Scorpio fem/Gemini male

Hi!
I am a scorpio female & in long term relationship with cancer male. Co-working Gemini acquaintance is also in long term relationship with someone (no idea her sign). We were both being flirty with eachother the other day and were talking about kissing and one thing led to another and we ended up making out. It is very random that we see eachother in the office, he works in a satelite office and is on the road. My problem is that I can't stop thinking about him. I know Gem's are "flighty" or easily distracted, so to speak, I don't know if he has even given me a second thought. Do I call, make up an excuse and call him, wait and see if he calls me, ignore all of it? I don't want to seem like a stalker. I know this is a touchy cheating subject so I would really appreciate help and not nasty judgemental comments. I really am a good person and am just at a cross roads, I have never done anythng like this before. Please help. Input from Gem males would really be appreciated.
Thanks,

Hi!
I am a scorpio female & in long term relationship with cancer male. Co-working Gemini acquaintance is also in long term relationship with someone (no idea her sign). We were both being flirty with eachother the other day and were talking about kissing and one thing led to another and we ended up making out. It is very random that we see eachother in the office, he works in a satelite office and is on the road. My problem is that I can't stop thinking about him. I know Gem's are "flighty" or easily distracted, so to speak, I don't know if he has even given me a second thought. Do I call, make up an excuse and call him, wait and see if he calls me, ignore all of it? I don't want to seem like a stalker. I know this is a touchy cheating subject so I would really appreciate help and not nasty judgemental comments. I really am a good person and am just at a cross roads, I have never done anythng like this before. Please help. Input from Gem males would really be appreciated.
Thanks

Posted by May31Baby
No nasty judgments, just curious... what do you want from all of this? You plan to leave your current relationship for the gem?

I've been in a unhappy relationship where I've crossed lines, but I would never cross ALL the lines, ya know? But either he's just a cheater or he likes you enough to cross those lines. Do you think he's unhappy in his relationship?

I was wondering the same thing...What if he wants more, then what? You need to think about this long and hard, cause no one has that much power over you if your heart and mind is where it should be.

It's not about him, so don't kid yourself.....js

Thanks! I have no idea what I am looking for with him. Maybe I liked the attention he was giving me. Cancer and I have been together a really long time and there is no doubt he treats me wonderfully, he is almost - too good to me, and NO I don't want to be treated like crap but I liked the excitement of this gem, it felt good to let my bad girl side out, kwim? I had heard he was a bad boy from someone, so maybe that added to the thrill. Could the fact that he was "taken" make it more of a challenge for me? Did he just cheat for the sake of it or did he really have an attraction to me? I have a lot of scorpio in my chart so I don't like to be ignored. I am not looking for a big relationship with the gem, just want to know that he is thinking of me. I don't like to chase anyone but am wondering if that is something he is waiting for. I am stumped. GEM MEN help!

We posted at the same time, I appreciate your gemini comments Brobian. I would never text anyone as far as calling I would make it a work thing, just like hey blah blah. I am going to hold off on everything. It is good to get feedback. Positive feedback, not snarky remarks. Thanks! 🙂

Yes, I had read that. He is a free spirit - like a little boy. Like I said I wasnt looking to marry him, just felt excitement with him & now can't shake it.

lexilovesigns,

I am guessing you are still young. As a Scorpio myself and evolved I don't give my body that easily.

I have several suitors at this time.. but my spiritual journey is more important than my lust.

I advice you not too much attach to your emotion. Master it and practice it everyday. You will

discover yourself why you are behaving that way. Scorpio ruled sex... and that is our problem but we

have to handle that carefully.. It should be the NO SEX before marriage.Conquer it!

Gemini I know has dual personality. If you are good to them, they do the same however, Men who don't

initiate means.. he is not into it.. what do you expect in a one night stand? I am pretty sure it was

just lust if not a relationship. The problem Is You fall in love with this guy.. he is in your mind..

I call it obsession.. so step back for awhile and be in control. Do not call him. He will call if he

is still interested in you.

be single and play the field

or tell the cancer you'd like to date other people and see what he says.