What do you prefer between..

A person who will stick by your side despite everything you do that could damage a relationship (like lies, pushing the person away, flirting)

OR

A person who will tell you hell because you like a good challenge and a good chase?

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A person who will be the most understanding ever about everything?

OR

A person who will tell you everything you do wrong in order for you to correct them?

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Bonus question:

If you are done with someone. Will you act detach and hope the relationship will die on itself, or just slam the door for good and move on?

By "Tell you hell" I actually mean, Give you hell.

i'd walk! there's no sense in staying when it's. just. not. going. to. work. out.! no sense in staying when you're not respected!! *shrugs*

My man does both. He will challenge me, speak his mind, AND stay with me despite my faults, and I admire him for it. But, I understand that if I were to cheat (physically or emotionally), then he would walk away. That's his line in the sand, and I know that being with him means I need to respect that line.

You aren't obligated to be nice. You aren't obligated to be what he thinks of as "more open-minded". You are only obligated to find someone who is willing to give you what you need without judging your needs as right or wrong