
SapphireGem
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13 YearsGemini
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Posted by piscesmoonPosted by SapphireGemPosted by x3Elise
I am a 19 yr old gem girl! I have been single my entire life because I cannt seem to find someone who could accept me for who I am.
I went on dates with a Libra guy, but he turned out to be a control freak(force me to change my religion and be around him all the time) and he cries alot.
I gave up on BGR, seems useless to me(for now) .
I know that alot of gems out there are sure to have dated a couple of times, advice in getting guys to accept me for who i am? :c
You cannot "make" someone accept you for who you are. Some will, some won't. That's life. You're only 19, you have the WHOLE of your life ahead of you... you've got a lot of wonderful things, and a lot of disasters ahead of you... don't be so eager to jump into the shark pen!
We Gemini's are an odd bunch, some absolutely hate us and some freaking love us... you can't please everyone. Just live YOUR life, live it for YOU and one day when you least expect it, your life path with cross the life path of someone else and you'll know it... damn straight you'll know it... it's unmistakable.
Hang in there 🙂click to expand
Very wise words above...
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I would add a few things... I know it sounds stupid but I don't think you know what you want... 19 is so young... Don't focus on it... Think about it like this if you are trying to hard it shows... Actors over doing it... sporty people killing themselves... people always looking in the mirror... All trying to hard... ask your self... is that attractive
If I am not wrong Gem... normally always want to fill that void... because you don't feel as whole with out it... well don't go trying to put the wrong puzzle pieces... You might try to conform and then realize how uncomfortable your are... aka the controlling relationship you never should have staid in that long...
Learn to trust your feelings... As a Gem you will know when the right piece fits... just don't be taken or busy with another relationship you should have ended long ago because it was not right...
Remember you should be happy around your partner most of the time like 85% and they should support you in positive directions to grow...
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You cannot "make" someone accept you for who you are. Some will, some won't. That's life. You're only 19, you have the WHOLE of your life ahead of you... you've got a lot of wonderful things, and a lot of disasters ahead of you... don't be so eager to jump into the shark pen!
We Gemini's are an odd bunch, some absolutely hate us and some freaking love us... you can't please everyone. Just live YOUR life, live it for YOU and one day when you least expect it, your life path with cross the life path of someone else and you'll know it... damn straight you'll know it... it's unmistakable.
Hang in there 🙂