the gem has been pulling away...

so after about a month now of 'courting' the gem has slowly started to pull away. i notice that she's really talkative and cheery around others but when it's just us together she's very shy, really into her own world and sometimes shoots me these confusing glances. it seems like one day we'll be getting on great and the next i'm being flat-out ignored.

a part of it might be that we're living together in the same co-op, with 7 other people...i get the feeling she doesn't want to be publicly intimate with me because of the potential gossip around the loft, but the only time we're together is at home.

last night i pulled away too and pretty much ignored her for the whole time during movie night and she just went straight up into her loft afterwards and went to sleep. i feel a little bad about it - i don't know whether she lost interest or is playing hard to get.

all morning she's been at work so i bought her roses, snuck into her loft and attached a note that says, "happy monday, beautiful." i'm hoping she's receptive to it...

Sound like what I did to the scorpion guy that was interested in me. Its typical behavour. Good luck dude. If you get her to commit to you. She will make you the happiest man on the planet..