GeminiMind
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Today I will be master of my emotions!
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Posted by lanathegreat
First of all, be nice to your gf. Everyone has their own way!
For second, I agree we are emotional but keep it under control. But that's not necessarily a good thing, since we are often misunderstood. People think that we are heartless, when we are the opposite, but will not act on it if it's not appropriate or illogical to do so.
But like I said everyone has their own way of dealing with emotions. There is no right or wrong, just different.
i agree with Lana.
I agree that is NOT a good idea to let your emotions control you and how you make decisions and react to things in all aspects of life...and here's the thing: I'm a Gemini, but my ascending and moon sign are Pisces, so I definitely have lots of unwanted emotions involved, and being a Gemini always makes it a struggle for me big time when it comes to deciding if my head or my heart shall win! =P I totally get what you're saying...and I definitely need to do the same as your gf, need to let the brain's objective point of view win, instead of always going back to what the heart tells you, especially in relationships like you said! =/
In my younger years I was much more emotional (like everyone else I guess). I remember crying a lot over little things, getting upset easily and generally being quite sensitive. However, in the past two years that's completely changed. I feel like I have my emotions under such a tight reign, I hardly feel them at all. How I operate is solely on the 'mind' and mind alone. Which thus, makes it difficult to be attracted to people on a deep level. I can never quite assess my emotions properly when it comes to these affairs, not that anyone has been spectacular enough to make me want to do so :p
But yes. I often wonder what it's like to feel so intensely emotional, and have one's life completely guided by feelings. Odd.
But yes. I often wonder what it's like to feel so intensely emotional, and have one's life completely guided by feelings. Odd.
From an outsider looking in .. I don't see this.
The Gemini, generally speaking, has very little emotional control. Their emotions spike severely ...
When the Gemini is angry ... they are fucking furious
When they are depressed ... they contemplate whether life is worth continuing
When they are happy ... the elation is so high that the euphoria is bordering pathological
When they are envious ... they become tumultuous and will reek havoc
All emotions are like this ... they are exalted, and this glorifying by the Gemini is undetected by them that it is present within them, or perhaps, they think it's normal.
Additionally, the Gemini, generally speaking, once they put an idea in their head, their emotions go full force in that direction, even if it's fucked up for them. For example, a Gemini woman will want a particular man, and she won't be able to see how fucked up he is, and how bad he is treating her. She will even make excuses for his behaviour because she wants this man .... so, for the fact that she has clouded her judgement in ignorance so she can feel lovely inside of this delusion ..... does not equal emotional strength, it equals emotional weakness ... because it's too difficult to face.
Out of all the signs .... Gemini is in the top 3 for emotional weakness, and rarely uses logic to sort out their life.
The Gemini, generally speaking, has very little emotional control. Their emotions spike severely ...
When the Gemini is angry ... they are fucking furious
When they are depressed ... they contemplate whether life is worth continuing
When they are happy ... the elation is so high that the euphoria is bordering pathological
When they are envious ... they become tumultuous and will reek havoc
All emotions are like this ... they are exalted, and this glorifying by the Gemini is undetected by them that it is present within them, or perhaps, they think it's normal.
Additionally, the Gemini, generally speaking, once they put an idea in their head, their emotions go full force in that direction, even if it's fucked up for them. For example, a Gemini woman will want a particular man, and she won't be able to see how fucked up he is, and how bad he is treating her. She will even make excuses for his behaviour because she wants this man .... so, for the fact that she has clouded her judgement in ignorance so she can feel lovely inside of this delusion ..... does not equal emotional strength, it equals emotional weakness ... because it's too difficult to face.
Out of all the signs .... Gemini is in the top 3 for emotional weakness, and rarely uses logic to sort out their life.
If you look at let's say the 'Cancer' message board, and compare it to the Gemini board, you can certainly see that Gem's are not emotionally weak. All that I think, is felt by the mind and not the heart. I don't let my emotions guide my judgement. ever.
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Additionally, the Gemini, generally speaking, once they put an idea in their head, their emotions go full force in that direction, even if it's treetrunked up for them. For example, a Gemini woman will want a particular man, and she won't be able to see how treetrunked up he is, and how bad he is treating her. She will even make excuses for his behaviour because she wants this man .... so, for the fact that she has clouded her judgement in ignorance so she can feel lovely inside of this delusion ..... does not equal emotional strength, it equals emotional weakness ... because it's too difficult to face."
You're confusing emotional weakness, with a ubiquitous Gemini trait. Excusing his behaviour = our ability to see two sides to every situation. It is not because we are emotional, but because we see two sides to every arguement - the rational and the irrational.
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Additionally, the Gemini, generally speaking, once they put an idea in their head, their emotions go full force in that direction, even if it's treetrunked up for them. For example, a Gemini woman will want a particular man, and she won't be able to see how treetrunked up he is, and how bad he is treating her. She will even make excuses for his behaviour because she wants this man .... so, for the fact that she has clouded her judgement in ignorance so she can feel lovely inside of this delusion ..... does not equal emotional strength, it equals emotional weakness ... because it's too difficult to face."
You're confusing emotional weakness, with a ubiquitous Gemini trait. Excusing his behaviour = our ability to see two sides to every situation. It is not because we are emotional, but because we see two sides to every arguement - the rational and the irrational.
Sit for a while .. you'll see a Gemini get pissed off in here and display utter emotional UNcontrol.
Once angered ..... they are a loose cannon .. there is no rational side to it, completely irrational.
Hang out, you'll see ... it happens often in dxp.
Once angered ..... they are a loose cannon .. there is no rational side to it, completely irrational.
Hang out, you'll see ... it happens often in dxp.
And to carry it even further .... this Gemini, once angered, will go to other rooms to express thier irritation, as if these other rooms hold some sort of responsibility ...
Gemini rage is brief. Yes it's chaotic, but in my experience, with all my friends being Gemini's and me being one, it's not long lasting. Can you possibly equate a Scorpio explosion, with the anger of a Gemini? I don't think so. If I'm angry, I say the worst things ever, but give me a few hours and I'll be okay. Mind over matter.
i spent years controling my emotions .. noone told me to do so .. i just told myslef that that is how it is suposed to be.. now at 24 .. i think i am trying to let myself feel them .. i dunnooo ..i wouldn't swap with any other sign.. but sometimes i think they have it much easier cos they just cry ..and get over it ..sometimes i even think that i am not quite so gemini... but i am a gemini/gemini .. so i really don't see how any other planet can be influencing me more..
Oh P-Angel I thought you were eaten by a Grizzly Bear. Glad to see you are still alive. Still don't get us Gems though. Maybe that's why you fail in relationships. You're just too smart in your dreamworld. But, then Jesus couldn't pull himself off of the cross either. For someone to think they know something they don't. You sure do generalize a LOT. You m'lady are a fraud. If you knew so much you would have been able to know exaclty how to control your Gem. But, like the downstream fish everyone knows you are. Your energy comes through as sad, dark, confused, and emotional. You will never understand us. Give up. Your hubby was just a redneck like yourself. And you know when you get that crystal meth and alcohol in ya. Your Gem hubby just did what any redneck would do. Beat his wife. Not a Gem thing, just your thing. And you've never seen me angry here. So your perception is your own. So typical Piscean. Yuck!
:::Flushing P-Angel Down the toilet:::
:::Flushing P-Angel Down the toilet:::
Your response to P speaks volumes. I see nothing Gemini or logical about that.
"I'm sort of working a lot on myself, to control these maniacal tendencies to fly off the handle when I'm actually in the "moment". Atleast, I believe that digging out and finding my own faults atleast helps me be tolerant of others."
That's good to hear, Saywha ... my little Gem grandson is already showing signs of being able to pull himself back after an outburst ... and he's only 4 and able to attempt to control his anger, not successful always, but the awareness is present and the attempt to find composure.
Living in the moment is good way to express this Gemini trait ... Aries lives a lot in the moment also .... not everybody can do that. Most people are calculating, and non-tolerant.
That's good to hear, Saywha ... my little Gem grandson is already showing signs of being able to pull himself back after an outburst ... and he's only 4 and able to attempt to control his anger, not successful always, but the awareness is present and the attempt to find composure.
Living in the moment is good way to express this Gemini trait ... Aries lives a lot in the moment also .... not everybody can do that. Most people are calculating, and non-tolerant.
hehe ike you said pissed off! that means you're being emotional! Might I suggest an emoticon instead to substitute real human feeling 😄 😄 😄
Posted by Ike
Furthermore an idiot like you would probably downplay or mock the tremendous wisdom of "intuition" which is basically a feeling received by subconcious and superconcious mind .
At least use your own words and not plagiarize. Poor little Ike. Another wanna-be proving my point. Don't get "pissed off". Just be a man. It's easier.
GM
I'm a gemini myself and I do agree with Geminimind a lot. We do have feelings (lots actually) but we analize them right the next second we feel them. Mrs P-Angel, I think it is a waste of time to keep typing shit about geminis or any star sign really, you sound very hurt and the best thing you can do is get away from us!! Pisces and Geminis don't usually get along so why push it? All those bad things you said about geminis pissed me off (a feeling, I know) for like 15 seconds but then I thought (mind): that doesn't sound like me at all, so why bother being upset? I'm a total pacifist, maybe it has to do with my Libran ascendant, however I know other geminis and they're not like you described them at all... well maybe under the influence of substances, haha. But what starsign isn't?
Posted by i love ewe
Your response to P speaks volumes. I see nothing Gemini or logical about that.
I don't know P-Angel from Adam. Nor will I ever. I'm not here to baby people, nor to make them have a false sense of security. There's enough of you here for that. I stated my point, and just wanted feedback is all. P-Angel can kiss my buttocks. Whilst there's enough people here kissing hers. She is no more than a "Button Pusher". Just not good enough ot push mine. And Ike....Be a man for a day. For you future's sake. Damn! But, you guys do give me chuckles! And Michael Jackson is dead!!! Pause for a moment. Do you know how big that is? Yes I can move fast like the true Gemini that I am.
Posted by Ike
I don't understand i thought geminis liked me . Did i do something wrong?
I do like you Ike. You just came at me wrong, and I never forget. It's all good bruh!
Posted by GeminiMindPosted by i love ewe
Your response to P speaks volumes. I see nothing Gemini or logical about that.
I don't know P-Angel from Adam. Nor will I ever. I'm not here to baby people, nor to make them have a false sense of security. There's enough of you here for that. I stated my point, and just wanted feedback is all. P-Angel can kiss my buttocks. Whilst there's enough people here kissing hers. She is no more than a "Button Pusher". Just not good enough ot push mine. And Ike....Be a man for a day. For you future's sake. Damn! But, you guys do give me chuckles! And Michael Jackson is dead!!! Pause for a moment. Do you know how big that is? Yes I can move fast like the true Gemini that I am.click to expand
I don't like P anymore than the next person. What you said to her though was nothing that you described as being unemotional or logical reasoning. Instead of assessing her words you flew into a personal attack and didn't even discuss the topic at hand. That's what people who have lost control do. You called her out for generalizing and then you ended your rant with —so typical Piscean.?? If you don't know her from Adam, then how do you know she's a redneck meth addict? I agree, she is a button pusher, so knowing that why would you even bother responding to her? You just bought into her game. I??ve seen more logical reasoning resonating off of used condoms laying on the sidewalk. I hope we can still be amigas though 😄 😄 😄
I said my point about P and I stand by it, Amiga. Sorry about your condom problem tho. You should move to a nicer neighborhood where they don't have such things laying around. I kid! I kid!
Jesus. My main gripe of having a Gemini best friend for 14 waaaaytoolong years is that he NEVER took responsibility for ANYDAMNTHING in his life. Everything was ALWAYS someone else's fault, or the alcohol's fault, or the drugs' fault.
I don't know how we lasted that long.
I don't know how we lasted that long.
And I agree with PAngel about the emotions being all over the damn place at full speed.
Girl Boom! First of all, I said nothing whatsoever about a gem being evil. Okay? I can tout the positives of Gemini also. But I chimed in to the conversation at hand. Okay?
Second, my friend was on drugs. Okay? I put up with him because I loved him and was loyal. U know what that means boo?I told him not to call me until he went to rehab, because there had been many empty promises to. However, I refused to sit back and watch a friend self destruct, so i gave him an ultimatum.
Do you know what he did? He told me I needed some self esteem and that I was weak. And that even with a monkey(drugs) on his back, he was better than me. That's what my friend of 14 years did. He brought up some random fears that I had told to him in complete fucking confidence and threw them in my face to hurt me. Not to prove a point, or of any relevance to what we were dealing with, but to purposely HURT ME. Yea, Fuck 14 years. He was the FALSE friend that you claim to abhor boo. Harboring all these ill ass thoughts about me.
He was right, I was weak, until the day I became strong enough to walk away from his schizoid ass.
Second, my friend was on drugs. Okay? I put up with him because I loved him and was loyal. U know what that means boo?I told him not to call me until he went to rehab, because there had been many empty promises to. However, I refused to sit back and watch a friend self destruct, so i gave him an ultimatum.
Do you know what he did? He told me I needed some self esteem and that I was weak. And that even with a monkey(drugs) on his back, he was better than me. That's what my friend of 14 years did. He brought up some random fears that I had told to him in complete fucking confidence and threw them in my face to hurt me. Not to prove a point, or of any relevance to what we were dealing with, but to purposely HURT ME. Yea, Fuck 14 years. He was the FALSE friend that you claim to abhor boo. Harboring all these ill ass thoughts about me.
He was right, I was weak, until the day I became strong enough to walk away from his schizoid ass.
BIG MISTAKE! = Ya Damn Skippy
And yes, it did hurt.
Didn't I just tell you he was on drugs boo(patronizing)? He tried shaking me down for money on several occasions, gave me a dog, and afterwards, took it back and sold it for pills (after lying and saying he needed to sell the dog for money for rehab). His upset came from the fact that I was not willing to keep in touch with him until he got some fucking help.
He had been on and off drugs for several years and kept making bullshit promises to get better. All the while Im dealing with his mood swings and bitchiness. So yes, there was resentment building, but I foolishly kept hoping it would get better.
U think I didn't know what he was made of , good and bad, after 14 years boo?
Initially, I was attracted to our friendship because he was soooo different. I was introverted whereas he was in your face all the time. He was also the best person ever to party with. We shared a love of music and pop culture. We shared secrets and talked alot.
However, people grow up. Partying takes a backseat to personal responsibility. He chose to stay a child. When he went to jail during the night, he wouldnt dare call our Aries friend. He called me, because he KNEW i would be there, and I was, repeatedly. So when I finally make a stand not to babysit a damn 32 year old, he flies off the handle and throws a tantrum like the toddler he was.
And I'll continue to wear my one gray mask, while you just keep wearing one of your 64.
And yes, it did hurt.
Didn't I just tell you he was on drugs boo(patronizing)? He tried shaking me down for money on several occasions, gave me a dog, and afterwards, took it back and sold it for pills (after lying and saying he needed to sell the dog for money for rehab). His upset came from the fact that I was not willing to keep in touch with him until he got some fucking help.
He had been on and off drugs for several years and kept making bullshit promises to get better. All the while Im dealing with his mood swings and bitchiness. So yes, there was resentment building, but I foolishly kept hoping it would get better.
U think I didn't know what he was made of , good and bad, after 14 years boo?
Initially, I was attracted to our friendship because he was soooo different. I was introverted whereas he was in your face all the time. He was also the best person ever to party with. We shared a love of music and pop culture. We shared secrets and talked alot.
However, people grow up. Partying takes a backseat to personal responsibility. He chose to stay a child. When he went to jail during the night, he wouldnt dare call our Aries friend. He called me, because he KNEW i would be there, and I was, repeatedly. So when I finally make a stand not to babysit a damn 32 year old, he flies off the handle and throws a tantrum like the toddler he was.
And I'll continue to wear my one gray mask, while you just keep wearing one of your 64.
See, you fly off the handle one minute and come back COMPLETELY DIFFERENT the NEXT SECOND. AMAZING. No hard feelings. I still have many wonderful FEMALE gemini friends. I attract u guys like crazy and vice versa.
And it's not easy to break that bond. I am pained over our falling out everyday. You can believe that. And hey, he's your boyfriend, so you guys have sex to heal some wounds. : )
And it's not easy to break that bond. I am pained over our falling out everyday. You can believe that. And hey, he's your boyfriend, so you guys have sex to heal some wounds. : )
"I would never allow another person to be with me or bear my friendship when he/she is NOT willing to understand me and gives no value to the bond that he/she has formed with me."
The problem though is that Geminis think of themselves as free-spirits, they feel they are open and attempt to remain on the lighter side of life for themselves .. ok, this is a good thing. But, the problem is ... when it comes to other people, they are controlling, domineering and cannot just let others live. A Gemini always has something to say to their people about how these other people should do this, or do that.
The dualty.
If you are a friend of a Gem, or this other person trying to relate ... you will find that your Gem person is constantly telling you what to do, and though, thier advice may be right, or wise ... the problem is that they won't hold themselves to it.
So, how is a person suppose to give value to this. You think the Gem isn't being understood, as they are being understood ... it is being understood that Gem never errs, while everybody does, from the Gem perspective.
The problem though is that Geminis think of themselves as free-spirits, they feel they are open and attempt to remain on the lighter side of life for themselves .. ok, this is a good thing. But, the problem is ... when it comes to other people, they are controlling, domineering and cannot just let others live. A Gemini always has something to say to their people about how these other people should do this, or do that.
The dualty.
If you are a friend of a Gem, or this other person trying to relate ... you will find that your Gem person is constantly telling you what to do, and though, thier advice may be right, or wise ... the problem is that they won't hold themselves to it.
So, how is a person suppose to give value to this. You think the Gem isn't being understood, as they are being understood ... it is being understood that Gem never errs, while everybody does, from the Gem perspective.
Here's an example of what I mean ...
On the Virgo board, this Gemini woman, Lissanth is creating topics about how she is just an option to a man to whom she has opened herself up to him for him to take her sexually, without any commitment. Now, if people tell her this, which they do .. she then goes on to make excuses about how she feels for him, and only wants him to want her, and excuses about why he is only wanting sex, and how she will wait for him to want her ... eventhough, his actions are clearly showing that she is a piece of ass to him.
But, because she lays herself open to him, for him to take her if he chooses ... she has become on of his options.
she would even say she should take her own advice in this post, and then continued on in here and following posts to thoroughly give herself reason enough to remain an option to him, with legs open for him in case he should decide to want her.
See what I mean here? Geminis are notorious for it. They consider themselves open and free, it is perfectly fine for them to do these things ... yet, for others it is not perfectly fine.
There doesn't appear to be a bridge between the Twins .. just a gap. Either/or are present, but, never any kind of melding of the two.
You or me ... no us.
Posted by Lissanth
Leave him alone. Never make someone your priority if you are only an option to them. I know i should take my own advice right? I have started to disengage myself from him but it's really difficult because he lives in the same building that i do and every movement he makes i hear--not my choice of course! It's just the way it is--it takes extreme discipline to not think about him because the moment i dont--he deliberately slams the door to let me know when he's leaving or plays music loud or something. Grr! Walk away i tell you--he walked away from you months ago for another girl and now he wants to come back?? Something's up. It's possible he may be confused but more likely he's sport fishing.
On the Virgo board, this Gemini woman, Lissanth is creating topics about how she is just an option to a man to whom she has opened herself up to him for him to take her sexually, without any commitment. Now, if people tell her this, which they do .. she then goes on to make excuses about how she feels for him, and only wants him to want her, and excuses about why he is only wanting sex, and how she will wait for him to want her ... eventhough, his actions are clearly showing that she is a piece of ass to him.
But, because she lays herself open to him, for him to take her if he chooses ... she has become on of his options.
she would even say she should take her own advice in this post, and then continued on in here and following posts to thoroughly give herself reason enough to remain an option to him, with legs open for him in case he should decide to want her.
See what I mean here? Geminis are notorious for it. They consider themselves open and free, it is perfectly fine for them to do these things ... yet, for others it is not perfectly fine.
There doesn't appear to be a bridge between the Twins .. just a gap. Either/or are present, but, never any kind of melding of the two.
You or me ... no us.
"I would never allow another person to be with me or bear my friendship when he/she is NOT willing to understand me and gives no value to the bond that he/she has formed with me."
It appears to me that the non-willingness to understand comes from the Gemini in not trying to understand others, but, believes that it's the other people not trying to understand them.
It appears to me that the non-willingness to understand comes from the Gemini in not trying to understand others, but, believes that it's the other people not trying to understand them.
Ok Scorpiosity. That avatar is creepy as hell. I know, I know, it's a Scorpio thing. But, do you have to prove the Scorpio illnesses? Dayum! And Saywha?, you're brilliant!
Posted by P-Angel
Here's an example of what I mean ...
Posted by Lissanth
Leave him alone. Never make someone your priority if you are only an option to them. I know i should take my own advice right? I have started to disengage myself from him but it's really difficult because he lives in the same building that i do and every movement he makes i hear--not my choice of course! It's just the way it is--it takes extreme discipline to not think about him because the moment i dont--he deliberately slams the door to let me know when he's leaving or plays music loud or something. Grr! Walk away i tell you--he walked away from you months ago for another girl and now he wants to come back?? Something's up. It's possible he may be confused but more likely he's sport fishing.
On the Virgo board, this Gemini woman, Lissanth is creating topics about how she is just an option to a man to whom she has opened herself up to him for him to take her sexually, without any commitment. Now, if people tell her this, which they do .. she then goes on to make excuses about how she feels for him, and only wants him to want her, and excuses about why he is only wanting sex, and how she will wait for him to want her ... eventhough, his actions are clearly showing that she is a piece of ass to him.
But, because she lays herself open to him, for him to take her if he chooses ... she has become on of his options.
she would even say she should take her own advice in this post, and then continued on in here and following posts to thoroughly give herself reason enough to remain an option to him, with legs open for him in case he should decide to want her.
See what I mean here? Geminis are notorious for it. They consider themselves open and free, it is perfectly fine for them to do these things ... yet, for others it is not perfectly fine.
There doesn't appear to be a bridge between the Twins .. just a gap. Either/or are present, but, never any kind of melding of the two.
You or me ... no us.click to expand
this is just a curious question, but, how would you suggest we bridge that gap between our twins?
GeminiSmallMind, what exactly is creepy about it? Please explain?
" .. the majority of others signs (so far by what I've seen on this forum) don't like the Gemini and resort to their "proof" that the Gemini is unfavorable/illogical but assuming that "proof" refers to the mass of union understanding."
Gemini is likely the least liked not only in this forum, also in RL, according to my RL and the people who are in it. And funny thing is ... very few are aware of sun signs. For example, there are 12 people where I work, and two of those people, the other co-workers cannot deal with, hate going to work when they have to work with one of the two.
And nobody except me even cares to know that they are both Geminis ... so my point here is, people who couldn't even care a less where planets are placed at birth, still consider Gems being of lower life forms.
I've brought this topic up before, I guess a couple years ago now .. and some Gems got what I was saying, while others merely took offense, because that's all they know how to do when faced with truths in which they don't like to hear. But, this is real, people, generally speaking, don't like Geminis.
And when I brought this topic up before, my intentions were the same as they are now .... for the Gemini awareness to heal from this. For the most part, a Gemini will respond with something totally negative like .... you're just jealous, you're just a hater .. or somethign to that effect. Which in reality, to say those things means nothing really because people aren't on the Pisces board talking about Pisces being jealous all the time or a hater all the time .. it's to the Gemini that this is bestowed, for whatever reason .. so to have a response like that is illogical.
I mean seriously .. why would anybody be jealous of a person who is dispised? Do you honestly think we all go about life upset because we can't be dispised as much as you?
Yet, that is the response ... when what should be the response is listening to why others are upset so you can find a way to heal yourself, so nobody thinks of you, like they do the other Geminis.
I have a dear friend like this ... she's a Gem/Canc cusper, sun still in Gem .. and she always does this when she is presented with people who think she's a wanker, and trust me, she is faced with it all the time. Instead of just getting upset ((((((((that)))))))) someone feels this way and retaliating .. she wants to know ((((((((((why)))))))))) someone feels this way so she can adjust herself, if necessary.
Gemini is likely the least liked not only in this forum, also in RL, according to my RL and the people who are in it. And funny thing is ... very few are aware of sun signs. For example, there are 12 people where I work, and two of those people, the other co-workers cannot deal with, hate going to work when they have to work with one of the two.
And nobody except me even cares to know that they are both Geminis ... so my point here is, people who couldn't even care a less where planets are placed at birth, still consider Gems being of lower life forms.
I've brought this topic up before, I guess a couple years ago now .. and some Gems got what I was saying, while others merely took offense, because that's all they know how to do when faced with truths in which they don't like to hear. But, this is real, people, generally speaking, don't like Geminis.
And when I brought this topic up before, my intentions were the same as they are now .... for the Gemini awareness to heal from this. For the most part, a Gemini will respond with something totally negative like .... you're just jealous, you're just a hater .. or somethign to that effect. Which in reality, to say those things means nothing really because people aren't on the Pisces board talking about Pisces being jealous all the time or a hater all the time .. it's to the Gemini that this is bestowed, for whatever reason .. so to have a response like that is illogical.
I mean seriously .. why would anybody be jealous of a person who is dispised? Do you honestly think we all go about life upset because we can't be dispised as much as you?
Yet, that is the response ... when what should be the response is listening to why others are upset so you can find a way to heal yourself, so nobody thinks of you, like they do the other Geminis.
I have a dear friend like this ... she's a Gem/Canc cusper, sun still in Gem .. and she always does this when she is presented with people who think she's a wanker, and trust me, she is faced with it all the time. Instead of just getting upset ((((((((that)))))))) someone feels this way and retaliating .. she wants to know ((((((((((why)))))))))) someone feels this way so she can adjust herself, if necessary.
It appears to me that Gems in here like to hear themselves say out loud that they "think" about everything, and that they crave communication and that they view everything from all angles ....... when in reality, when faced with this truth about themselves, they actually put a shield up around themselves so that they can remain ignorant to it .. and then just say that the other person is simply jealous of them.
Think about that ^^^^^^^^^^^ ..... if you are indeed the mental beings you proclaim to be.
Think about that ^^^^^^^^^^^ ..... if you are indeed the mental beings you proclaim to be.
Posted by Scorpiosity
GeminiSmallMind, what exactly is creepy about it? Please explain?
I would, but I changed my mind. I know that fucks with you little Arachnids. Yuck!
I have mixed feelings about Gems but maybe thats because I know very few "evolved" ones. My best friend of 17 years is a Gemini and we have fought so many damn times! At one point she threatened to stab me with the imaginery knife in her pocket over a case of mis-freaking-communication. We always end up talking again, and even if we swear itll never be the same... it is. We're right back to being best friends within 6 months, but we learned about the space thing between us. I've been told this by a Gem in the past, and I find it to be true only with the "evolved" ones... that Gem's are very protective of Pisceans. She used to scare the crap out of people who wanted to fight me as a kid... and my teacher from my college is a Gem and she's very protective of me when it comes to the Scorpio that I date. I love them both, but I have to admit, they can be a little phoney at times... it's not that bad but I see it (not enough to really piss me off). We're all human, but they do come to me, my teacher more than my best friend, looking to unload things because she feels she is strong for others and then when shit hits the fan that she wants to explode. So I've had to sit her down, mind you I'm 10 years younger (to some that actually matters lol), and explain to her that bottling her emotions to f her mind up.
My best friend on the other hand used to be straight up evil. She admits to it too, because all she wanted to do was fight and play games with people for a long time. Now she has a son, and she has reformed for his sake (and mostly because he brought so much happiness into her life that she became more positive). We used to clash as friends on the phone and hanging out, but we always got over it. The only difference now from then is that when we'd fight as teenagers, we'd get over it but still passionately disagree and it would just end up coming up again later. Nowadays, we sit down and state our cases, listen, assess, and respect each others opinions. I love my relationship with her, even if sometimes she can say things that are soooo inappropriate! LOL As a kid she claims I kept her sane... I'd prevent her from making a total ass out of herself sometimes with her blunt brutal honesty... and she'd always put my emotional butt into perpective... again it just took her a while to learn how to do it nicely though.
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My best friend on the other hand used to be straight up evil. She admits to it too, because all she wanted to do was fight and play games with people for a long time. Now she has a son, and she has reformed for his sake (and mostly because he brought so much happiness into her life that she became more positive). We used to clash as friends on the phone and hanging out, but we always got over it. The only difference now from then is that when we'd fight as teenagers, we'd get over it but still passionately disagree and it would just end up coming up again later. Nowadays, we sit down and state our cases, listen, assess, and respect each others opinions. I love my relationship with her, even if sometimes she can say things that are soooo inappropriate! LOL As a kid she claims I kept her sane... I'd prevent her from making a total ass out of herself sometimes with her blunt brutal honesty... and she'd always put my emotional butt into perpective... again it just took her a while to learn how to do it nicely though.
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Ah, and upstream fish! Refreshing!
Now this is my issue with the Gems that I do not believe have evolved. There are two in my office, and I would like to choke one of them sometimes. The other one is just phoney, but she is still kind. She can be very very sweet, but sometimes it seems SO FORCED. Since she does not bother me I can deal with her. Now the second Gem in my office is annoying. I would really appreciate advice on how to deal with her because I work here, and distancing myself seems to make her want to be my friend more or something. She is the office gossiper... which I wont act like I dont gossip, but I keep it to a minimum, that stuff is so tiring. I mean she talks about the most retarded things, and it can be so small minded (e.g.- she's racist, and thinks her shit doesnt stink). I work with my mother so for a while she would play games with my mom to make me jealous, and I didn't get jealous so much as I was disgusted. Lately, she has been prying into my business... I have caught her over my shoulder reading text messages of mine while I am responding to someone. She sneaks up on me sometimes and I don't think most Gems are like this (I sure as hell hope the all aren't) but she' immediately goes from hi to an invasive question about my life. I want to back hand the shit out of her when she does it, but instead I give her a one word answer and slowly inch away. At work this week I am on the phones, and to paint a picture, the receptionist desk is close to her desk now.. like right outside of her office. (she's the only other person in the office around my age, 24) So what she has been doing today is walking by the receptionist desk where I am located, staring at my computer screen, and walking down the hall.. just to turn right back around at the end of the hallway, and walk right back across me to stare at my screen again. I mean it's disgusting how nosey she is. I've heard through the office politicians that her usual people to speak to (which includes the other gemini) aren't speaking to her right now, everyone else in the office just finds her immature and stays away from her. So I guess it's possible she is desperate to have an office buddy... but holy shit I'd love to just teach a lesson, but I know it's not appropriate since we work in the same company. I'm just searching for a solution that is practical for this situation. Ignoring just attracts the nosey little caca talker even more. Helpppp she's a headache, I need DXP advils!
Domino,
That's way too deep for that rigid, downstream fish to understand and accept. I've tried to enlighten that fool a while back. She wants to hate us, and finds every excuse to do so. She was with a Gemini man that spanked her. So, she thinks she knows us so well. She couldn't be more wrong. Nobody knows us because we are the shapeshifters of the zodiac. It's impossible. She hasn't even learned the obvious. P-Angel is just a damn fool. Plain and simple.
That's way too deep for that rigid, downstream fish to understand and accept. I've tried to enlighten that fool a while back. She wants to hate us, and finds every excuse to do so. She was with a Gemini man that spanked her. So, she thinks she knows us so well. She couldn't be more wrong. Nobody knows us because we are the shapeshifters of the zodiac. It's impossible. She hasn't even learned the obvious. P-Angel is just a damn fool. Plain and simple.
Of course u changed your mind, any attempt at an answer would have showed the limited thinking of your small mind. Willful Ignorance, yuck.
^^^It is amazing that this thread drew out the emotional ones. Sucker!
That's right, keep dancing around you clown.
Emotional? Very. Masters at controlling those emotions. Damn right. You should take notes and stop dancing around strictly for other's entertainment.
"you think you are 100% right?"
I know I'm right .. as does every Gem in here when they have to endure another thread started about hating on Gemini's.
Like I said .. only a few will actually 'get' what I said ... all others will take offense because they won't understand. And you all have thoroughly proven that there isn't any interest in understanding .... looping back to my assessment of ...
.. it's the Gem that isn't understood, rather, the Gem refusing to understand other people.
Sobeit ........... have fun being miserable the next time someone hates on you, and don't ever think about "why" they feel this way .. just retaliate ... as always.
meanwhile ...... I'm never hated on 😄
I know I'm right .. as does every Gem in here when they have to endure another thread started about hating on Gemini's.
Like I said .. only a few will actually 'get' what I said ... all others will take offense because they won't understand. And you all have thoroughly proven that there isn't any interest in understanding .... looping back to my assessment of ...
.. it's the Gem that isn't understood, rather, the Gem refusing to understand other people.
Sobeit ........... have fun being miserable the next time someone hates on you, and don't ever think about "why" they feel this way .. just retaliate ... as always.
meanwhile ...... I'm never hated on 😄
Again, P-Angel getting it wrong. What a whack job. How does a person not know when they are friggin crazy? An upstream Piscean once said: "Comdemnation without investigation is the height of ignorance." Yet this fool keeps playing the same broken record. P-Angel you are exactly where you should be. There is justice in the world.
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Spoken like a true arachnid. Boy, you guys are dumb! Dumb as a bag of rocks. The reason why you are so determined is because you know how dumb you are. You try to overcompisate for it by being determined. So dumb that when getting your ass kicked you still keep coming back for more. Man, Scorpios are the dumbest in the Zodiac. Go kill somebody like the axe murderer you are known to be. Fraud! Dance on that, Psycho! M/F?
"I'm not miserable with you. Just frustrated. Not understanding why you pose to know everything due to, what, your age?"
Nope, not age .. just observation.
If people said to you, you have bad breath consistently ... would you keep blowing in their face, or would you get mouth wash, and think ... damn, I need a dentist?
If people kept telling you that your colors aren't matching consistently, and you get upset because they tell you this .... why are you upset? Because you are being told something, or because you want your colors to match? What are you going to do?
And again .. I am right ... look at the sheer volume of people who put Gemini's at the bottom of the list. You can take that as you like, you can do as I predicted you would because truth of self is too scarry to face ... the fact is, people put Gemini's at the bottom of the list.
That doesn't mean you're wrong, it doesn't mean you're bad ..... it means people put you at the bottom of the list.
So, what do you do about it? Do you attempt to be a good person so people will not put you on the bottom of the list? Or do you just be beligerant, and indigantly say .... You're just jealous?
And of course, you guys know this already .... because you make threads about how people hate you and are jealous of you .. in fact, the longest thread in this room that has been going on for years, addresses this very thing .. and every new Gem that comes here pulls it up, and so their very first post is embracing this negative quality.
Age has nothing to do with this .... you say you are mental beings, who don't let emotions get in the way of your logic ... yet, when faced with a truth, your emotions rule, while logic isn't anywhere in sight.
Nope, not age .. just observation.
If people said to you, you have bad breath consistently ... would you keep blowing in their face, or would you get mouth wash, and think ... damn, I need a dentist?
If people kept telling you that your colors aren't matching consistently, and you get upset because they tell you this .... why are you upset? Because you are being told something, or because you want your colors to match? What are you going to do?
And again .. I am right ... look at the sheer volume of people who put Gemini's at the bottom of the list. You can take that as you like, you can do as I predicted you would because truth of self is too scarry to face ... the fact is, people put Gemini's at the bottom of the list.
That doesn't mean you're wrong, it doesn't mean you're bad ..... it means people put you at the bottom of the list.
So, what do you do about it? Do you attempt to be a good person so people will not put you on the bottom of the list? Or do you just be beligerant, and indigantly say .... You're just jealous?
And of course, you guys know this already .... because you make threads about how people hate you and are jealous of you .. in fact, the longest thread in this room that has been going on for years, addresses this very thing .. and every new Gem that comes here pulls it up, and so their very first post is embracing this negative quality.
Age has nothing to do with this .... you say you are mental beings, who don't let emotions get in the way of your logic ... yet, when faced with a truth, your emotions rule, while logic isn't anywhere in sight.
People are jealous. Because we say what we feel not caring about your emotions and don't apolgize for it. That's where the hate comes from. I knew when I put this thread up it would draw out the emotional ones. But, P-Angel is a downer is all. I can't remember when I've been truly angry at someone. You see, Gemini's are the epitome of "Free". That would make anyone jealous. If you were a slave, or in prison. You'd be jealous of someone on the outside doing all the things you can't do. The only people that hate Gemini's are the "emotional" ones from my point of view. They can't stand that we are free. So I actually pity them. Let them stay locked up. It's happier in the world when they don't let their emotions screw up peace. Gemini's can be extremely critical of themselves, and are very aware of their flaws.
Alas, If you have to go to the extremes of hating. Then, you really need to get a life. Hate is a very strong emotion. I don't have that one. I don't even hate P-Angel. I pity her too.
Alas, If you have to go to the extremes of hating. Then, you really need to get a life. Hate is a very strong emotion. I don't have that one. I don't even hate P-Angel. I pity her too.
Isn't Aquarius supposedly the least emotional? Yet, they have their own little "dislike" thread going on too.
Posted by P-Angel
And to carry it even further .... this Gemini, once angered, will go to other rooms to express thier irritation, as if these other rooms hold some sort of responsibility ...
You're right about that but within 20 mins or so we'll be probably the only ones to start laughing after our rage. I can apologize easily and KNOW that I messed up and admit it without a problem to my partner.
Posted by GeminiMind
People are jealous. Because we say what we feel not caring about your emotions and don't apolgize for it. That's where the hate comes from. I knew when I put this thread up it would draw out the emotional ones. But, P-Angel is a downer is all. I can't remember when I've been truly angry at someone. You see, Gemini's are the epitome of "Free". That would make anyone jealous. If you were a slave, or in prison. You'd be jealous of someone on the outside doing all the things you can't do. The only people that hate Gemini's are the "emotional" ones from my point of view. They can't stand that we are free. So I actually pity them. Let them stay locked up. It's happier in the world when they don't let their emotions screw up peace. Gemini's can be extremely critical of themselves, and are very aware of their flaws.
Alas, If you have to go to the extremes of hating. Then, you really need to get a life. Hate is a very strong emotion. I don't have that one. I don't even hate P-Angel. I pity her too.
Amen brother.
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