Synastry Help - Gemini & Libra

I am thinking (operative would here is thinking, I have no idea when...) about proposing to my lover. We get along well (very well actually) and match each other in everyway, and I do get a glimpse of the future with her in my life. I am wondering if there is anything in our synastry or composite chart says anything about good marriage partners. Someone told me that people with stellium in their charts find a better compatibility with other stellium peoples, is it true? (I have never actually meet one...). Is there anyway to find out where the Chiron in your natal chart is? I can't seem to find a website that helps me with that. Anyway, here's the info about our natal charts. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. 🙂

Heal's Natal Chart :

Sun Libra 00?53'57 02 direct
Moon Libra 00?51'07 02 direct
Mercury Virgo 27?19'47 02 retrograde
Venus Libra 27?07'01 03 direct
Mars Libra 19?55'45 03 direct
Jupiter Gemini 01?10'49 10 stationary (R)
Saturn Leo 13?16'59 01 direct
Uranus Scorpio 05?16'00 03 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 11?28'07 04 direct
Pluto Libra 11?10'17 02/3 direct
Pluto is technically near the end of house 2 and is interpreted in house 3.
True Node Scorpio 03?50'06 03 retrograde


House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Leo 10?32'12
2nd House Virgo 10?46'43
3rd House Libra 12?55'22
Imum Coeli Scorpio 14?26'39
5th House Sagittarius 13?47'26
6th House Capricorn 11?50'39
Descendant Aquarius 10?32'12
8th House Pisces 10?46'43
9th House Aries 12?55'22
Medium Coeli Taurus 14?26'39
11th House Gemini 13?47'26
12th House Cancer 11?50'39

Jane's Natal Chart

Sun Gemini 13?19'07 08/9 direct
Sun is technically near the end of house 8 and is interpreted in house 9.
Moon Taurus 26?36'46 08 direct
Mercury Gemini 01?18'56 08 direct
Venus Cancer 15?49'14 10 direct
Mars Leo 24?43'09 11 direct
Jupiter Cancer 09?49'09 09/10 direct
Jupiter is technically near the end of house 9 and is interpreted in house 10.
Saturn Leo 25?00'33 11 direct
Uranus Scorpio 13?11'50 01/2 retrograde
Uranus is technically near the end of house 1 and is interpreted in house 2.
Neptune Sagittarius 17?02'56 03 retrograde
Pluto Libra 14?00'27 01 retrograde
True Node Libra 03?27'56 12 retrograde


House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Libra 13?37'02
2nd House Scorpio 14?40'33
3rd House Sagittarius 13?45'55
Imum Coeli Capricorn 11?48'04
5th House Aquarius 10?42'38
6th House Pisces 11?40'21
Descendant Aries 13?37'02
8th House Taurus 14?40'33
9th House Gemini 13?45'55
Medium Coeli Cancer 11?48'04
11th House Leo 10?42'38
12th House Virgo 11?40'21

Holy Mackeral! Atlantic Myst!!! Thanks for the info, like a gemini you gather all information for me to sort it out.... Hmm... think we have a good chance as a married couple, Myst? We have loads of fun, light and very very comfortable... and then passionate when the moon rises.. 😛

Wait a second... that doesn't seem to sound right.... errr, I mean with my gemini gal and me.... err.. you get what I mean... too excited to write properly... Hmmm....somehow Gemini has this effect on me... all hyped up and can't think straight.. at least initially....

Yeah, we talked like crazy.... no subject is taboo really. First time we met, it was at this cozy sports cafe. We just came out to exchange stuff - a couple of books, dvds and some Jazz cds. No intention on my part to actually court her and end up being lovers. I thought that we'll just have a drink and do some small talks then. We ordered ice lemon teas, and then we started talking around the edges. Work, books, movies and songs we listen to. Just a quiet conversation, feels like old pals that haven't met for a long time. She started telling me about her relationships and I offered her some of opinions and insights. We laughed at the silliness when two people fall in love, the crazy things that two person do. We talked about sex, love making. The strange thing is that it wasn't uncomfortable at all, and that was the first time we met. We ended up sitting there, talking till the night came. She looked at her watch and said,"Wow, I have never done this before, we have sat here for almost 8 hours".And I replied,"Doesn't feel like 8 hours to me, more like 8 minutes." She smiled the Gemini smile - this weird tingling girlish-like smile. I call it the eternal girl smile. 🙂

We didn't go up to each other's apartment and made out or anything physical like that. I don't know if that's our first date, since the intention was just to exchange stuff of similar interest. Well, we left and went home. We called each other every night, and talked till the wee hours of the morning. And both of us go to work blurry eye, this went on for a week, I couldn't quite know what to do. Just like the way things are and was thinking about the pros and cons whether to go court her or not. Well, we talked about relationships one night and we started asking each other what we like in our partner. We laughed about our silly answers and somehow the conversation lead to us... and the rest is history I guess. 🙂 So yeah, Myst, we do talk alot, though of late we are comfortable just holding hands and enjoy jazz in the background or reading a book lying down beside each other. It's comfortable and I got use to her twin personality - the restlessness that I sometimes sense in her. Realise that this Gemini Gal can be quite vacillating sometimes and with the fickleness in me, it's hard for us to make a decision. But other than that, we do talk about things honestly. I like the way she thinks, making things simple and easy, and she likes the way I think, the complicated, many faceted way to look at things, so I guess in a way we complement each other. 🙂

Heal,
I have been to astro.com and that helped alot with me (libra) and my guy(Gemini) turns out that a marriage is very viable and that you connect on a way deeper level. I have known my Gemini since we were very small and was out of contact from 14years old to 28. We had a great freindship as children and an even better one as adults!! Good luck and congrats

heal: i just love that smile! i didnt give it a name but i know it so well. i also wish you the best with your ever so sweet gemini. what amazing creatures they are.

Thanks for the input guys, especially you, myst. 🙂 I don't know about the possesiveness part. I do find myself more possesive at times, I have no idea where that come from (probably from the stellium in 2nd house?) It's going well, and there's definately ups and downs to make it real. Read about comments in Elliot's post about gemmies, and the part about learning from their man is true. The questions my gemmy ask are quite, em, how should I put it, rather numerous and deep, and the questions can just pop out of the blue. Love the way her mind is wired, but I think in some way, I am a little more logically than her, but her mind is more playful and she gets flashes of brilliant and witty ideas. I don't have problem keeping up with her mind, but it amazes and surprizes me, when I thought I know her thought processes already. It's rather unpredictable, like an Aquarian mind. Emotionally though, like many gemmies ( I know I am generalizing here, so bear with me), she tend to avoid heavy talks - too stuffy, which I do agree to a certain point, but I feel certain things need to be brought out into the open instead of letting it fester in the mind. And blkraven is right about the level of connection though, there is something deep about the way we connect to each other. There is this part which I read in an astrology book (by Greene perhaps?) on Libra and Gemini - there is this part with is very true, in my instance at least, it goes something like this, "Gemini touches the heart of Libra that few can reach, it is the childlike, dreamy character that has a way of melting the Libran logic. She(the Gemini Gal) will always be a puzzle of sorts to him, and like a playful child, she will hold that last piece of puzzle from him, knowing that the only way he can completely understand her is not through his mind, but his heart"
And, it's rather true, though I always have doubt about trusting what my heart says, logically her words doesn't quite match her actions (but being a Gemini, that just being the child in her) - and to me that's rather illogical, and I had a hard time accepting it. But of late, deep down somewhere in my heart, I know what she means with her actions, though I still feel quite quesy in believing what my heart says to me. Heck, sometimes there's just no reasoning with Love.