What about a Pisces? For a relationship?

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gemini16
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My best female friend is a Pisces (I'm female too).

Recently I started dating a Pisces male. I'm Gemini, Aquarius moon, Libra rising - yup, all air! I'm not sure about the Pisces male, but gee, he reminds me so much of my best friend. My best friend is adorable, but she does get on my nerves from time to time. Anyway, Pisces male is a good kisser. I nearly let things go, but then he kissed me yesterday and I'm interested in exploring this a little more 😉 Plus he makes me laugh!

(For the record, I'm the girl with the crush on my Libran guy friend. That's not happening, so I'm dating. I still think Librans are good for me).

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P-Angel
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G16 .. I remember about your episode with the Libra man, and I agree that Gems and Libras seem to be ok in relationships. In fact, it appears that same element people do pretty good relating. Sorry yours didn't work out 😢

My first husband was a Gemini and it was very wrong .. for both of us. We loved each other, no question .. but, we didn't understand each other. What I find so funny now, is that I understand Gemini's pretty darn good and have many in my life .... but, dating (and marriage) was a trainwreck.

The problem with my experience with this Gem was his rage .. he was very violent .. had uncontrollable anger issues. And though, I attribute this to his extremely violent childhood, which left him tramatized .. I also see a correlation with him being Gem and me Pisces and not being able to relate and how this anger, though, the cause was instilled in him ... the effect I had on him perpetuated it.

Gems and Pisces are very similiar in the aspect that us two signs are multiple .. you are twin personalities/we also are dual. How I think it effects us both is that you never know if Jekyll or Hyde is going to be the one to handle a circumstance that arises .. and either of these two emotional positions within us, are actually heavily influenced by our terms of relating within a partnership.

So, though, my relationship didn't work out with a Gem, because every time he flipped out and started pounding his fists ... I switched over to my "I don't give a fuck attitude", which only created a situation which he would be angrier and me more hateful ... I truly believe that this doesn't have to be the case within this partnership so long as the two involved realize that the other has an alter-ego and you are careful in remembering NOT to push buttons when the evil, "I don't care" person is expressing.

Pisces people can and often do .. change course in mid-stream. And Gemini's are often concerned with people taking their feelings into consideration and getting hung up on the whole, "That's not fair to me" position ... so, this union could be tricky, since when we jump into another current, we aren't thinking about what's fair.

However, it can work .. so long as you keep in mind that we both are very similiar in how we handle aggressions .. which is, we switch to the "Other One", lol
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"I would love to hear some advices about how you can react in these situations. It is so true....."

My response to your question would be - the way to react to this situation or any situation is to be your self, one cannot control the actions of another only yourself. Continue to be happy and going on with your business and let him/her express themselves in their way.

What is important is that YOU remain at peace and not let another's experience taint yours. All will be well. 😉
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I've been with my pisces man for 2 years and man is he unbearbly in love wit me. my bday is june 3 and i believe since im more spiritual then any miss getabout gemini, he feels a connection to me thats inseperable! i never knew he'd be so in love until jus recently about a year ago things starting getting rough and the more the challenges came, the more he jumped in rode it out wit me, thru all the insecurities in all! i say take it for a whirlwind! see where it goes, remember all relationship are here to teach u about urself and also to conduct moral standard values!