Shes a gemini

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by dedwood on Thursday, March 9, 2006 and has 16 replies.

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@dedwood
20 Years
i'm an aries and i really like her.

Problem being i dont know if she likes me. Sometimes it seems like she will deliberately not engage me, at other times i think she is flirting heavily, she comes across as confident but actually seems quite shy when we are alone.

I havent got a clue but my intuition says she likes me, but then again being an aries who wouldnt like me. I am very shy around her and not as articulate as i want to be or am. I also feel slightly restrained because we work together, if we were in a social setting i would have no problem in using all my charm and say "whats the matter with you then you miserable sod" πŸ˜‰

I think i am giving her hints, i say "hello" everyday, what more does she need. She is much more relaxed around others, so i'm not sure whether shes having the same thing i am or just thinks i'm a potential stalker.

So basically all you lovely gemini woman please help. It's got to the stage where i see her and i honestly cant believe how beautiful she is and i get instant heartburn and nausea, i dont know what that is but it cant be healthy, can it?



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@BaBy-GrL414
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Do what geminifox says..lol just cuz someone tells me hello.. doesn't make me think they are interested in me. I need more obvious hints than that... but beware.. with more obvious hints.. i know i like to play and make you sweat alittle.. lol so she may see how serious you are about it...
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@SoftCookie
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From my experience with Gemini females, just make sure that you don't come on too strong initially. Keep the convesation light and fun for awhile. Geminis have so much going on in their life that it takes them awhile to develop strong feelings for someone (lust is another matter πŸ˜‰ ).

If they feel boxed in at all before they develop feelings, they'll run for the hills. But they'll hike through the Sahara if it looks like there is a party on the other side. πŸ™‚
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@SoftCookie
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I have a soft spot for Geminis (and very often a hard one as well πŸ˜‰ ).

But I'm hesitant to share the secret with other men, I want a Gemini harem all to myself πŸ™‚
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@BaBy-GrL414
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"I have a soft spot for Geminis (and very often a hard one as well ).

But I'm hesitant to share the secret with other men, I want a Gemini harem all to myself"

isn't that cute...
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@BaBy-GrL414
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I'm the opposite of emerald.. i like the loud ones.. i will look over the quiet ones for a loud one.. but quiet ones do intrigue me. hell i guess that means i like em' all...LOL
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@BaBy-GrL414
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Oh and just alittle more on that comment about she being flirty and seemingly confident..that is like our biggest defense mechanism. For me anyway. So many times i appear this confident person when inside, it's the opposite..but because of my own ego.. i won't back down.. it's this terrible inner battle..