trying to read charts here....any help?

im Gemini he is Virgo
06/02/1983

Aspect

09/17/1982

Orb/Value

Sun Square Venus 0.03 -318
Venus Trine Mars 1.50 82
Venus Square Pluto 0.33 -104
Mars Square Venus 0.18 -169
Jupiter Conjunction Uranus 4.08 67
Saturn Conjunction Pluto 2.49 68
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 4.00 53
Pluto Conjunction Pluto 1.28 68
338 -591 -253

-318 Square Sun - Venus

Negative aspect: The two persons are drawn towards each other, but the union is unstable, because there will inevitably be division, probably through misunderstanding on the sexual level, which may frustrate the partner.

-169 Square Venus - Mars

Negative aspect: A love that is particularly based on physical understanding, a passionate love with all its negative sides: possessiveness, jealousy, aggressiveness. Such a union is unlikely to last, but if it does, there are a lot of hurt feelings and stormy confrontations. The sexual attraction is especially strong at the beginning, but disagreements often have a major impact on the sex life. They end up on opposite ends of the couch frequently.

-104 Square Venus - Pluto

Negative aspect: A very strong passion but destructive, to be avoided if at all possible. Jealousy, possessiveness, and resentment are very possible. If the relationship ends, it is difficult to remain friends, as one person feels burned.

82 Trine Venus - Mars

Positive aspect: This is a union that is particularly based on physical understanding, passionate love. There is a lot of affection between them, and they need to express it physically. Plenty of attraction here.

68 Conjunction Saturn - Pluto

Positive aspect: Favorable union.

67 Conjunction Jupiter - Uranus

Positive aspect: This union can be favorable, if the two mutually respect each other. They both like their independence, their freedom of thought and action.

my natal chart:
Houses
Ascendant 16?? 11' Virgo
2nd house 08?? 18' Libra
3rd house 06?? 45' Scorpio
4th house 11?? 54' Sagittarius
5th house 19?? 02' Capricorn
6th house 20?? 43' Aquarius
7th house 16?? 11' Pisces
8th house 08?? 18' Aries
9th house 06?? 45' Taurus
Midheaven 11?? 54' Gemini
11th house 19?? 02' Cancer
12th house 20?? 43' Leo
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Planets
Sun 11?? 25' Gemini in 9. house
Moon 26?? 11' Aquarius in 6. house
Mercury 18?? 47' Taurus in 9. house
Venus 26?? 09' Cancer in 11. house
Mars 11?? 41' Gemini in

Mars 11?? 41' Gemini in 9. house
Jupiter 05?? 12' Sagittarius in 3. house
Saturn 28?? 47' Libra in 2. house
Uranus 07?? 39' Sagittarius in 3. house
Neptune 27?? 46' Sagittarius in 4. house
Pluto 26?? 56' Libra in 2. house
Vertex 28?? 30' Aquarius
East Point 08?? 47' Virgo
Aspects
Conjunction Sun/Mars 00?? 16'

Opposition Sun/Jupiter 06?? 13'

Opposition Sun/Uranus 03?? 45'

Trine Moon/Saturn 02?? 37'

Sextile Moon/Neptune 01?? 36'

Trine Moon/Pluto 00?? 45'

Square Venus/Saturn 02?? 38'

Square Venus/Pluto 00?? 47'

Opposition Mars/Jupiter 06?? 29'

Opposition Mars/Uranus 04?? 01'

Conjunction Jupiter/Uranus 02?? 27'

Sextile Saturn/Neptune 01?? 01'

Conjunction Saturn/Pluto 01?? 51'

Sextile Neptune/Pluto 00?? 50'

his chart:

Houses
Ascendant 00?? 37' Sagittarius
2nd house 03?? 50' Capricorn
3rd house 16?? 41' Aquarius
4th house 25?? 45' Pisces
5th house 23?? 56' Aries
6th house 14?? 21' Taurus
7th house 00?? 37' Gemini
8th house 03?? 50' Cancer
9th house 16?? 41' Leo
Midheaven 25?? 45' Virgo
11th house 23?? 56' Libra
12th house 14?? 21' Scorpio

Planets
Sun 24?? 17' Virgo in 9. house
Moon 24?? 11' Virgo in 9. house
Mercury 17?? 20' Libra in 10. house
Venus 11?? 55' Virgo in 9. house
Mars 28?? 17' Scorpio in 12. house
Jupiter 08?? 52' Scorpio in 11. house
Saturn 21?? 49' Libra in 10. house
Uranus 01?? 55' Sagittarius in 1. house
Neptune 23?? 48' Sagittarius in 1. house
Pluto 25?? 31' Libra in 11. house
Vertex 14?? 18' Cancer
East Point 26?? 25' Sagittarius


Aspects
Conjunction Sun/Moon 00?? 06'

Sextile Sun/Mars 03?? 60'

Square Sun/Neptune 00?? 29'

Sextile Moon/Mars 04?? 06'

Square Moon/Neptune 00?? 22'

Conjunction Mercury/Saturn 04?? 29'

Conjunction Mercury/Pluto 08?? 11'

Sextile Venus/Jupiter 03?? 03'

Conjunction Mars/Uranus 03?? 38'

Sextile Saturn/Neptune 01?? 60'

Conjunction Saturn/Pluto 03?? 42'

Sextile Neptune/Pluto 01?? 42'

thank you...and yes, that is very true of me.. and hard to let go...even when I know I need to