Unsolved mystery

Posted too soon, always do that.

So I came to get some insight into a Gemini friend behavior. She's been shady here and there but we have some deep conversations and I most of the time feel like she had a good heart. Then she does some shyt that baffles me. So here it is;

we were texting on and off today about different subjects. First I was there for her about her blocking an old guy she dated on social media, then we were joking about work stuff. Later in the day she tells me she was sad about her best coworker friend was leaving (I know him as well)so I'm consoling her.

At that moment a mutual friend of ours texts me about tickets she has to an event that she can't make and asked if I wanted them. So I text my gem friend asking if this same friend asked her about the tickets. She first says no which event? Then immediately after tells me that the mutual friend is actually going to my gem friends job to watch a women speaker (business/networking). Then she starts shooing all these texts saying "you should come too!!" And starts to describe the event.

I'm sorry but that is shady as hell. Why wouldn't she have mentioned it to be before? I feel like she got caught or thought she would get caught once our mutual friend would have told me where she was going. What is the purpose of this? Did she not want me to go and then just covered her ass?? I basically told her thanks but I can't make it bc truly I didn't even want to be around her.

Also it's hard to tell, but I know her texting style. She was texting like 3 long texts back to back bc she may have known it was shady. It pissed me off bc I'm there for her all day to hear about these guy issues and then something that would benefit me she leaves me out until she needs to cover ass. It's just effed up

I think, you maybe looking too much into it....

Maybe, she knows someone who would benefit more from it? Maybe, she needs a break? Hell, I don't even want to hang out with my hubby 24/7. Ppl need their space, especially a gem.

Or, maybe, knowing another friend that needs it more, she just didn't want to hurt your feelings? Granted, if she would've been honest with you it may have been handled differently. But, hindsight is only 20/20........

Thanks for your response. I can get the space thing, but I would rather someone be up front about that at this point in my life. It might bother me but it wouldn't because we are friends. Like I said I also need my space. But if she needs space why is she intimidating texts to me all?

I knew it may seem like I'm taking it the wrong way. Can be slightly possible, but what bothers me is that this mutual friend is not even good friends with her. I just think she's being flaky/shady.

I already keep my distance from this gem friend bc she has done some underhanded things in the past. Helps to understand gem motives.

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Posted by aNEWday
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I understand you wanting her to be upfront, but if you haven't told her that you can't expect her to know that.... and, I would still initiate txts if I still wanna be friends. A lil misunderstanding is not worth losing a friend over...

So yea I feel like she knows that I would be annoyed. I would like to add that she has a Scorpio Mars, for what it's worth. This morning she commented adding me in a funny thing on social media. I feel like she's trying to be nice to me after no contact about this last night.

You are right. It's been too much and I want to ask her why she did that without coming off as possessive or crazy, because really I'm not lol. I just like straightforwardness, and I have never brought any of this up in he past even though I sense she is a very smart gem who knows exactly what's going on. I still think it's shady. Someone who feels they did nothing g wrong would not rely back in the way she did.

Sometimes us Gems don't know how to say things and get concerned with hurting others feelings. agree with misslissa...if you want her to be straight up with you all the time then say so...another thing, were you straight with her on how you feel about her shady behavior?

No, I never have brought it up in be past. But through her actions, I knew she is aware of my change in behavior. Like I said I sense she knows exactly what's going on. I guess the fact is though that she may know but it won't be clear until I ever bring it up to her. I need to find a way to bring it up because I continue to distrust her, and I don't like to be around ppl like that.