littlegigabyte
I'm a Gem sun with earth moon and Leo rising too, and I can't relate at all :/ I thought for sure that he had to have some water in there.
yea it *really* seems like he should..it's odd.
Emotion? What's that?! π
Hmm... E... motion... Aaah! I see: Extraterrestrial Motion! π±
So... those who are happen to have this eMotion thingy - are some kind of Aliens!
(calls the U.S. government): I got another witch-hunt for yous!
Plox save us from this aliens with extraterrestrial motions... They shown signs of aggression at the slightest disagreement - which makes them dangerous/unstable. O,O And then - there's this weird liquid that comes out of their eyes when they do this eMotion thingy... Could be some kind of biological weapon! π±
Yelp uncle Sam!
Posted by neves
Emotion? What's that?! πHmm... E... motion... Aaah! I see: Extraterrestrial Motion! π±
So... those who are happen to have this eMotion thingy - are some kind of Aliens!
(calls the U.S. government): I got another witch-hunt for yous!
Plox save us from this aliens with extraterrestrial motions... They shown signs of aggression at the slightest disagreement - which makes them dangerous/unstable. O,O And then - there's this weird liquid that comes out of their eyes when they do this eMotion thingy... Could be some kind of biological weapon! π±
Yelp uncle Sam!
thanks?
Posted by LittleStar
Both signs are cray sensitive. When a Gemini is in that state, it's best just to let them ride it out and then come back and talk.
thanks, yea I realize he gets mad and then gets over it and apologizes...ill let him ride it out, calm down and then we can talk I guess.
My brother is a Gemini. He was the most sensitive along with my father, Cancer.
Geez he was moody and so damn sensitive. None of us knew how to deal with him sometimes.
Posted by jane84
My brother is a Gemini. He was the most sensitive along with my father, Cancer.Geez he was moody and so damn sensitive. None of us knew how to deal with him sometimes.
wow I'm realizing more and more that he's not that unique after all...Ε
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Never experienced this before..i thought you guys were more light hearted, jovial and fun...and he is those things but he's also sensitive af, moody and super reactionary. Like more than me and I'm a frickin Pisces!! Not sure how to proceed, we get along great...have tons of fun, great sex...wth am I missing and what can I do to make it easier on him, and me...? Thanks much.