cebunkle
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Posted by Jenna77Yes she said that she had to stop him from coming over and hurting me - he was that angry. She thinks we arent right for each other, and when I asked her if I could speak to him she said "No. I dont think thats a good idea" "Our only connection is benjamin, nothing else. don't talk to me about him".
I don't even know what to tell you. I feel really bad for you. I can imagine what you're feeling... I was also left by a Gemini, but I didn't have kids with him.
Geminis suck at expressing their feelings. He might care about you and your son even though it looks like he doesn't.
Mine came back after a long time. Suppose your does too. Are you going to take him back? Do you think it's worth being with someone that acts hot and cold most of the time?
I didn't get that part about his mom - she doesn't want him to contact you—
I now communicate with her in regards to his family seeing our son which is painful. My heart is completely broken.
Posted by busyeyes88He is not angry and neither am I. We've now had almost three months apart. Our son needs a father and I believe in forgiveness. I just cant believe how quickly he got over me..... that's
Sorry OP, but having him there in a volatile setting is not healthy for your child... I suggest you do what's best for your child and leave the gem where he is. Your relationship sounds really unhealthy..
I understand you are heartbroken but you need to do.what is best for your child. Never again have a baby.with someone you have only known 6 months... We all make mistakes.. But now you just need to look after your baby.. Good luck OP.
what really REALLY hurts.
Also my son wasn't a mistake - we planned him. Time doesn't matter, it's very possible to fall in love with someone and make a genuine connection in 6/7 months.
Posted by cebunklei'm a gem who left her spouse and we can make it seem we have quickly moved on but we didn't. if you don't mind, i would like to know what your last hard argument was about. if there are things you need to know about gems they are:Posted by busyeyes88He is not angry and neither am I. We've now had almost three months apart. Our son needs a father and I believe in forgiveness. I just cant believe how quickly he got over me..... that's
Sorry OP, but having him there in a volatile setting is not healthy for your child... I suggest you do what's best for your child and leave the gem where he is. Your relationship sounds really unhealthy..
I understand you are heartbroken but you need to do.what is best for your child. Never again have a baby.with someone you have only known 6 months... We all make mistakes.. But now you just need to look after your baby.. Good luck OP.
what really REALLY hurts.
Also my son wasn't a mistake - we planned him. Time doesn't matter, it's very possible to fall in love with someone and make a genuine connection in 6/7 months.click to expand
1. don't interfere with our freedom. we are loyal but you have to give us space. you judging him about youtube and pokemon stuff is a no-no no matter how childlike they may seem. we don't know the concept of sacrifice and we will accept you as you just as we expect you to do the same. you have to respect us the way we were before you jumped into a relationship with us. moreover, you also have to accept whatever changes we choose ourselves to be.
2. it takes time for us to be angry, what more furious? it takes time for us to decide and close doors on anything and everything so if we leave the people we used to love, it must have been a mortal sin against us.
ergo, your last fight definitely had something to do with him fleeing.
Posted by danceinahazePosted by cebunklei'm a gem who left her spouse and we can make it seem we have quickly moved on but we didn't. if you don't mind, i would like to know what your last hard argument was about. if there are things you need to know about gems they are:Posted by busyeyes88He is not angry and neither am I. We've now had almost three months apart. Our son needs a father and I believe in forgiveness. I just cant believe how quickly he got over me..... that's
Sorry OP, but having him there in a volatile setting is not healthy for your child... I suggest you do what's best for your child and leave the gem where he is. Your relationship sounds really unhealthy..
I understand you are heartbroken but you need to do.what is best for your child. Never again have a baby.with someone you have only known 6 months... We all make mistakes.. But now you just need to look after your baby.. Good luck OP.
what really REALLY hurts.
Also my son wasn't a mistake - we planned him. Time doesn't matter, it's very possible to fall in love with someone and make a genuine connection in 6/7 months.
1. don't interfere with our freedom. we are loyal but you have to give us space. you judging him about youtube and pokemon stuff is a no-no no matter how childlike they may seem. we don't know the concept of sacrifice and we will accept you as you just as we expect you to do the same. you have to respect us the way we were before you jumped into a relationship with us. moreover, you also have to accept whatever changes we choose ourselves to be.
2. it takes time for us to be angry, what more furious? it takes time for us to decide and close doors on anything and everything so if we leave the people we used to love, it must have been a mortal sin against us.
ergo, your last fight definitely had something to do with him fleeing.click to expand
Thanks for that thoughtful response.
He says that I try to "read his mind" and I will admit I am very insecure at times, and because of his constant online chatter I feel that he would leave me (he met his ex through twitter and they met up and had a sexual relationship. Since I found this out I was ALWAYS insecure about things but he constantly told me he didn't love her and he wants me)
Thought id add this : I emailed him on new years asking for closure as he never verbally broke up with (his just blocked and his mum said we could'nt speak) and he did mail me back.
Today he also thanked me for the xmas pressie i got him on behalf of our son.
Thing is....it's small talk, and he hasnt unblocked me from his main email, nor has he offered his
Posted by cebunklePosted by danceinahazePosted by cebunklei'm a gem who left her spouse and we can make it seem we have quickly moved on but we didn't. if you don't mind, i would like to know what your last hard argument was about. if there are things you need to know about gems they are:Posted by busyeyes88He is not angry and neither am I. We've now had almost three months apart. Our son needs a father and I believe in forgiveness. I just cant believe how quickly he got over me..... that's
Sorry OP, but having him there in a volatile setting is not healthy for your child... I suggest you do what's best for your child and leave the gem where he is. Your relationship sounds really unhealthy..
I understand you are heartbroken but you need to do.what is best for your child. Never again have a baby.with someone you have only known 6 months... We all make mistakes.. But now you just need to look after your baby.. Good luck OP.
what really REALLY hurts.
Also my son wasn't a mistake - we planned him. Time doesn't matter, it's very possible to fall in love with someone and make a genuine connection in 6/7 months.
1. don't interfere with our freedom. we are loyal but you have to give us space. you judging him about youtube and pokemon stuff is a no-no no matter how childlike they may seem. we don't know the concept of sacrifice and we will accept you as you just as we expect you to do the same. you have to respect us the way we were before you jumped into a relationship with us. moreover, you also have to accept whatever changes we choose ourselves to be.
2. it takes time for us to be angry, what more furious? it takes time for us to decide and close doors on anything and everything so if we leave the people we used to love, it must have been a mortal sin against us.
ergo, your last fight definitely had something to do with him fleeing.click to expand
Thanks for that thoughtful response.
He says that I try to "read his mind" and I will admit I am very insecure at times, and because of his constant online chatter I feel that he would leave me (he met his ex through twitter and they met up and had a sexual relationship. Since I found this out I was ALWAYS insecure about things but he constantly told me he didn't love her and he wants me)
Thought id add this : I emailed him on new years asking for closure as he never verbally broke up with (his just blocked and his mum said we could'nt speak) and he did mail me back.
Today he also thanked me for the xmas p
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However- at the beginning of November last year, we had our last argument. It got very ugly and he threatened my family (i know he said it out of anger but....). His mum called me and said she would make sure he never contacted me again. Then that was it. He blocked my email addresses, youtube, and twitter and never called or contacted me again. He missed xmas with our family (we had planned to have it at home together this year) and the new year celebrations.
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Please advice me on what to do, I dont plan on emailing him again. Is there a chance he would come back? If so how would it work- hes always on social media and youtube and meeting the internet friends so where do me and our son fit in—
Please help. I just dont know. 😢